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Hamurabimbi

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A key quote: "...getting a first date is indeed the primary barrier to finding a relationship. If you went on four or more first dates in the past year, which is one every three months or ~1% of nights, then it is highly unlikely you are single.’.

i went on >4 1st dates the year i was single. I didn’t stay single.
 
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First dates are easy. For it to turn into anything more is the struggle most men have.
 

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First dates are easy. For it to turn into anything more is the struggle most men have.
Mostly true. A lot of men are getting dates, especially if they swipe/text enough on dating apps or send a massive amount of DMs on Instagram. The problem often becomes having too many worthless interactions, like "one date, no sex, no second date" type interactions. Tech-based dating methods are a great way to arrange many low quality dates.
 

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Mostly true. A lot of men are getting dates, especially if they swipe/text enough on dating apps or send a massive amount of DMs on Instagram. The problem often becomes having too many worthless interactions, like "one date, no sex, no second date" type interactions. Tech-based dating methods are a great way to arrange many low quality dates.
I dated a girl on Tinder who told me she liked s guy’s bio. But didn’t find him attractive. So they matched & went on a date. She said she told him up front. :’No kissing. No sex’. He still took her out to dinner & a baseball game.
 

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I dated a girl on Tinder who told me she liked s guy’s bio. But didn’t find him attractive. So they matched & went on a date. She said she told him up front. :’No kissing. No sex’. He still took her out to dinner & a baseball game.
That guy has zero self-respect. No idea why the woman would waste her time either.

I asked out one woman and she claimed that she was in a relationship but would go for drinks at a bar with me as friends. I told her I didn't do male-female friendship and I passed on her offer. Why did I pass? I have self-respect.
 

Hamurabimbi

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That guy has zero self-respect. No idea why the woman would waste her time either.

I asked out one woman and she claimed that she was in a relationship but would go for drinks at a bar with me as friends. I told her I didn't do male-female friendship and I passed on her offer. Why did I pass? I have self-respect.
She said his bio really intrigued her. She said they had a nice time snd had a great conversation. She got free food, drinks. a ballgame & nice conversation. A win for her.
 

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Screw that. Been on hundreds of dates in the past 2-3 years. Probably met 2 girls that were GF material.

Innoncent/non-calculating eyes
Beauty
Kindness
Curiosity
Femininity

Extremely rare.
 

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Mostly true. A lot of men are getting dates, especially if they swipe/text enough on dating apps or send a massive amount of DMs on Instagram. The problem often becomes having too many worthless interactions, like "one date, no sex, no second date" type interactions. Tech-based dating methods are a great way to arrange many low quality dates.
Sadly this has been my experience. Either that, or girls who flake/ghost me.
 

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She said his bio really intrigued her. She said they had a nice time snd had a great conversation. She got free food, drinks. a ballgame & nice conversation. A win for her.
Guy thought he could win her over with his charm. Can't really blame him for shooting his shot. It's not like sex, or even a kiss, is guaranteed on a first date anyway.
 

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Guy thought he could win her over with his charm. Can't really blame him for shooting his shot. It's not like sex, or even a kiss, is guaranteed on a first date anyway.
I don’t know what I’d do if a girl told me this right out of the gate. But. My guess is this. guy had great game. If he could get a Tinder date on bio alone. That’s pretty good.
 
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