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Thebestthereeveris

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I feel like often times we discredit women and believe they are dumb cause well, they do talk about nonsense. But in terms of social situations and life and picking out good guys from bad they are very smart.
I was at the gym today and i am looking brolic and lean as usual and a girls boyfriend snickers when i was flexing. Undoubtedly he was skinny and small and the girlfriend has been smiling at me when i walked in the gym. The girl looks at the bf with a concerned face. She has now decided he is insecure and is thus less attractive in her eyes.
The beautiful thing about women is that the cream will always rise to the top. So if you are the best dude eventually the girls will all want you. Mother Nature is rewards good integrity hard working successful men. The reason girls go for bad boys is because they dont kiss ass to women and they are sick of nice guys but if you have a backbone, are respectful and hardworking they will drop that bad boy (Unless they are trash women) for you. Give women credit for spotting out good ambitious men. If you arent getting them YOU are the problem. I promise. Dont appease to women but work on yourself and be a high integrity person and youll attract the same.
 

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So what advice do you give to incels? I constantly walk around shirtless, showing my un-insecurity, but no luck.
incels need to work on themselves and find their passion and succeed at it. If they truly do this they wont care about female validation and theyll have the confindence to go up to women and get them and wont care if their rejected or not. If they do care or they dont have the confidence yet they need to work on themselves more.
 

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incels need to work on themselves and find their passion and succeed at it. If they truly do this they wont care about female validation and theyll have the confindence to go up to women and get them and wont care if their rejected or not. If they do care or they dont have the confidence yet they need to work on themselves more.
spoilers....They wont
 

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incels need to work on themselves and find their passion and succeed at it.
-College graduate.
-Platinum investor.
-Own and maintain a science website.
-Has money in 3 different banks.

If they truly do this they wont care about female validation and theyll have the confindence to go up to women and get them and wont care if their rejected or not. If they do care or they dont have the confidence yet they need to work on themselves more.
I approach women all the time, but as a conversation-rapist. What do they say? The minimum required. When does the conversation ends? It ends when I stop talking to them, which is usually when I run out of questions.

So, what I need to work on, is getting approached by women. Rejection isn't the issue here.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I feel like often times we discredit women and believe they are dumb cause well, they do talk about nonsense. But in terms of social situations and life and picking out good guys from bad they are very smart.
I was at the gym today and i am looking brolic and lean as usual and a girls boyfriend snickers when i was flexing. Undoubtedly he was skinny and small and the girlfriend has been smiling at me when i walked in the gym. The girl looks at the bf with a concerned face. She has now decided he is insecure and is thus less attractive in her eyes.
The beautiful thing about women is that the cream will always rise to the top. So if you are the best dude eventually the girls will all want you. Mother Nature is rewards good integrity hard working successful men. The reason girls go for bad boys is because they dont kiss ass to women and they are sick of nice guys but if you have a backbone, are respectful and hardworking they will drop that bad boy (Unless they are trash women) for you. Give women credit for spotting out good ambitious men. If you arent getting them YOU are the problem. I promise. Dont appease to women but work on yourself and be a high integrity person and youll attract the same.
I think this situation stroked your ego. She didn't exactly "pick" you. She admired you.

Women in general flat suck at picking out the right men. They can't even decide where they want to eat. They are a creature that starts falling in love as soon as you stick your dihk in one. That certainly isn't smart in my book. They are on dating apps and have hundreds of choices and still pick losers. Nothing that uses emotional logic for reasoning ever makes the best rational decisions.
 

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I think this situation stroked your ego. She didn't exactly "pick" you. She admired you.

Women in general flat suck at picking out the right men. They can't even decide where they want to eat. They are a creature that starts falling in love as soon as you stick your dihk in one. That certainly isn't smart in my book. They are on dating apps and have hundreds of choices and still pick losers. Nothing that uses emotional logic for reasoning ever makes the best rational decisions.
TBH, I think this applies to men too lol.
 

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I approach women all the time, but as a conversation-rapist. What do they say? The minimum required. When does the conversation ends? It ends when I stop talking to them, which is usually when I run out of questions.

So, what I need to work on, is getting approached by women. Rejection isn't the issue here.
Conversation-rapist? You are just getting some soft rejections here. No need to make it even harder with those labels.
 

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Dude you are boring them to death with em interview questions. I learned this the hard way.
How did you learn this the hard way and how did you change your approach?
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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How did you learn this the hard way and how did you change your approach?
My Hapacel buddy asked me to give him pointers. He was trying to arrange a hiking date with a girl he knew. We were at a convention and were all attendees. I told him he was boring, lifeless & flat. Needless to say she ghosted him.
 

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My Hapacel buddy asked me to give him pointers. He was trying to arrange a hiking date with a girl he knew. We were at a convention and were all attendees. I told him he was boring, lifeless & flat. Needless to say she ghosted him.
What made him boring, lifeless and flat? I think as intorverts we have lots of mental excitement and energy but it comes across as that to others. Much like Big Bang Theory tv show how those geeks are.
 

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What made him boring, lifeless and flat? I think as intorverts we have lots of mental excitement and energy but it comes across as that to others. Much like Big Bang Theory tv show how those geeks are.
very laconic. No enthusiasm. All facts. No emotion Just the opposite of me. I tend to get super excited about things. And that’s bad as well.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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how did you change your approach?
at the risk of sounding cliché, i have to ask. are you in the ever-present-now when going about your day? there's something palpable about this state of being that is very captivating with women. the "interview" turns more into a conversation as you can't help but be immersed in whatever topic you open with. we can't just go through the motions trying to get a number. it's just a nice chat and the rest kinda happens. less questions, more observations/opinions. my 2cents
 

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What made him boring, lifeless and flat? I think as intorverts we have lots of mental excitement and energy but it comes across as that to others. Much like Big Bang Theory tv show how those geeks are.
Those guys were funny. I could see how the right kind of girl would be attracted to that personality.
 

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Ask better questions.

"If you could travel to any time in history, where when would you go and what would you do?"
"If you could choose to travel to 3 countries, what 3 would they be?"
^Let them talk and ask "why" along the way.

Also, sit on the same side of the table as them and play the "are they f*cking" game - where you both look at other couples and guess if they're f*cking or not. Create the 'both of you against the world' feeling for the tingles. Gives you tons of kino opportunities.
Except I'm not on a date with these women. So I ask my questions quick...
 

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So what advice do you give to incels? I constantly walk around shirtless, showing my un-insecurity, but no luck.
Confidence, confidence, confidence. It's hotter than how you look, easier said than done but you can act as if until you make it
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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