Anyone had an ex circle back when you least expected it?

[soulforge]

I got a text message from this chick I was seeing maybe 3-4 years ago.

Not heard a peep from her in maybe 2 years, she was in a relationship for a while according to a social media post I seen of her.

Anyway last night, out of the blue I get this text message

"Hey text me please"

I'm like huh what the fuk.. Anyway I didn't reply back as I don't even find her attractive anymore, she put on some serious weight and I don't smash fat chicks.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Just don't respond. Either she'll disappear again or she'll escalate and you will know what she's after.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Yeah, all the time. The Crazy Betty thread is on my signature

 

[soulforge]

I think I know what might be going on.

Damn! So I looked up her Facebook and she has pics of herself with hardly any hair, like almost bald.

This woman used to have long blonde hair.

I have a feeling she might have gotten cancer or something!

Maybe that's why she texted, and that text came through like around 11pm which is quite late.

I dunno I think maybe best not to get involved and leave it be.

 

[johnrambo]

I have a feeling she might have gotten cancer or something!

I think she wants you to "do" her as a Last Rite I'd pass. Is cancer contagious?

 

[soulforge]

I think she wants you to "do" her as a Last Rite I'd pass. Is cancer contagious?

Haha oh chit. That one is wrong on many levels.

Don't want to be cvnt, but I think I don't want to be getting involved with this one

 

[Ricky]

Multiple exes have contacted me over the years. Yes sometimes they want sex. I am good, i cant blame them

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Yup.

 

[soulforge]

Yup.

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It does happen, they do come back.

However once they have been back out in the streets, and taken several other diks, they are never the same again.

They been imprinted by Chad.. most you can do is have casual sex with her, then move on.

Another chance to build a relationship with her, is beyond foolish.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

My ex-s generally hang around. often becoming’sides-chicks’ or FWBs. Maybe the relationship wasn’t great. but the D was.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

It's always when you least expect it. I have a toxic ex who was blocked. She found a way to get a message through recently basically apologizing for things being so toxic and ending badly. I was like, eh, don't sweat it I don't even think about that sh#t anymore lol. (Truth.)

They often cast their line when they're newly single. That's the vibe I got w/her. Sure enough she mentioned casually that her recent relationship didn't last. I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole so was polite but brushed it all off. I think she got the hint.

 

[Rainman4707]

It does happen, they do come back.

However once they have been back out in the streets, and taken several other diks, they are never the same again.

They been imprinted by Chad.. most you can do is have casual sex with her, then move on.

Another chance to build a relationship with her, is beyond foolish.

Hmm...not so sure about that. Depends on the girl. Maybe putting yourself down there. If the girl is away from you for a while, who is to say she will find someone who will 'imprint' on her more than you. If she does thats her loss,,,coz you are the prize.

 

[soulforge]

Hmm...not so sure about that. Depends on the girl. Maybe putting yourself down there. If the girl is away from you for a while, who is to say she will find someone who will 'imprint' on her more than you. If she does thats her loss,,,coz you are the prize.

It's possible she dates a few jokers, feels nothing for them and circles back.

I still wouldn't want a girl who had to try out different diks, before she finally decides on me.

 

[Rainman4707]

Yes, i agree with you on that. My girl isnt bothered about shutting blinds if she is walking around naked. I put a stop to that. She really genuinely dosent think men are bothered. I explained that red blooded males will naturally enjoy seeing a sexy woman walking nude through corridor on route to shower. I told her that it's very important to me that dudes i know dont see MY girl naked.
She and her mother both dont care if blinds are open when they are getting changed. So my girl has to conciously remember to close blinds, but she tries her best because she knows its important to me.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I still wouldn't want a girl who had to try out different diks, before she finally decides on me.

You can be the d1ck to end all d1cks for her, though.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I’m still in contact with most of my exes. There’s a handful I’d straight up ignore if they reached back out to me,

 

[RangerMIke]

Yes. It happens, but it is rare.

 

[soulforge]

Yes. It happens, but it is rare.

I think it's rare too. Or it happens so far down the line, that you don't give a crap at that point.

 

[RangerMIke]

I think it's rare too. Or it happens so far down the line, that you don't give a crap at that point.

Truth. If she circles back around this has more to do with something going sideways in her life... which is never better than the situation when you split. There were reason why things ended... when she comes back around, those reasons are only worst. She is never going to be better than when you left her.

 

[soulforge]

Truth. If she circles back around this has more to do with something going sideways in her life... which is never better than the situation when you split. There were reason why things ended... when she comes back around, those reasons are only worst. She is never going to be better than when you left her.

Unless you smash only. Then it don't matter what her behaviour or attitude is like.