How do you get another bang from a one-night stand?

[skipfontaine22]

Hi there
I am a bit rusty.

This weekend, I hooked up with a a real freak and we had great sexual chemistry. (Update: it was a bar pull)

She was a sexual animal but also was Catholic, and, in some ways, acted ashamed... but she was a bit.. odd.. so its hard to say if she felt ashamed.

She lives nearby.

I want to try to make it a sex-buddy relationship.

I was just wondering what is the best way to play it now.

Do I invite her out to eat / a drink, or do I just boss up and try to get her directly to my place?

I realize there are many variables at play. But, I think maybe the dinner/drink route is the best route as the girl doesn't want to feel slutty?

With that said, she was so wild, she may want me to put her into the slut role.. hmm.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

If you laid down the law, you don't have to do much except the follow-up text - take her on another date with great logistics. She will make it easy (emphasis IF you impressed her).

 

[skipfontaine22]

If you laid down the law, you don't have to do much except the follow-up text - take her on another date with great logistics. She will make it easy (emphasis IF you impressed her).

Thanks.

It wasn't a date, it was a bar pull.

Should I take her on a date or try to get her straight over.

 

[SW15]

try to get her straight over.

This

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Depends on the vibe. Has she been to your place before? If you are high interest take her on a simple date - happy hour, then invite her back to yours and come up with some plausible excuse "i want to show you my Transfromer figurine collection" j/k - I dont know your age or hers.

She might be more receptive to the date idea than "just come over and ****" as she has catholic guilt. Give her plausible deniability.

Going straight for the kill could end things right there, if you want a higher chance of success do the mini-date, then try to get her to your place.

Thanks.

It wasn't a date, it was a bar pull.

Should I take her on a date or try to get her straight over.

 

[skipfontaine22]

Haha
I see pros and cons of both sides.

 

[MixedMutt00]

That plausible deniability does make sense maybe keep it somewhat simple, ask if she likes horror and aim for a "movie night".

 

[logicallefty]

Make her O the first time and she will want more

 

[The Duke]

I've done this several times. Just set up a date for some drinks and get ready for round 2. No biggie. She won't say no, the fact that you are wanting to go out with her again makes her feel less whorish and it sounds like she was already feeling that. It's a way she can redeem herself. It's just how they think.....errrrgh...feel.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I would also leave after the act, don’t stay over. When you reach out after you’re gonna have an effect that you wouldn’t get otherwise. Don’t take more than 48 hours though or she’ll have gotten out of the guilt

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If you fvcked her properly you don't need to do much, she will do the work for you. If you didn't then it's probably 50/50 at best.

There are also other things at play too...perhaps she thought the sex was good but didn't like the way your body smelled or your d!ck tasted or whatever else can happen when two people are naked...

As long as there weren't any major turnoffs and you fvcked her right it should be easy

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Give her a vaginal orgasm with your dvck. She will obsess over you.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Give her a vaginal orgasm with your dvck. She will obsess over you.

This is why I’m ordering up some Tongkat… my d game is my meal ticket lol

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is why I’m ordering up some Tongkat… my d game is my meal ticket lol

No need for that. Start climbing hills with a weighted vest. You will become an unstoppable beast, the likes of which she has never seen nor will likely ever see again. It's the ultimate weapon in the bedroom.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

No need for that. Start climbing hills with a weighted vest. You will become an unstoppable beast, the likes of which she has never seen nor will likely ever see again. It's the ultimate weapon in the bedroom.

Yes. Stamina is sooooooooooo important. as is good glutes for deep, powerful thrusting. There’s a reason women check out guy’s a$&.

 

[Canadian_Man]

Start climbing hills with a weighted vest.

Naive question, I just looked that up.

I assume you attach an appropriate weight to it based on what you're capable of?

 

[Divorced w 3]

No need for that. Start climbing hills with a weighted vest. You will become an unstoppable beast, the likes of which she has never seen nor will likely ever see again. It's the ultimate weapon in the bedroom.

Deadlifts

 

[Divorced w 3]

I just got back on the dead’s for the first time in like 8 weeks, second day running in a row … sauna two days in a row… boys don’t lose sight of what you did when you were on your own for yourself (&why she wanted you in the first place )

 

[EyeBRollin]

I’d call her 5-9 days after the bang and ask her out. Something simple. Keep the logistics in play for round 2.

 

[skipfontaine22]

I’d call her 5-9 days after the bang and ask her out. Something simple. Keep the logistics in play for round 2.

People actually call? Shes 25.