Sorry bro, but the idea that inside the community everyone is equal or something is quite flawedView attachment 10995
You a solid dude but recently you diminishing the power and knowledge of your fellow dj and that doesn't make any sense.
Having said that i for one agree with the rest of your post. It's definitely about what she does for you NOW rather than what she might do in a distance future.
Some guys are way better than others. Sad but this is the reality
Even sleeping with 1 girl per year that does not look like a cave troll is something that is not at hand for most guys ( on this forum or not )
You rarely see a guy that has even a bit of traction with girls
Guys with a lot of traction are very rare