Great great post.
So we back at "game". Whats your definition of "game"?
This is so hard to explain.
TBH since I've been here I've wanted to talk about how I interact with women ie Game but guys here and out there dont do things like this or get it. So I think there is v v little real Game out there from men. If there were women would be engagely much more with the dating market and with men in general.
Game can be expressed in many ways, starting from different concepts, but all ending in the same thing. Game is internalisation of ALL things positive that results in a winning psychology in Life.
Game is that which is expressed outwards, of a pyschology WITHIN, that causes a male to succeed in Life.
In a nutshell, imagine a guy who has evrything, more importantly he has no concerns, no need for validation, say he is content, not hungry, not suffering, not stressed, he has no urgency or immediate concerns. He has only good things in him.
How does such a person (male or female) behave and engage with the world and people. It is not the same the one who is hungry, stressed, suffering with many immediate concerns. The former is a winner lets say and the latter a loser.
In interactions with women, the winner is all about enjoying the interaction and not necessarily trying to get somewhere. More importantly, this guys doesnt feel pressure to act or behave in any way especially to move things forward quickly or try and hit some small window of opportunity.
Because this guy is
emotionally stable and
attuned he has the same emotional response to the interaction as the women. Thus this guy knows how the woman feels, more importantly, she feels how he feels, so if he keeps his emotional energy right she will feel the right energy.
Game is an objective thing meaning feelings are real. If the interactions between a man and a woman go coherently, then both parties will
feel the same thing. For the guy, this is his Game. So the Game is that which you both feel. For the guy to feel what the woman is feeling he needs to be emotional stable enough not to let his own feelings get in the way. To be attuned means your own daily emotions need to be more calm. It also requires lots of
empathy. Cats have lots of empathy, being hunters they need to be able to understand their prey in order to catch them. Hence you see pimps refer to themselves as cats.
Now, this is to do with winning energy, which is positive energy. You have to understand that energy is absorbed from others also, so a guy will absord energy from those he spends time with and emotionally engages with. So for most men, working and making money will cause them to lose positive energy in many way. One by being tired and stressed due to time spent at work, and possibly even worse, by spending time with other blue pilled normie losers and seeing himself as one of them. It is what it is. People have to do it.
You have to remember that normie society doesnt understand Game, even tho normie women do. This is why women have more freedoms at work like clothes and style.
As a guy, 90% of normal life will cause you to lose Game. This is why so few men have high Game. The biggest reason is interacting with normie men.
On top of that the relationship market and even other social conventions cause men to lose Game. For instance, many men lose power to women by feeling scarcity and accepting time pressure to move on opportunities.
Game requires that men take things slowly and allow things to drag on. Time can either be a friend or an enemy. The better guy always wins out over time. So Time favours Game. But men cannot use time to their advantage.
Most of mens flaws are because of monogamy. There is no point in developing Game if a guy is gonna have a job and be married to one girl. For men to realistically be able to elevate their Game, they will need to get into the Pimp mindset and aim to live with a few woman as wives, then he can use their income to live while his 'job' is to look after the house and do other side hustles or part-time work to make money. This is the only setuip I can think of that can cause men to raise their Game level.
