Give women credit

[NealIRC]

Confidence, confidence, confidence. It's hotter than how you look, easier said than done but you can act as if until you make it

Um, I have confidence. More than they can handle. That still doesn't mean they will be the 1st to talk to me, or continue a convo with me when I leave.

 

[NealIRC]

How many have you asked out in person? Texting is for logistics only.

I don't ask out when I the stuff I do on a date, I do in real time. And so, no texting either.

Like I said, I'm trying to get conversations with women. Non-forced conversations. Getting approached by women is an art.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Getting approached by women is an art.

Getting approached by women is not an ‘art’. It just happens. Usually when one is just going about their day. This clip is pretty damn legit on how it really happens. ;

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Not getting approached by women, women not wanting to have conversations with me.

Most men don’t get approached by women. It’s a nice bonus when it happens. But. Approaching is your job, as a man. There’s a reason we’re bubbling cauldrons of testosterone.

 

[NealIRC]

Most men don’t get approached by women. It’s a nice bonus when it happens. But. Approaching is your job, as a man. There’s a reason we’re bubbling cauldrons of testosterone.

So we're back to the beginning. When I approach women, they say, the minimum required, and, convo ends when I stop talking to them.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Getting approached by women is not an ‘art’. It just happens. Usually when one is just going about their day. This clip is pretty damn legit on how it really happens. ;

I had a woman take a sneak picture of me today

 

[Learning Curve]

I feel like often times we discredit women and believe they are dumb cause well, they do talk about nonsense. But in terms of social situations and life and picking out good guys from bad they are very smart.
I was at the gym today and i am looking brolic and lean as usual and a girls boyfriend snickers when i was flexing. Undoubtedly he was skinny and small and the girlfriend has been smiling at me when i walked in the gym. The girl looks at the bf with a concerned face. She has now decided he is insecure and is thus less attractive in her eyes.
The beautiful thing about women is that the cream will always rise to the top. So if you are the best dude eventually the girls will all want you. Mother Nature is rewards good integrity hard working successful men. The reason girls go for bad boys is because they dont kiss ass to women and they are sick of nice guys but if you have a backbone, are respectful and hardworking they will drop that bad boy (Unless they are trash women) for you. Give women credit for spotting out good ambitious men. If you arent getting them YOU are the problem. I promise. Dont appease to women but work on yourself and be a high integrity person and youll attract the same.

Good Point.

Indeed when you don't get women is your problem.

Working on your personality, looks, and overall way of presenting ur self plays a major role.

Unfortunately, most guys don't realize this and they end up with a life full of excuses and blaming women for not providing choosing signals.

 

[NealIRC]

Good Point.

Indeed when you don't get women is your problem.

Working on your personality, looks, and overall way of presenting ur self plays a major role.

Unfortunately, most guys don't realize this and they end up with a life full of excuses and blaming women for not providing choosing signals.

Finally - someone who agrees with me. Women do approach men. It's just that not all men are good enough for that.

And I pasted some examples in someone elses thread, of women pursuing men for relationships.

 

[Learning Curve]

Finally - someone who agrees with me. Women do approach men. It's just that not all men are good enough for that.

And I pasted some examples in someone elses thread, of women pursuing men for relationships.

I know some dudes that are 30 years old living with their mom, broke, and looking like sh1t. Wondering why women are not providing choosing signals.

It's hard to explain to these people what is wrong. The worst part is they actually attract women but the quality of women they attract is below 4 I would say. And yet they still believe that they are able to attract any woman.

Reality check is never that easy.

 

[NealIRC]

I know some dudes that are 30 years old living with their mom, broke, and looking like sh1t. Wondering why women are not providing choosing signals.

It's hard to explain to these people what is wrong. The worst part is they actually attract women but the quality of women they attract is below 4 I would say. And yet they still believe that they are able to attract any woman.

Reality check is never that easy.

And the irony is - when they walk around shirtless, or however they dress, women don't necessarily know if they live with their mom in the basement or work minimum wage job. She has to have a convo with him to find out all that.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I know some dudes that are 30 years old living with their mom, broke, and looking like sh1t.

This literally applies to the guy I know with the highest lay count and he’s 5ft 5. This is why I SMDH when I hear this BS about you need to be a rich man to get laid from Fresh and Fit or you need to be a 6ft plus Chad from the black pills

 

[Learning Curve]

This literally applies to the guy I know with the highest lay count and he’s 5ft 5. This is why I SMDH when I hear this BS about you need to be a rich man to get laid from Fresh and Fit or you need to be a 6ft plus Chad from the black pills

I never said you can't get laid. You can.

And you never transform yourself for women you do it for urself. But this is a side-effect of what is coming afterwards from women.

Ugly dudes can get laid and short dudes never said otherwise. Hence I know many.

But when it comes to attracting those 9s and 10s you need to be on top of your game. This is the reality.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Good Point.

Indeed when you don't get women is your problem.

Working on your personality, looks, and overall way of presenting ur self plays a major role.

Unfortunately, most guys don't realize this and they end up with a life full of excuses and blaming women for not providing choosing signals.

personality is overrated tbh. Like i can say have a fun personality but if you dont do deep work onyourself physically and mentally girls will sense your ungroundedness. The one component i feel ike is overlooked is groundedness. She should feel your not trying to prove yourself at all and you self validate yourself.

 

[Learning Curve]

personality is overrated tbh. Like i can say have a fun personality but if you dont do deep work onyourself physically and mentally girls will sense your ungroundedness. The one component i feel ike is overlooked is groundedness. She should feel your not trying to prove yourself at all and you self validate yourself.

Agree on this.

This is the part of the personality i have mentioned.

Grounded, not needy, frame-control, self-emotional control, no need to be a show-off guy and abundance.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

So we're back to the beginning. When I approach women, they say, the minimum required, and, convo ends when I stop talking to them.

What are you talking to them about?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I had a woman take a sneak picture of me today

You’ll be on someone’s SM feed.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

And the irony is - when they walk around shirtless, or however they dress, women don't necessarily know if they live with their mom in the basement or work minimum wage job. She has to have a convo with him to find out all that.

If you walk around shirtless, unless it’s a beach or park & the weather is warm. It’s just weird & creepy. even if you have a 6 pack.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Finally - someone who agrees with me. Women do approach men. It's just that not all men are good enough for that.

Women do approach. But not most men & it’s not that common. If they don’t approach you. That’s fine. Probably 80% of men aren’t approached.

 

[NealIRC]

I never said you can't get laid. You can.

And you never transform yourself for women you do it for urself. But this is a side-effect of what is coming afterwards from women.

Ugly dudes can get laid and short dudes never said otherwise. Hence I know many.

But when it comes to attracting those 9s and 10s you need to be on top of your game. This is the reality.

Maybe he is talking about the 9s and 10s...

 

[NealIRC]

What are you talking to them about?

Most of the time it's looking for situations to talk about.

For example, I recently handed a White women thong-wearing an atheism pamphlet the beach. Later she was pumping a float boat. As she dragged it into the lake, the female lifeguard jumped out and told her she can't have it there. As she got back to her spot, I came to her a 2nd time to make the "did the lifeguard just ban you for that?" type thing, and stuff like "you may have to go further north to where there aren't any lifeguards."

Either way, small convo to take off.

Another time, I handed another White woman an atheism pamphlet, who was laying on the sand part of the beach next to the sidewalk. Later, a t-shirt long-pants dude wearing sunglasses and baseball cap, that doesn't speak English, parks his bike pretty much directly in front of her blanket and gets a nice view of her. So I come back to use that as a line "was this dude here before or after you got here" she says after, and I'm all he chose the best view in the beach, and I left. And she also put her clothes on and waited for him to leave... And left shortly too.