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johnrambo said:
Is this real? You gamed a college student and still want your 40 yo cheater around. Replace the cheater with the college student. Is the college student fat or something?
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I don't want her around. I am evaluating the situation.
 
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All_Kindz_Of_Gainz said:
You got some major issues to heal, even though you cheated on her again, you don't have the balls to send her packing.

I imagine you telling her "Hey no more coming late at night unless you tell me okay?" Do you really think that will prevent her drom cheating on you assuming she hasn't done it yet?

If you're so tough as you say you are, you will be like "I know you're seeing this guy and have gone to dates with him, wish you the best as I'm seeing someone else too" But we all know you can't be in a healthy relationship cause you have unresolved issues.
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I am evaluating the situation
 
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johnrambo said:
You are welcome! I had a situation like that....very indecisive when I should have kicked the b**ch to the curb long ago. Hesitated for too long. It is the biggest regret of my life. When in doubt, kick her out!
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This is the type of advice that has you end up at age 40 sending money to the Philippines and Skyping 10x a day
 
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Divorced w 3 said:
This is the type of advice that has you end up at age 40 sending money to the Philippines and Skyping 10x a day
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What do you suggest? Girl is on tinder already. Not if but when is OP's girl is gonna dump him? In that situation, dump before gets dumped!
 
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johnrambo said:
What do you suggest? Girl is on tinder already. Not if but when is OP's girl is gonna dump him? In that situation, dump before gets dumped!
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Yes. She put one photo on Tinder from a distance , in which she has her back to the camera in winter clothing. No face shown. Ofc I found quite a few conversations with guys that she matched with & with this particular guy, although not as good looking as me, she initiated the convo and was quite talkative. This was in late April.
At one point he wrote his phone number & told her he prefers Whatsapp.
Shortly after the convos picked up on WA right around my birthday May 20th.
There were gaps of several days at first, one time she reached out after a 5 day pause or so. Most of July the convos were frequent. Almost daily at one point.
Like I said, everything civilised at first glance. She actually made one joke with a sexual conotation and he called her out on it. He travels a lot with work from what he writes and is living in my city up until October at least.
They exchanged selfies & pictures of their grandparents oddly enough. He sent her a few links to videos of subjects that she's interested in and of a dog that wandered in his workspace. One time she wrote that he is making her anxious about working on a construction site during not so great weather. She is an anxious person.
Also a couple of live locations and travel directions.
He asked her out at a fancy restaurant for the first meeting. Never did either of them write the word "date". The overall vibe is that of a friendship or maybe a slow start to a possible relationship.
 
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crikeyhanky said:
Like I said, everything civilised at first glance. She actually made one joke with a sexual conotation and he called her out on it. He travels a lot
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It's all civilized until he invites her to a weekend getaway and they are sleeping on the same bed :eek: Your girl is exploring her options. You are like James Bond having dinner with Goldfinger with his fingers on a button to drop you into a tank of pirhannas. Be like James Bond, shoot Goldfinger before he has a chance to drop you into the tank!
 
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Honestly, I couldn't be in a relationship where my "girlfriend" admits to me that she's seeing another guy and is on Tinder.

If you continue without her getting the idea that you are also having sex with others, as you are doing, she will make you out to be a cuck.

Better to make her get that notion OR (what I would do) get out of that relationship asap.
 
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holidayad_ said:
Honestly, I couldn't be in a relationship where my "girlfriend" admits to me that she's seeing another guy and is on Tinder.
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You must be a troll that can’t get women, on this forum we condone gfs having tinder and banging other dudes.

This thread has got progressively worse. I’ll be back tomorrow to find more long standing members are advising this half-man to talk it out with this harlot. Maybe sharing tips on how being beta is cool as the idea of alpha male is so cringe.

The standard of this forum has hit rock bottom I’m assuming it’s the spike proteins or true colours coming out.
 
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johnrambo said:
It's all civilized until he invites her to a weekend getaway and they are sleeping on the same bed :eek: Your girl is exploring her options. You are like James Bond having dinner with Goldfinger with his fingers on a button to drop you into a tank of pirhannas. Be like James Bond, shoot Goldfinger before he has a chance to drop you into the tank!
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Gotcha bro!
 
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holidayad_ said:
Honestly, I couldn't be in a relationship where my "girlfriend" admits to me that she's seeing another guy and is on Tinder.

If you continue without her getting the idea that you are also having sex with others, as you are doing, she will make you out to be a cuck.

Better to make her get that notion OR (what I would do) get out of that relationship asap.
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Clear & concise! Thanks
 
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