Dear Community,
I have been a follower of topics related with Game but I have just recently discovered SoSuave. I would like to get the community's insight on the following topic.
I'm a 27-year-old (HB 7 I would say) with good career prospects and a three-year relationship under my belt. Before this, I dated non-exclusive for 3 years with some degree of success.
Initially, my current relationship was long-distance, spanning different countries for six months. However, for the past 2.5 years, we've lived in close cities within the same country, allowing us to spend extended periods together. This was a necessary move in order to continue with the relationship.
Still, when we could not be together for longer periods, and as some game-guys would relate, I have been with a couple of side chicks in my town (without any emotional involvement from my end).
We recently made plans to move in together starting in November. Now, I'm considering going forward with it, but I still have moments of doubt. This might be related with some underlying committment aversion.
She's now 29, and we've been creating many good memories during our time together. We have a great connection and a truly healthy and uncomplicated relationship. Its really easy and pleasant for me to be with her.
I'm torn between giving cohabitation a shot, guided by the side of me that wants to see how it unfolds, and the side that fears losing freedom and dealing with potential boredom. My partner is an amazing person who cares deeply for me and supports my goals, even to the extent of relocating for a job opportunity. This is one of the reasons that makes me want to try this out.
On the other hand, I'm confident she'll want to have a child in about 2-3 years, which creates a small internal pressure on me.
From the family side, our families have casually met and get along pretty well, with my parents supportive of our move.
I deeply care for her, and I believe it's a crucial moment for me to make a decision — either to commit and give it a fair try, or not. I know I can still get out from this in case I realize I made a premature move, but I would like to make up my mind beforehand.
I'd greatly appreciate your thoughts, advice, and hearing from anyone who has been in a similar situation.
I have been a follower of topics related with Game but I have just recently discovered SoSuave. I would like to get the community's insight on the following topic.
I'm a 27-year-old (HB 7 I would say) with good career prospects and a three-year relationship under my belt. Before this, I dated non-exclusive for 3 years with some degree of success.
Initially, my current relationship was long-distance, spanning different countries for six months. However, for the past 2.5 years, we've lived in close cities within the same country, allowing us to spend extended periods together. This was a necessary move in order to continue with the relationship.
Still, when we could not be together for longer periods, and as some game-guys would relate, I have been with a couple of side chicks in my town (without any emotional involvement from my end).
We recently made plans to move in together starting in November. Now, I'm considering going forward with it, but I still have moments of doubt. This might be related with some underlying committment aversion.
She's now 29, and we've been creating many good memories during our time together. We have a great connection and a truly healthy and uncomplicated relationship. Its really easy and pleasant for me to be with her.
I'm torn between giving cohabitation a shot, guided by the side of me that wants to see how it unfolds, and the side that fears losing freedom and dealing with potential boredom. My partner is an amazing person who cares deeply for me and supports my goals, even to the extent of relocating for a job opportunity. This is one of the reasons that makes me want to try this out.
On the other hand, I'm confident she'll want to have a child in about 2-3 years, which creates a small internal pressure on me.
From the family side, our families have casually met and get along pretty well, with my parents supportive of our move.
I deeply care for her, and I believe it's a crucial moment for me to make a decision — either to commit and give it a fair try, or not. I know I can still get out from this in case I realize I made a premature move, but I would like to make up my mind beforehand.
I'd greatly appreciate your thoughts, advice, and hearing from anyone who has been in a similar situation.
