Who Pays for Porn? Who are the simps?

[corrector]

I’m not much of a porn guy. But. the few times I use it I use the free stuff online. It’s quick. easy and over & done in a short time. I’ll admit I don’t know anything about the more interactive stuff like OF & whatnot. However, it seems more pricey, complicated and time consuming. I think if I were ever in that position. I might as well just hop back on Tinder. It’s been a few years, but I could be up & running in about 15 minutes. No guarantee I could land anything live right away. But good chance I could get some naughty talk & tvtyy pics pretty easy. The downside is. That unlike porn or OF. There’s no guarantee. You could hit the jackpot. Or spend a couple of hours in frustration. .

Of course not, like you said you are not an incel. People who are not incel should not look at porn but deal with real women.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Of course not, like you said you are not an incel. People who are not incel should not look at porn but deal with real women.

But an incel will have a much harder time escaping inceldom if he satisfies himself with porn/OF/escorting/fapping. Staying hungry and motivated is the escape out of inceldom.

 

[corrector]

But an incel will have a much harder time escaping inceldom if he satisfies himself with porn/OF/escorting/fapping. Staying hungry and motivated is the escape out of inceldom.

I am not using OF though. I might do a drive by a local incall location (normally just see a door, if its partially opened, opened to see the stairs). But that is not looking at porn or fapping or escortcelling.

 

[Luni]

Umm, there's nothing about this paragraph that should feel 'normal'.

he's the most interesting dude here

 

[corrector]

Umm, there's nothing about this paragraph that should feel 'normal'.

I'm glad that the two girls you paid to see your d*ck, saw your d*ck?

Two things to clarify.

(I am writing this on my smartphone on a parking lot next to an incall)

First normal means in a sense of being no PTSD happened as a result of sharing d1ck picks. There is no difference of feeling. That means normal. If I had a panic attack and had to go to emergency because another lady I do not know saw my d1ck pick then I think there would be issues. The second lady who saw it works as an escort. Meaning an interaction where an escort saw my d1ck pick also did not lead to a panic attack.

The second lady who saw my d1ck pick did not charge me for the rating but I told her thank you. She was an escort but I shared some personal info about myself to her over OF, including the fact I had a nervous breakdown after an escort 9 years ago. She asked me what I did, and explained it to her.

I would not have the confidence to share my d1ck pick with the second lady if I never paid.for the first.lady to rate it.

It does not matter if you pay or do not pay if there is female contact or attention with me. Women have rejected guys even if they could pay so at least its not that bad. OF is virtually rejection proof as a woman cant see your face and base her treatment of you on how you look. All she has to know is how my d1ck looks and her treatment of me is just based on that because its the only thing that should matter anyway.

 

[corrector]

My god man, you are allergic to rejection. Paying escorts/pornstars to rate your d*ck? I think you're one of the types that needs to go cold approach 100 women, for the sheer sake of learning to be rejected without being destroyed.

Like hang outside an all girls high school and approach 100 girls (just kidding)? I am locationcelled as I dont feel there are approach venues where I can spend allot of time. For example, are you really going to approach a girl sitting on a rock next to the water by herself? Or the lady eating an ice cream that just walked by? A group of girls walking together in the trail? A mother and daughter (old enough looking) walking together or taking pictures? You have to be a real sniper shot with these approaches rather thn machine gun approach style. You cant spam approach like that in a nature trail next to a lake.

 

[corrector]

Strawman.

When is the last time you approached a woman?

I dont know. Probably February, 2020 before the pandemic. Social distancing afterwards. Appoaching violates 6 feet apart rule.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Like hang outside an all girls high school and approach 100 girls (just kidding)? I am locationcelled as I dont feel there are approach venues where I can spend allot of time. For example, are you really going to approach a girl sitting on a rock next to the water by herself? Or the lady eating an ice cream that just walked by? A group of girls walking together in the trail? A mother and daughter (old enough looking) walking together or taking pictures? You have to be a real sniper shot with these approaches rather thn machine gun approach style. You cant spam approach like that in a nature trail next to a lake.

My god man, you are allergic to rejection. Paying escorts/pornstars to rate your d*ck? I think you're one of the types that needs to go cold approach 100 women, for the sheer sake of learning to be rejected without being destroyed.

Being rejected sucks. But the bad feeling disappears and you’re left with a good feeling that at least you tried. I’ve only had soft rejections. So a hard rejection would probably hurt more.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Of course not, like you said you are not an incel. People who are not incel should not look at porn but deal with real women.

I do think a lot of non-incels look at porn. Oddly, and I can’t prove it (though I strongly suspect it), my incel buddies aren’t much into porn. I think for most (but not all) of them. Women are mythical creatures. They act as if they are eunuchs. .

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I dont know. Probably February, 2020 before the pandemic. Social distancing afterwards. Appoaching violates 6 feet apart rule.

You’re in Toronto right? I think Canadians took that way more seriously than in the US. I’m in healthcare in a Blue city and even in the height of Covid. I would be in the ED and nurses would literally drape their arms around me. We would mask, but no one paid any attention to the 6’ rule. And we would unmask as soon as we were free of patients.

 

[corrector]

Being rejected sucks. But the bad feeling disappears and you’re left with a good feeling that at least you tried. I’ve only had soft rejections. So a hard rejection would probably hurt more.

What is a hard rejection to you?

 

[corrector]

I do think a lot of non-incels look at porn. Oddly, and I can’t prove it (though I strongly suspect it), my incel buddies aren’t much into porn. I think for most (but not all) of them. Women are mythical creatures. They act as if they are eunuchs. .

Perhaps I should clarify, and suggest that non-incels really have no excuse to look at porn as they know they can get a real women. Unless you are able to check your incel friend's search history / computer / credit card statements (ie for OnlyFans subscriptiosn), how would you really know that? I could say that women are mythical creatures and I act like a eunuch just as much as they can. How I present myself here is not how I present myself to my folks or anyone else around and people might be saying the same thing about me as you are with your incel friends!

 

[corrector]

You’re in Toronto right? I think Canadians took that way more seriously than in the US. I’m in healthcare in a Blue city and even in the height of Covid. I would be in the ED and nurses would literally drape their arms around me. We would mask, but no one paid any attention to the 6’ rule. And we would unmask as soon as we were free of patients.

Yes, I'm in Toronto. I've taken Covid hyper-seriously compared to the average person next to me as I live with elderly parents and and didn't like what I was seeing in terms of these covid symptoms. I don't know which pandemic year was worst, if it was 2020 or 2021. I think 2021 was even more nasty than 2020 because they were pushing the vaccines and I was totally fractured about it and didn't end up taking it thinking I would die if I took the vaccine or something like that. Crazy times. Glad 2023 has seen some break from this. I'm covid-fatigued at this point and don't care. I've been inside crowded trains and spaces without a mask.

Again, I often reference my living situation when I'm talking about inceldom making me consider that I'm now a "locationcel" as the living situation seems more dominant aspect of incel than the other aspect.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

What is a hard rejection to you?

Of course anything rude.
But also any rejection that absolutely closes the door on the future. e.g. ‘you’re like a brother to me.’. ‘I don’t see you in a romantic way.’…

 

[corrector]

Of course anything rude.
But also any rejection that absolutely closes the door on the future. e.g. ‘you’re like a brother to me.’. ‘I don’t see you in a romantic way.’…

What is a soft rejection then? Your version of hard rejections don't sound that extreme. I thought a hard rejection is more like a lady calling the police and saying they felt threatened, security approaching you and saying you cant stop in the store anymore as you are making people feel uncomfortable there, putting a Tic Tok video about with your face on it showing that you tried to approach her, her boyfriend comes out and gets confrontational with you, her having ties to the mafia and threatening to kill you, etc.... What you call as a hard rejection SOUNDS like a soft rejection with me.

 

[Luni]

What you call as a hard rejection SOUNDS like a soft rejection with me.

what you call hard rejection sounds like hyperbole. you said it yourself earlier, cold approaches require discretion

 

[Hamurabimbi]

What is a soft rejection then? Your version of hard rejections don't sound that extreme. I thought a hard rejection is more like a lady calling the police and saying they felt threatened, security approaching you and saying you cant stop in the store anymore as you are making people feel uncomfortable there, putting a Tic Tok video about with your face on it showing that you tried to approach her, her boyfriend comes out and gets confrontational with you, her having ties to the mafia and threatening to kill you, etc.... What you call as a hard rejection SOUNDS like a soft rejection with me.

Soft rejection leaves the door open. ‘I have a boyfriend.’ A girl I was an acquaintance with told me that. However. Several months later, they broke up & we started dating. I asked a coworker out. She deflected it. I ssked her out a few months later and she said ‘yes’.
Those rejections you describe seem over the top nuclear war level rejections. The worst rejection I’ve seem was a friend & I were at s club (he actually is ugly 3/10 but White, tall & in shape). He is not an incel. He can only date Asians. He hit on a White girl at the club. She said ‘Get lost creep!’. I’d consider that sn extreme hard rejection.

 

[corrector]

Soft rejection leaves the door open. ‘I have a boyfriend.’ A girl I was an acquaintance with told me that. However. Several months later, they broke up & we started dating. I asked a coworker out. She deflected it. I ssked her out a few months later and she said ‘yes’.
Those rejections you describe seem over the top nuclear war level rejections. The worst rejection I’ve seem was a friend & I were at s club (he actually is ugly 3/10 but White, tall & in shape). He is not an incel. He can only date Asians. He hit on a White girl at the club. She said ‘Get lost creep!’. I’d consider that sn extreme hard rejection.

Different guy then the White guy that got rejected by a stripper?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Different guy then the White guy that got rejected by a stripper?

yep.
Different guy.
The ‘stripper’ guy is tall & White. pudgy. 5/10 face. But. He actually has potential. And has had some girls express interest.

 

[corrector]

yep.
Different guy.
The ‘stripper’ guy is tall & White. pudgy. 5/10 face. But. He actually has potential. And has had some girls express interest.

He did not do anything about it? What happened?