FR - First date sex

[Bingo-Player]

Been focusing on building up a rotation of fvck buddies this summer and I am doing it through cold approaches and cold approaches only

I met this chick in a festival about 5 weeks ago , just cold approached her and chatted for like 15-20 mins

Exchanged instagrams and went our seperate ways

I messaged her a few days later and she replied , after that she went ghost for like 2 weeks and I just left it at that

Then randomly a couple weekends ago she messages me out of the blue saying she's "only just seen the message" and gives me her number

This time I Call her and we build some rapport , out of nowhere she texts me yesterday asking if am down for a couple of drinks

I can already see where this is heading , I have nothing on so I agree

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I live close to a boozer so we arrange to meet there , (I can't even really remember what she looks like at this stage) but I do know she is 27

She rocks up and is like a HB 6.5 maybe a 7 on a good day , but has wide hips and curves in the right places and she does enough to pass the boner test

She's one of these like spiritual / crystal ball types of gals

Immediately tells me she likes my chilled " energy " and feels comfortable around me

I know from this stage she's probably down for fun

We literally have like 2 drinks in the boozer and I suggest going to pick up a bottle of wine and some pizzas to cook back at mine

She agrees and even insists on paying for all the wine and snacks which I thought was really sweet of her

We get back and she is yapping on about some nonsense so I just grab her and start kissing her and smacking her A$$ , I told her it was too shut her up a bit

She tells me she is horny so by this stage I aint even had a chance to eat half my pizza yet and she is like grinding on my d1ck in the kitchen

I take her upstairs and strip her off , tease her a bit and she's super fvcking loud and super fvcking WET

Then I just start pumping her and she starts moaning SO FVCKING LOUD

Her ***** is really wet and gripping my d1ck well , its difficult not to nut

I fvck her for a bit longer and then empty my balls over her face , she wants to cuddle and watch a movie

We wake up quite early and she wants it again so I smash her in Doggy for a bit , she likes it in this position and is rubbing her CLT then she nuts

Then I just take her home

 

[Bingo-Player]

This FR is a pretty good example of why being outcome independent with chicks in your rotation is so important

I could have easily had a hissy fit at her not replying to me and had it been an OLD match I would have just removed her

Another point is sometimes I think you can make it more complicated than it needs to be

Like we could have bar hopped for hours but what is the point , all you run the risk of is talking yourself into trouble

If the broad agrees to a date entered around alcohol chances are she is thinking the same as you have 1 or 2 drinks and just get her home

she just wants to check you aren't mental or awkward and to lead her back to yours

then when you get in just dial up the sexual tempo , grab her around the waist , smack her a$$ , ki$$ her

Don't be there asking her about her job or some other cr@p dragging it out and ruining the mood

Her Pu$$y needs and wants attention

 

[soulforge]

Nice so is this chick likely to stay a plate in your rotation. One of a few!

 

[Gamisch]

Tell em bro!

The more complicated she makes it,the less she's REALLY feeling you..

And the more non sexual time you spend with her, the more rope you give yourself to hang YOURSELF with.

We men, from a moral pov, won't even like to be with a woman if it is NOT about sex. No point in letting her do xyz unless its about financial benefits ,or social leverage to get other women. And just the scorn of a woman...Jezus Christ. Never worth the leeching, as the only men who do this are leechers. No men wants to be dependent upon a woman..


A Woman on the other hand might just go out to dinner with a man just because. Just heard some women yelling on YouTube they want a man to spend AT LEAST 300 /500 bucks on her for a 1st date..basically a prostitute-like price she puts on her "time". Because every dude ,ugly old, fat ect can take her on a 300 dollar date at anytime..


Great thread overall. . You are also right that many times we actually sabotage ourselves! By pedalstalizing a woman you might overthink it from the get go by suggesting a fancy place to "play it safe ". For all we know if you said " theres a nice cafe near by", she would've been even more enthusiastic about it than yet another dry, robotic dinner..

 

[Murk]

Well done!

Did you wrap up?

 

[Bingo-Player]

Well done!

Did you wrap up?

haha fck nah

 

[Bingo-Player]

Nice so is this chick likely to stay a plate in your rotation. One of a few!

Probably because she seems like she needs low investment , is happy to pay her way and is very eager to please me

She gave me a back massage in the morning and was very good tbf

She wants to come over next and do like some sort of spiritual healing with incense and sh1t

I'm down for it

Will still keep approaching girls I am attracted too though

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Nice...this is why it's important to always be working on other women. If one drops off for a while you barely notice it because you have others willing to take their place.

 

[ez_slave]

good job

 

[corrector]

Lets focus on the "planting the seed" aspect of the initial interaction, because somehow this is the most important part of information with me and possibly others who don't get what's going on.

I've noted that you exchanged instagrams (ie which means you have an instagram account, and you got hers) and had an interaction that was 15-20 minutes. Was there any type of game in the interaction, or did you have 15-20 min of small/random talk (ie anything that's not too creepy)? How did that interaction end? Did you just suggest to exchange instagram when the convo-momentum started to fizzle, or did you use a false time constraint (ie said you have to meet up with some friends, what's your instagram?)?

I love the instagram thing and saw @CornbreadFed also tries instagram exchanges. It seems allot easier to do then asking for a phone number and it's like you won't care too much how it goes since you are just a follower that might send a DM or not. In other words there is no pressure for either party. An important thing to note is just because a girl ghosts you doesn't mean its final. She may come around later. It's only final if you make it final and block her or some crazy thing like that because she ghosted you. People can learn from that.

Prior to your convo with her, how did you open her? Did you have an opening line? Did you get any IOI/AIs from her before you approached her, or did she come into your space?

This shows that if you plant a seed right, even as a numbers game, that women can just "pop" like popcorn even if they are not initially into you.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Great FR bro! Best of luck building a good rotation

 

[Bingo-Player]

Lets focus on the "planting the seed" aspect of the initial interaction, because somehow this is the most important part of information with me and possibly others who don't get what's going on.

I've noted that you exchanged instagrams (ie which means you have an instagram account, and you got hers) and had an interaction that was 15-20 minutes. Was there any type of game in the interaction, or did you have 15-20 min of small/random talk (ie anything that's not too creepy)? How did that interaction end? Did you just suggest to exchange instagram when the convo-momentum started to fizzle, or did you use a false time constraint (ie said you have to meet up with some friends, what's your instagram?)?

I love the instagram thing and saw @CornbreadFed also tries instagram exchanges. It seems allot easier to do then asking for a phone number and it's like you won't care too much how it goes since you are just a follower that might send a DM or not. In other words there is no pressure for either party. An important thing to note is just because a girl ghosts you doesn't mean its final. She may come around later. It's only final if you make it final and block her or some crazy thing like that because she ghosted you. People can learn from that.

Prior to your convo with her, how did you open her? Did you have an opening line? Did you get any IOI/AIs from her before you approached her, or did she come into your space?

This shows that if you plant a seed right, even as a numbers game, that women can just "pop" like popcorn even if they are not initially into you.

Its a hard toss between getting the number or the instagram and really depends on the girl and the enviroment

On this particular day ( festival day) I decided to just get insta's I was in good form and was just approaching girls at will

I'm always super conscious now to show girls I'm not a threat or creepy

so I'm usually just very chilled & friendly and then once they are smiling or laughing with me and can see I am not a socially awkward Incel and just a cool guy they may want to have sex with

I tend to dial up my sexual intent from there .............we ALL know this is the end goal when any male and female start an interaction

it's just all about how you get there

I can't really remember what I was talking about with this chick but one thing I can remember is I asked for a kiss before she left , she did it and giggled

I asked her why she took so long to get back to me she said she just forgot , but then saw a pic of me on my insta story and thought I was hot and then remembered to reply

So yeh guess you just need a bit of patience sometimes

 

[corrector]

Its a hard toss between getting the number or the instagram and really depends on the girl and the enviroment

On this particular day ( festival day) I decided to just get insta's I was in good form and was just approaching girls at will

I'm always super conscious now to show girls I'm not a threat or creepy

so I'm usually just very chilled & friendly and then once they are smiling or laughing with me and can see I am not a socially awkward Incel and just a cool guy they may want to have sex with

I tend to dial up my sexual intent from there .............we ALL know this is the end goal when any male and female start an interaction

it's just all about how you get there

I can't really remember what I was talking about with this chick but one thing I can remember is I asked for a kiss before she left , she did it and giggled

I asked her why she took so long to get back to me she said she just forgot , but then saw a pic of me on my insta story and thought I was hot and then remembered to reply

So yeh guess you just need a bit of patience sometimes

You asked for a kiss? You normally do this? That was how you expressed your sexual intent? Most seduction advice suggests you dont ask permission to kiss her.

 

[Bingo-Player]

You asked for a kiss? You normally do this? That was how you expressed your sexual intent? Most seduction advice suggests you dont ask permission to kiss her.

Yes but I didn't ask to kiss her I asked HER to Kiss ME

and she did

Submission

 

[Divorced w 3]

Yes but I didn't ask to kiss her I asked HER to Kiss ME

and she did

Submission

I like telling them I am going to and then not doing it and they will throw themselves at you at some point.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Not scared of stis bruh?

The odds of a man getting one are really slim.

 

[corrector]

The odds of a man getting one are really slim.

Until it happens to you.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Until it happens to you.

Totally agree, but my friend went to a doctor and the guy was told it was super slim and treatable and then, of course I meet a chick whose got herpes (heard from her friend) but I mean, that’s not floating around a whole lot