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A major road block for me with girls 18-25, is their obsession with age. They refuse walking around the topic, and insist on finding out, and flat out walk based on it. “Our age difference is too big.”

I am in many ways young, and people say I look 29.

Some of my attempts to handle it:
  • “I’m 85 but have had a lot of plastic surgery, *smirk*”
  • “I’m no baby-man. I’m a real, mature, experienced man."
  • "Hey, let's focus on important questions. What is an important question that you like'd asked?"
But no luck. Need solutions. How would you deal with a girl blocking based on age?
 

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How would you deal with a girl blocking based on age?
By not hiding it, parting ways if it's a dealbreaker for them, and finding women who actually want me.

I find these lines you wrote down to be pathetic, to be concise. Own who you are.
 

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How rich are you? At 38, it's difficult to seduce women 18-22 and even 23-25 without money. A really good body can reduce the money you'll need to seduce though.
 

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A major road block for me with girls 18-25, is their obsession with age. They refuse walking around the topic, and insist on finding out, and flat out walk based on it. “Our age difference is too big.”

I am in many ways young, and people say I look 29.

Some of my attempts to handle it:
  • “I’m 85 but have had a lot of plastic surgery, *smirk*”
  • “I’m no baby-man. I’m a real, mature, experienced man."
  • "Hey, let's focus on important questions. What is an important question that you like'd asked?"
But no luck. Need solutions. How would you deal with a girl blocking based on age?
1). A young girl finds you sexy.
2) You give her good D.
3) Age really isn’t an issue then.

Doesn’t always work, of course. But it does sometimes.
 

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A major road block for me with girls 18-25, is their obsession with age. They refuse walking around the topic, and insist on finding out, and flat out walk based on it. “Our age difference is too big.”

I am in many ways young, and people say I look 29.

Some of my attempts to handle it:
  • “I’m 85 but have had a lot of plastic surgery, *smirk*”
  • “I’m no baby-man. I’m a real, mature, experienced man."
  • "Hey, let's focus on important questions. What is an important question that you like'd asked?"
But no luck. Need solutions. How would you deal with a girl blocking based on age?
OP, which domain do you use for sourcing women?
 

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A major road block for me with girls 18-25, is their obsession with age. They refuse walking around the topic, and insist on finding out, and flat out walk based on it. “Our age difference is too big.”

I am in many ways young, and people say I look 29.

Some of my attempts to handle it:
  • “I’m 85 but have had a lot of plastic surgery, *smirk*”
  • “I’m no baby-man. I’m a real, mature, experienced man."
  • "Hey, let's focus on important questions. What is an important question that you like'd asked?"
But no luck. Need solutions. How would you deal with a girl blocking based on age?
I tell them that I come straight from late 20th centuries and that I'm retro as it can be but if she is into metros or modern types I understand.

That's the only way to make it work...joking about it or playing games only sounds weak.
 

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How rich are you? At 38, it's difficult to seduce women 18-22 and even 23-25 without money. A really good body can reduce the money you'll need to seduce though.
Not rich, but might change, and game will change accordingly. Got a bit over average body/looks, but not godly. Poor height, 170 cm.

OP, which domain do you use for sourcing women?
I've found a club in town where all the young chicks go to, it's packed with them. The girls seems socially inept (tech and all that), and I don't think many that get laid. But I might be the one who finds the key. Many young boys there that got no clue. No Tinder/SM game at all for me.

I tell them that I come straight from late 20th centuries and that I'm retro as it can be but if she is into metros or modern types I understand.
Good line.
 

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If you're scheming ways to "convince her" that age isn't an issue, it's too late.

Fix your thoughts so you believe age truly isn't an issue.

When they ask how old you are, smile and say the truth as if it is a very good thing.

Own that instead of hiding behind framing tricks copied from online randos.
 

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And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Find an even younger (and hotter) girl who doesnt give a f0ck about it.
That's the problem -- I don't. The majority of young girls I approach reject me based on age. I haven't found the well yet where the appreciative ones are. But then again, the age rejection might (partly) be a place holder for something else.
 

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From my experience, it is very tough for a man in his middle to upper 30s and 40's to pull 18-20 year olds.. I am not saying it can't happen because it can, but I feel like 21-27 is more doable but you still need to have basically a perfect body, hair, take care of your face and look like a model which 90% of guys CAN do that. 90% of the 18-20 year olds will think its weird when an old guy 35+ hits on them so i too love going after the college crowd but sometimes I feel i waste time but it can be mental lol
 

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There are girls who want a guy a few years older, and there are young women who want a mature 'Daddy-type' man. Don't confuse them, go for the women who like the white in your beard.

Women rarely care about my age. I'm obviously decades older than they are, but they enjoy that.
Where do you find these girls?
 

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Truthfully, if not your age, she would just find something else to disqualify you on. You can't negotiate desire as they say and if she is put off for whatever reason she'll blame the weather for her lack of interest or that she can't go for you because of mercury retrograde or some other nonsense. Age, unless we are talking a drastic difference here (like 30+ years, wrinkly ball sack) is largely a cop out.

I deal almost exclusively with younger chicks (20's) and while I am not going to lie and tell you I haven't been told "you're too old" before, it works out more often than not. I cannot say age has been a hindrance so far - at the same time I think I look pretty good for my age. I have all my hair, little greys (at least on the head, more so on beard) and i'm in good physical shape - I do think this works in my favor. Maybe I would sing a different tune if I was a balding or completely bald ****in fat guy.
 

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Not rich, but might change, and game will change accordingly. Got a bit over average body/looks, but not godly. Poor height, 170 cm.



I've found a club in town where all the young chicks go to, it's packed with them. The girls seems socially inept (tech and all that), and I don't think many that get laid. But I might be the one who finds the key. Many young boys there that got no clue. No Tinder/SM game at all for me.



Good line.
Ok, I will give my 2c.

I think that going to a place where the majority of people are 18-25 will make you look out of place and lowers your status (you go there to chase women that are 10+ years younger, and they are fully aware of that)

You should revaluate the current results that you have. If you have been going there for months, and it has not worked for you, it is time to move on.

A possible solution might be to go to a different bar, with a more mixed crowd (20s,30s, 40s) in which still the majority of women are younger than 30. The younger women there might be more receptive towards you.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Truthfully, if not your age, she would just find something else to disqualify you on. You can't negotiate desire as they say and if she is put off for whatever reason she'll blame the weather for her lack of interest or that she can't go for you because of mercury retrograde or some other nonsense. Age, unless we are talking a drastic difference here (like 30+ years, wrinkly ball sack) is largely a cop out.

I deal almost exclusively with younger chicks (20's) and while I am not going to lie and tell you I haven't been told "you're too old" before, it works out more often than not. I cannot say age has been a hindrance so far - at the same time I think I look pretty good for my age. I have all my hair, little greys (at least on the head, more so on beard) and i'm in good physical shape - I do think this works in my favor. Maybe I would sing a different tune if I was a balding or completely bald ****in fat guy.
Good stuff. This, and what @stringpuller wrote, is useful. It's basically little about age, it's a question of game. @IKO69, what is in short the key to your game with 20's?

FWIW, I gets told I look like this guy (Swedish celebrity Martin Stenmarck), perhaps I look a bit younger. Same hair these days, athletic body.

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Advice from the old lady:

If you honestly look good then it’s your apologetic attitude which based on your OP is very cringey/creepy. This will ick girls out.

My guess is you also are not as physically appealing as you think you are.

You gotta OWN it. You do not apologize or act apologetic and for God’s sake NEVER try to sell yourself to a girl who rejects you. Thats terribly disrespectful to yourself.

Your body language is probably not confident either. Work on that ahead of everything else….
 

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I'm always vague

I'm 31 but I will be "30" until around 37

most of the girls I am attracting at the moment are like 23-26 and I am more than happy with that

The funny thing is once you establish a connection with a woman most aren't really going to care how old you are (within say a 5 year range)

10+ years is pushing it though

OP I would move onto women in their late 20's early 30's I think you will get more joy
 

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i've had some horrific age gaps to the point my friends sometimes jokingly tease me. I'm talking banging 17 year olds in my 30's lol

I think i've only been able to pull it off due to looking a fair bit younger than me age. I know most people always say that about themselves, but I really do have enough evidence to suggest i'm not imagining it! I got ID'd about 2 months ago. Drinking age here is 18. I was like 'You can't SERIOUSLY think i'm 18!'. He laughed and was like 'No, I don't think you're 18, but we have to ID everyone who looks under 25''. I ws like, mate, take a look at this (handing him my ID to show I'm an old man!)

Last week I was visiting my parents at their new place and my mum was talking to her newe neighbour. Apparently she was in disbelief when she found out about my age, assuming I was about 10 years younger than her when i'm actually a few months older.

I do feel myself looking a bit older recently though, tbh, which sucks. You simply can't stay looking 'young' forever unfortunately! lol. I've had a damn good run in terms of being able to lie about my age to very young girls in order to bang them and am grateful for that, but my times is running out haha

Lots of very young girls will indeed write you off if they think you are old. It's just the way it is. Probably more of an issue nowadays than maybe it was 20 years ago, tbh. When I was in school, 15 year old girls were being picked up by their 22-25 year old boyfriends in their cars! It's kind of crazy now looking back, but it just wasn't an 'issue' back then. It just wasn't really mentioned. If that sort of thing happened nowadays I can only imagine the outcry!!
 

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OP just go online and game the 18-25 year olds who match with you. Some of them invariably will match.
 

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