CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
1). They have a higher emotional investment in the apps than girls- Girls always have 1 or 2 guys they can fallback to if needed. Your typical girl is on the app simply because she said "fvck it, why not". In some cases, mentally damaged girls will use apps to vent out their anger and trauma on random men. Meanwhile, most men are on the apps because they see it as a viable option to find their future partner and take it way more seriously. As a result, you have a lot of guys that put too much hopium into a girl that is simply on Tinder for lolz and he gets completely owned. Every time waster/toxic female will display her red flags to you, but it is up to you to open your eyes to them.
2). They are lazy, fragile, entitled- Most guys initially think they are the only guy on the app swiping right on women. They are then astonished by the number of male competitors on the apps and become bitter about it. Meanwhile, you do not have any good pictures of yourself, you say the same opening line to every girl you match with, you are a low value male with unreasonably high expectations, you live in your mom's basement in a suburb, and etc. As a result, instead of taking the time to fix these issues, these guys just making up conspiracies or blaming the logarithm. The good news is that it is not that hard to set yourself apart from 99% of men on the apps. I have lived in East Jabip, Montana and still managed to get laid on the apps.
3). They have bad game - I will firmly stand by this statement.... There is no flipping way you are terrible on the apps, but you are somehow this God at cold approaching women in public. Are you telling me that you can handle getting rejected in front of everybody while cold approaching a stranger in public, but an unresponsive match devastates you? Furthermore, you can have a fulfilling conversation with a stranger in real time and convert that into a connection, but you cannot analyze a girl's profile, initiate a conversation, and consistently maintain it? Yeah, that's a load of Bull Crap! Yes, they are different dating methods, but it doesn't take some Oppenheimer to adapt to them. Your witty pickup lines and librarian knowledge of every dating rule is novice level game. The best example of this is shown in that scene in Glory where the Colonel makes an example out of the soldier that thinks he is skilled because he can operate in a controlled environment. Real game is being able to read a conversation or woman's profile and turn that into something positive. When you have bad game, it spills over to 1 and 2. For example, there were glaring red flags that this girl was not taking you seriously on the apps, but you thought hopium and your text rule games would save you.
So what can you do?
1). Raise your SMV, get in shape, get out of your mom's basement in East Jabip, Ohio. No, you do not need to be a 10% body fat crypto entrepreneur billionaire to qualify to date women either.
2). Learn the basics of taking a photo.
3). Utilize hobbies/travel to acquire more photos.
4). Keep improving your game/talking to women outside the apps. Most of my photos came from other women that I was previously with.
5). Improve your logistics by moving to a growing city attracting young women.
6). Get rid of the defeatism mindset. Dating sucks regardless of the platform. This is why most men choose to settle for the first women that makes their weenie tingle. When dating starts to get uncomfortable for Chad, he even settles. If you are going to choose to spin plates long term, acknowledge that things can go to hell at any given point in time. There are cons to everything in life.
2). They are lazy, fragile, entitled- Most guys initially think they are the only guy on the app swiping right on women. They are then astonished by the number of male competitors on the apps and become bitter about it. Meanwhile, you do not have any good pictures of yourself, you say the same opening line to every girl you match with, you are a low value male with unreasonably high expectations, you live in your mom's basement in a suburb, and etc. As a result, instead of taking the time to fix these issues, these guys just making up conspiracies or blaming the logarithm. The good news is that it is not that hard to set yourself apart from 99% of men on the apps. I have lived in East Jabip, Montana and still managed to get laid on the apps.
3). They have bad game - I will firmly stand by this statement.... There is no flipping way you are terrible on the apps, but you are somehow this God at cold approaching women in public. Are you telling me that you can handle getting rejected in front of everybody while cold approaching a stranger in public, but an unresponsive match devastates you? Furthermore, you can have a fulfilling conversation with a stranger in real time and convert that into a connection, but you cannot analyze a girl's profile, initiate a conversation, and consistently maintain it? Yeah, that's a load of Bull Crap! Yes, they are different dating methods, but it doesn't take some Oppenheimer to adapt to them. Your witty pickup lines and librarian knowledge of every dating rule is novice level game. The best example of this is shown in that scene in Glory where the Colonel makes an example out of the soldier that thinks he is skilled because he can operate in a controlled environment. Real game is being able to read a conversation or woman's profile and turn that into something positive. When you have bad game, it spills over to 1 and 2. For example, there were glaring red flags that this girl was not taking you seriously on the apps, but you thought hopium and your text rule games would save you.
So what can you do?
1). Raise your SMV, get in shape, get out of your mom's basement in East Jabip, Ohio. No, you do not need to be a 10% body fat crypto entrepreneur billionaire to qualify to date women either.
2). Learn the basics of taking a photo.
3). Utilize hobbies/travel to acquire more photos.
4). Keep improving your game/talking to women outside the apps. Most of my photos came from other women that I was previously with.
5). Improve your logistics by moving to a growing city attracting young women.
6). Get rid of the defeatism mindset. Dating sucks regardless of the platform. This is why most men choose to settle for the first women that makes their weenie tingle. When dating starts to get uncomfortable for Chad, he even settles. If you are going to choose to spin plates long term, acknowledge that things can go to hell at any given point in time. There are cons to everything in life.
