A lot of dudes I know who peaked early are a mess entering their 30s.

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To anyone debating the impact money has in helping you meet women.

Take a city like Miami or NYC for example. You cannot live in these cities or their prime areas for meeting women unless you can afford the abnormally high rents. Can some dudes pull it off by permanently crashing on a friend's couch? Yeah but that is some real low value behavior.

If you are not in these cities, you are not meeting these women. Money allows you to live in these sorts of cities stocked with beautiful women. Money grants you access and nothing else. For these women, it is a checklist item at best but one checklist you have to meet.
If you are trying to bang yuppie GenZ & Millennial women I agree, but if you are aiming for single moms, NEETs, Bohemian, rural, working class, and traditionalist women I disagree.
 

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I've been mostly interacting with yuppie/bougie Millennial White women. That's a tough demographic.
Yeah, you need money to be successful with them. You don't need to be a millionaire, but you need a solid six figure job for women that aren't doctors or on that path. Plus, they will only date men that are relatable to them. It doesn't matter if you are a blue collar electrician that makes six figs, they can't relate to one.
 

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There was this popular hockey player at my high school. Let's call him Tony (not his real name). Tony was a chick magnet in high school.

When I used online dating during college, I came across Tony's picture. Sometimes the fall from grace for early bloomers happens well before 30. I think Tony was 22 at the time I saw his picture on a dating site. Amazing how a guy who was viewed as a total stud in high school was resorting to online dating at 22.
 

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There was this popular hockey player at my high school. Let's call him Tony (not his real name). Tony was a chick magnet in high school.

When I used online dating during college, I came across Tony's picture. Sometimes the fall from grace for early bloomers happens well before 30. I think Tony was 22 at the time I saw his picture on a dating site. Amazing how a guy who was viewed as a total stud in high school was resorting to online dating at 22.
He was probably funneling to get more Vagina. I knew a guy who was a Tyrone and buff back in 2008 funneling POF to bang hot cougars and get money out of them. He wasn't doing it for sex but to get money

The game is different when you're on Chad/Tyrone tier lmfaooo
 

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I’m getting strong beta and cope vibes all over this thread. The fact is you will never get your teens and 20s back. If you failed, you failed. It’s more productive to look inwards, then forwards/upwards, than backwards, and cope with whatsboutism and giving energy to guys that have never and will never give a second thought about your existence.

Just my 2 pence.
 

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I’m getting strong beta and cope vibes all over this thread. The fact is you will never get your teens and 20s back. If you failed, you failed. It’s more productive to look inwards, then forwards/upwards, than backwards, and cope with whatsboutism and giving energy to guys that have never and will never give a second thought about your existence.

Just my 2 pence.
Yes, there are experiences that you can only get as younger male and guys that glow up later in life tend to give off a revenge of the nerds energy. It doesn’t matter what these guys are right now, they still wear the trauma and scars from their failures with women and are extremely vindictive and paranoid.
 

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He was probably funneling to get more Vagina. I knew a guy who was a Tyrone and buff back in 2008 funneling POF to bang hot cougars and get money out of them. He wasn't doing it for sex but to get money

The game is different when you're on Chad/Tyrone tier lmfaooo
I got too much honor to ever do that. I have been told I could do that considering my looks but I make enough money as is and I rather make more through my own means rather than cheating it out of women. It takes a certain guy to be able to do that without any conscious so props to him for it.
 

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I've been mostly interacting with yuppie/bougie Millennial White women. That's a tough demographic.
you need money to be successful with them. You don't need to be a millionaire, but you need a solid six figure job for women that aren't doctors or on that path. Plus, they will only date men that are relatable to them. It doesn't matter if you are a blue collar electrician that makes six figs, they can't relate to one.
Some of this is dependent upon age. In Dallas, if you're 30+, a lot of bougie White women expect you to be earning $150,000+/annual. You're also expected to own some status symbol brands too. Bougie White women do tend to seek higher earning white collar guys.

It's better to be a 6'0"+ bouncer with muscles, tattoos, and a motorcycle. If you're that guy, you're more likely to be interacting with strippers and sexy bartenders/breastaurant workers. Those women aren't bougie but they can often have high expectations. The nightclub/strip club bouncer with the motorcycle does get them excited too because he is a total bad boy.

Would a 6.5-7.5 office worker woman go out with a 6'0"+ bouncer with tattoos and a motorcycle? It's not as likely.
 

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Yes, there are experiences that you can only get as younger male and guys that glow up later in life tend to give off a revenge of the nerds energy. It doesn’t matter what these guys are right now, they still wear the trauma and scars from their failures with women and are extremely vindictive and paranoid.
That's why most guys who fail to get decent experiences in their 20s but manage to become high value men in their 30s are unable to accept women their age that look like those that rejected them before.

Just like women with a high body count are unable to bond with a man, men with too many past rejections and failures are unable to commit to a woman.
 

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Some men “peaked too early”. Some men peaked and stayed at their peaks.
 
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