Luni
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why be facetious? fake it till you make it. nothing new hereHi Luni,
"I pretended to be somebody I wanted to be until finally I became that person. Or he became me."....So did Walter Mitty.
we salute you for your serviceHi Luni,
Seems you are still a paid up member of the Deadly Serious Club,good for you, sadly I am behind with my subscriptions so do allow myself a little Levity....There is something in believing yourself into a role in dating as in acting,were the World a big Stage then it might work...For a while...Just how long can you maintain this for without the mask slipping?...From your Picture you have chosen Jack Johnstone as a role model,should you live in one of the less gentrified areas of your fair City and chose to act this role out,then it is to be hoped your Health Cover is as up to Date as your other Subscriptions (Smile).
In this case ex on the beach. Another reason why feckboys are so popular: every damn show out there shows women dealing with " azzholes" who they'll eventually sleep with.Hi Corrector,
Not sure about the BBC show Gamisch talks of...But as I once allocated Berths for visiting US Navy Sailers I can assure you that the Women offering accommodation just about all wanted Afro-American Officers,they are still "Flavour of the Month" down here,because like Italians they have the repution of being great Lovers!
You can just do online hypnosis. But you have to do it everyday. Msg me if you need tipsI was wondering how we separate our core personal qualities vs the game that's needed when dealing with women.
There are all kinds of characteristics that can work against a man when it comes to game. Lets say you describe yourself as " warm" or "caring ". These might sound like good traits, but under certain circumstances they might work against you. More obvious examples are "being emotional " or " being (too) talkative " .
On the other hand, some of these qualities might actually work in your favor but due to following and presenting a certain image these characteristics get buried under a layer of "cliche default behaviour and characteristics " that a man picked up along his journey in the manosphere.
There's a thread going on about how the manosphere can be harmful, and I understand that statement from the POV that too much red pill theory without actual practical application numbs a man and turns him into a bland robotic person around women.
Perhaps some men would rather benefit from "being themselves "? Or is a "made up character " strictly aimed at holding a certain frame always better?
So the main question is; how do you maintain your own identity while yet applying game around women?
Again, there are positive stereotypes associated with blackness that make it hard on a guy that can't live up to this if that is what a woman is looking for. If you don't have a BBC, are a nerd and like sci-fi and other "white" interests then you are bascially in trouble since you can't even get that niche market and end up in incel territory.Hi Corrector,
Not sure about the BBC show Gamisch talks of...But as I once allocated Berths for visiting US Navy Sailers I can assure you that the Women offering accommodation just about all wanted Afro-American Officers,they are still "Flavour of the Month" down here,because like Italians they have the repution of being great Lovers!
It depends. The choice for me to pretend and benefit from the stereotype is always there. But. I've learned that overtime it's tiring tho..also ,you'll be fighting an uphill battle because the women you get are "easy come easy go" . One crack in your frame is a death sentence.Again, there are positive stereotypes associated with blackness that make it hard on a guy that can't live up to this if that is what a woman is looking for. If you don't have a BBC, are a nerd and like sci-fi and other "white" interests then you are bascially in trouble since you can't even get that niche market and end up in incel territory.
I wonder if others, like @Gamisch feels pressure to conform to "positive" stereotypes. If it's in you to be like that then it's easy. But if it's foreign then it's a real uphill battle.
Its not about literally D size, but rather about "big D energy ". How you carry yourself ect.Hi Corrector,
I hate to correct you but I doubt these Aussie Women were into "Black Men" Per Se,rather "Afro Americans"probably because of urban myths about the size of their appendages,also maybe their prowess in the fields of Athletics and Music?We have plenty of our own home grown Folk,who are far from popular....Once I wondered into a South African Hotel Kitchen,to see half a dozen coloured Maids all washing dishes while swaying to a catchy Folk Tune,moving as one,they were like India Rubber,Magic!
During my boxing career I was taught to train for 150 % , because on matchday due to nerves, bad sleep and anxiety you'll lose half of your (lung) capacity.downloaded, thanks
Now, from this pov regaining power seems easy; you "just" gotta get in your seductive frame again!One really important thing about dealing with women that I realize.
I made this thread wondering to what degree it's " allowed " to be ourselves around women. Perhaps I worded it wrong, and @All_Kindz_Of_Gainz comment made me realize this.
When we meet a woman we obviously try to seduce her. Our posture, voice ,look ect our entire AURA is nothing but seduction. THIS is how we lure her in!
When she gets close we will let our guard down. The first "major event " when this will happen is most likely after sex, during pillow talk. This is when a man tends to show his first signs of weakness.
Gradually we will loosen up more and more and before you know it you are complaining seven days a week about work, friends and family. Now, remember this? ;
"When we meet a woman we obviously try to seduce her. Our posture, voice ,look ect our entire AURA is nothing but seduction. "
Where did the seduction go? The gamer, the player ,the smooth don juan?
Despite WE as men making this change of characters , yet we tend to be dumbfounded when after literally sometimes YEARS of showing this behaviour, how come she starts " acting weird".
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So, while you are now completely" yourself" all the time, in her every day life she keeps meeting men who'll do EXACTLY what you did when you met her; I'll repeat again:
When we meet a woman we obviously try to seduce her. Our posture, voice ,look ect our entire AURA is nothing but seduction.
She get seduced by every man EXCEPT you!!!!
I am sorry, i edited the post and ,perhaps should make a better reference to what I mean.I don't remember writing that quote, but I did write something similar, it has happened to all of us. I think letting the guard down to the wrong woman is the mistake, and I think whenever you see signals of lost of interest you act.
Quoted for truth. It sounds weird at first but it's spot on."I pretended to be somebody I wanted to be until finally I became that person. Or he became me."
This.Quoted for truth. It sounds weird at first but it's spot on.
@Gamisch I started a similar thread recently about how I was unsure if my energy was off because I wasn't always 100% Mr. Charisma in all social situations. Got some great advice here. As always it's a mix of being true to yourself but putting in the work to improve.
They say if you make behavioral changes ("pretend" to be something like you're not) your brain will observe these changes and eventually accept that that's how you are. Example, if you want to have better diction and practice it every day, after a few weeks you will become a person with great diction. Or if a guy is bad with women but wants to be known as a flirt then he pushes himself to flirt more. Etc. This doesn't mean you're being anyone but yourself, just a new improved version.
People often do this in new environments when nobody knew their previous self, like at college. But it can happen anywhere. Anyone who gives you sh*t about it can sod off.