Girls That Go Into Your Mobile Phone?

[soulforge]

Has this ever happened to you?

Did your LTR or Plate go into your phone and check your messages, calls etc.

Is it a deal breaker for you?

Personally I find it annoying as fuk & it's pretty much an invasion of your privacy.

Never once have I been tempted to help myself to a chicks phone or her diary.

I could be wrong, but have read somewhere girls do this, much more then the guys.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No because my phone is locked. Why someone wouldn't have a locked phone these days is beyond me...mainly in case you lost it somewhere and random people were able to access your data and info

 

[ThisIsSparta]

No way Jose!

Phone is allways locked with numeric code.

Just imagine the havoc a psycho-bytch can wreak in one hour with all the shyt going over your phone today.
For example a wife producing ammo for family courts, good look explaining how that " if you leave me, il kill us all" message wasnt sent by you.

If anything double-lock it!

 

[soulforge]

No because my phone is locked. Why someone wouldn't have a locked phone these days is beyond me...mainly in case you lost it somewhere and random people were able to access your data and info

Off course your phone will be locked, but some girls will look for an opportunity when you're phone isn't locked.

It happened to me once, when I left my phone on the bed unlocked because I was streaming something.

 

[johnrambo]

Personally I find it annoying as fuk & it's pretty much an invasion of your privacy.

If that ever happens, ask to see her phone for reciprocity.

 

[soulforge]

And set a pattern for checking each other's phones? No thank you. I don't want to check her phone and she stays out of mine.

Never have I wanted to check a girls phone.

You won't like what you find in there

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi SoulForge,
As Mother would say....We never anticipate in others things we haven't contemplated doing ourselves.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I remember posting on Loveshack.org back in the day, most of the posters there will encourage their female members to do this but discourage the males, I remember having like a 3 page back N fourth with this psycho chick about it.

Boundaries and limitations are important, you'd be very surprised how many women get offended by this boundary, set it early on so you know if your dealing with a crazy or not, many women carry this double standard.

 

[Solomon]

Only one that should be able to go through your phone is yourself and your wife

 

[soulforge]

My recent ex went through my phone, unfortunately I left it unlocked, only for a brief time, so I can go to the bathroom.

In the short while I was gone, she went through all my WhatsApp messages & contacts. She found some conversations with girls that I spoke to, well before me & her went exclusive.

She didn't like what she saw.. I told her straight, well tuff chit.. Teaches you right for going through a person's private property.

Two weeks later, we was sat around the dinner table & she demanded that I let her look through my phone.

I told her to get lost, that will never happen.

Also told her, never ever think that you can simply demand my phone off me whenever you want, not in your wildest dreams.

Some of these girls are literally crazy.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Set a 30 second screen timeout.

Never hand your phone to a woman.

Turn off all notifications.

Keep your phone muted and face down or in yer pocket.

 

[soulforge]

Set a 30 second screen timeout.

Never hand your phone to a woman.

Turn off all notifications.

Keep your phone muted and face down or in yer pocket.

I have my WhatsApp message alerts turned off.

The fvking cheek on some of these women.

 

[soulforge]

Yes, and only take it out when necessary, so not to chat with anyone while you're with a woman.
Also, when you're not on your phone when in the company of 'your woman', don't allow her to be on her phone either. (As a retired personal security consultant I tell them their phone use puts me at risk.)

What if you run an online business, then using your phone would be necessary as a man.

Remember there is a difference between using your phone in order to advance your online business... And using your phone to chat to random people on social media.

Business phone usage & social media phone usage are two different things.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

If you don't want your woman's face in her phone you arrange it so you don't have your face in yours either.

There was a time when men were not reachable 24 hours a day, we're just not as important as we think we are bro - unless you're an on-call SWAT member or an on-call cardiovascular surgeon you're just not that indispensable. Carve a few hours out of your schedule and leave the phone off.

If you need to be reachable set an emergency bypass on the number you must hear from, mute all others.

A fun exercise that might tell you something about yourself:

Practice leaving your phone at home while you do a half hour errand. Do you feel weird? Naked? Incomplete? If so you have a problem. Practice doing this a few times a day, hell I bet most of yalls take your phone to the bathroom with you. Do this for yourself - practice discipline and control. It is the Way.

What if you run an online business, then using your phone would be necessary as a man.

Remember there is a difference between using your phone in order to advance your online business... And using your phone to chat to random people on social media.

Business phone usage & social media phone usage are two different things.

 

[soulforge]

If you don't want your woman's face in her phone you arrange it so you don't have your face in yours either.

There was a time when men were not reachable 24 hours a day, we're just not as important as we think we are bro - unless you're an on-call SWAT member or an on-call cardiovascular surgeon you're just not that indispensable. Carve a few hours out of your schedule and leave the phone off.

If you need to be reachable set an emergency bypass on the number you must hear from, mute all others.

I somewhat agree with that.. However when you are running online businesses, Sometimes you have no choice to keep up with things on your phone.

It's not like your on social media entertaining yourself... What you are doing on your phone improving your business, makes her life better.

Your success in making money is a WIN for her.

 

[soulforge]

Any woman will understand that, but you will still put your phone face down on the table when you're not using it and demand from the woman to stay off social media while you're out together. Why else do you go out together?


Oh, and we're talking about phone usage out on a date, so your business is not making her life that much better.
Maybe if she were your wife sharing in your wealth, but that is not the case in this scenario.

I agree with this.

I think both men and women spend too much time on the phones.

Two area's where I believe the digital devices should be put aside are..

01. When you are out for a meal
02. When someone has cooked for you & around the dinner table

 

[soulforge]

If you don't want your woman's face in her phone you arrange it so you don't have your face in yours either.

There was a time when men were not reachable 24 hours a day, we're just not as important as we think we are bro - unless you're an on-call SWAT member or an on-call cardiovascular surgeon you're just not that indispensable. Carve a few hours out of your schedule and leave the phone off.

If you need to be reachable set an emergency bypass on the number you must hear from, mute all others.

A fun exercise that might tell you something about yourself:

Practice leaving your phone at home while you do a half hour errand. Do you feel weird? Naked? Incomplete? If so you have a problem. Practice doing this a few times a day, hell I bet most of yalls take your phone to the bathroom with you. Do this for yourself - practice discipline and control. It is the Way.

You know what I totally agree with you.

I think it's important to give the phone a little break sometimes. Especially when it's an occasion like a restaurant or an important family event etc.

I recently have started to practice this.. Sometimes I leave my phone at home, and take a long walk for 1-2 hours in the countryside, around some nice scenery.

I actually suggested to my ex that we try avoid using our phones around the dinner table & enjoy the meal and conversation instead.

She went into an absolute tyrade, and began raging at me!!

 

[soulforge]

I guess that's part of why she's now your ex, I assume.
Women especially are inseparable from their phones.
Still, you can set boundaries. For me it's a non-issue, I don't chat on my phone and the mostly prohibits others at my table to keep their phones in their purses (or pockets).

Yes that was partly the reason, she did other disrespectful chaotic things too which lead to my decision. But this was the last straw. She raged at me with such venom & disrespect.

It was like suggesting to a crack addict, to put the crack down just for a moment lol

And this is the same girl who had the odasity to go through my phone behind my back, and read my private messages.

I think it's a total invasion of privacy when girls do this, for some reason they think it's ok to do.

 

[soulforge]

The difficulty is this > lots of parents allow their children to use digital devices (iPad / Smartphones) to play games or watch TikTok while waiting for the food. I see that everywhere and my ex-wife tried to do the same with our game-addicted autistic teenage son, but I put a stop to that. No digital devices at the dinner table, either at home or outside. My teenage daughter is pretty much chained to her phone, but she enjoys going out and doing 'grown-up things' like having coffee on a terrace and conversing, so she leaves her phone at home or in her bag when she goes into town with me.

Many women under 30 have grown up with digital devices without restriction. And yes, some of my younger kittens are pretty much permanently online, except when they are with me because I don't accept it.

You did the right thing by setting some boundaries for your children. As the man of the house, you have to steer/guide your relationships to a healthy place sometimes.

It's like an addiction for them, but we cannot allow that addiction to utterly take over every moment and event, so a few boundaries do have to be put in place.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Why being so scared of her emotions??

I’m not scared, I’m a private person, my business is my business. Why not avoid it all together? Men solve problems, this is an easy, elegant solution.

If she's a plate should we be scared if she sees a notification from another woman texting us? If you have a gf you shouldn't be cheating anyways and if you do, its with someone who doesn't have your phone.

I never said this is for a plate, but it is for everyone, even in business, plates, dates, even LTRs. I choose not to share everything with everyone always.