Do ya'll ghost women? If so how do you without feeling like a ****head?

[alvinkels]

I do it a lot even in early days I use to guage a women's interest level and once I see her putting her best foot forward I take her. I don't ignore her messages though. I just do reach out unless they do. Some women especially those who these stuffs can quickly tell what you are trying to do and won't fall it rather they won't take you seriously and they will take you through a lot of sh*t tests. So be prepared... if you don't have the balls don't do because it might back fire at you. Your ability to know the kind of girl you are dealing ( low self esteem or high self esteem) is very crucial. The high esteem will walk away quickly especially is their interest level for you is low.

 

[The Duke]

Years ago I was on a 2nd date with a chic at a large country dance bar. About 30min into it she went to the bathroom and never came back. I tried calling, no answer. Called/texted her a few times after and she never answered. Extremely selfish behavior on her part.

There was nothing I did that would cause her to take off. I suspect she saw a guy she knew there, or got some text from some guy she was still into.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Years ago I was on a 2nd date with a chic at a large country dance bar. About 30min into it she went to the bathroom and never came back. I tried calling, no answer. Called/texted her a few times after and she never answered. Extremely selfish behavior on her part.

There was nothing I did that would cause her to take off. I suspect she saw a guy she knew there, or got some text from some guy she was still into.

damn that’s harsh.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I know it's good protocol to ghost toxic women or any woman who doesn't show any interest/effort. Not talking about that.

Talking more about ghosting women early on even if they show high IL just because you can't be bothered.

Couple examples:

Tonight I had a 1st date planned with this really cute chick from OLD but I'm dead tired and didn't feel like drinking or spending $$ or having sex.

Then you simply make a request to reschedule the date.

A while back I had a date with this African chick, I LOVED her personality and values but I wasn't attracted to her body at all and after much deliberation I ghosted her after sending a short text that I had a good time but I was stressed out (both true).

If y'all already went on the date and you had a good time, how in the fuk did you ghost her?

In both of these cases I feel bad since they did nothing to deserve it. I try to be a "man of my word" and act with honesty so it doesn't sit right with me sometimes and I'm wondering if anyone else feels the same.

Again, if you won't be able to make it for the date, you simply reschedule the date.

Nothing to feel bad about or overanalyze.

This is in spite of the fact that I have been flaked on countless times in the past decade.

Boo hoo.

 

[Macadellic]

Read the title of thread only.
Women are ruthless, they will call you a scrote.

Ghost woman at any subtle sign of disrespect

She is a low value woman
that doesn’t know she has an impact in a MANS life

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Then you simply make a request to reschedule the date.

Usually once I lose interest I don't even care enough to reschedule id rather just start with a new girl

If y'all already went on the date and you had a good time, how in the fuk did you ghost her?

How? By not responding to her after the date. If you're confused as to why, it's because I wasn't attracted

Again, if you won't be able to make it for the date, you simply reschedule the date.

Nothing to feel bad about or overanalyze.

In both cases I didn't want to reschedule though, I wasn't feeling them or was too lazy to keep texting them

Boo hoo.

Simply alluding to the fact that I am better than them for not sinking to their level

Read the title of thread only.
Women are ruthless, they will call you a scrote.

Ghost woman at any subtle sign of disrespect

She is a low value woman
that doesn’t know she has an impact in a MANS life

Yeah, trust me I know. I always ghost women at any disrespect. But ghosting for other reasons feels shvtty which I won't be doing again.[/QUOTE]

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Usually once I lose interest I don't even care enough to reschedule id rather just start with a new girl

Yeah, but you didn't say you lost interest.

You said the reason was because you were tired and wasn't feeling it that day.

If you lost interest, then why in the fuk did you set up the date in the first place?

How? By not responding to her after the date. If you're confused as to why, it's because I wasn't attracted

Same variation of the question above; if you knew you wasn't attracted to her, then why in the fuk did you waste time & money for the date in the first place?

In both cases I didn't want to reschedule though, I wasn't feeling them or was too lazy to keep texting them

It is what it is, apparently.

But at the same time, you shouldn't make it a habit of setting up dates with women you aren't attracted/interested in.

That is a waste of GOT DAME time.

Simply alluding to the fact that I am better than them for not sinking to their level

Didn't you do the same sh!t?

 

[soulforge]

I have been ghosted before and it still happens once in a while. No I never intentionally ghost women - if I have no interest in them for whatever reason I just tell them straight up it's not working. If they really piss me off and make me angry then I will add to lose my number / not contact me anymore.

I think "ghosting" is a ****ty thing to do and I don't appreciate it, which is why I am forthright when it comes to my feelings. I operate from the standpoint of the golden rule - treat those as you wish you be treated.

Agreed I won't ghost either. Will simply let them know this isn't working for me. Cya