Preemptive flake signs

[anour]

there's been a couple of people who've said that if you make plans with multiple women it somehow causes them to not flake.

Like if you have one girl for Saturday night, she's much more likely to flake than if you had two girls scheduled for Saturday night.

I mean if one flakes and another shows up you still win don’t you

 

[anour]

This kinda thing is so pertinent.

But I'd like to add, something that many men are clueless of that most women in general do whether they like you or not: They will often try to always flake the first date. I believe there's 2 reasons why: She wants to test h ow serious you are , and if you don't reschedule or try again she will think oh he has other options. I believe the other is just to create leverage/desire.. because women are sensitive and struggle for the power dynamic these days.. Ofc then later they find out the didn't need to cuz most men are weak as fucc lmao

It's a similar thing to women purposely ignore a few of your texts to see if you'll go batsh.t on them or if you can handle it. and thus guage that you're not crazy or the angry type or needy

In the modern age women understand they cant always find the biggest baddest dude in the wild, so they have other wayst o test a mans "mating capabilities" / partner capabilities. The truth is most women would love a boyfriend.. but most dont want the drama and heartbreak that comes with it.. but the smarter ones they have tactics thy utilize to weed out men.

Have you personally experienced any of what you’ve wrote? Has ever a girl flaked on you and then you texted her back again and got a date and eventually had her? How was that?

 

[Solomon]

The biggest one I've learned since I've been on Sosuave is this below

Lack of Texting Leading up to the first date or communication-I know people preach on here to keep texting to a minimum and I agree but if a woman has high interest she'll text you daily, whether it's pictures or to chat with you. If she has high interest she wants to get to know you. I've found that women who show high interest tend to flake waaaay less.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Have you personally experienced any of what you’ve wrote? Has ever a girl flaked on you and then you texted her back again and got a date and eventually had her? How was that?

OF COURSE man, I wouldn't just tell you sht that I didn't learn from experience. Most guys on Sosuave don't even know about half the sht/gems I drop for you guys lol. It just comes from alot of experience and knowing to a very high degree how women operate.

Its just something women do man. Women are very mentally smart and cunning. Where men from the beginning of time relied on our brute strength and physical endurance and capabilities, women always developed their psychology to navigate through life.

What i shared here is just a tiny bit of what I know lol. I mean theres jus so many diff things women do whether consciously or subconciously and knowing them makes things real easy.. anytime i meet a new girl its just nothing she does can phase me. I can read her as if she came with an operating manual.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I can read her as if she came with an operating manual.

"Press the following buttons to drop panties"

 

[anour]

OF COURSE man, I wouldn't just tell you sht that I didn't learn from experience. Most guys on Sosuave don't even know about half the sht/gems I drop for you guys lol. It just comes from alot of experience and knowing to a very high degree how women operate.

Its just something women do man. Women are very mentally smart and cunning. Where men from the beginning of time relied on our brute strength and physical endurance and capabilities, women always developed their psychology to navigate through life.

What i shared here is just a tiny bit of what I know lol. I mean theres jus so many diff things women do whether consciously or subconciously and knowing them makes things real easy.. anytime i meet a new girl its just nothing she does can phase me. I can read her as if she came with an operating manual.

How did you do that? What did you text her?

 

[anour]

The biggest one I've learned since I've been on Sosuave is this below

Lack of Texting Leading up to the first date or communication-I know people preach on here to keep texting to a minimum and I agree but if a woman has high interest she'll text you daily, whether it's pictures or to chat with you. If she has high interest she wants to get to know you. I've found that women who show high interest tend to flake waaaay less.

She definitely will but if she doesn’t you can’t be texting her everyday now can you?

 

[Solomon]

She definitely will but if she doesn’t you can’t be texting her everyday now can you?

If a woman doesn't text you everyday no harm no foul hence you should be spnning plates

 

[anour]

If a woman doesn't text you everyday no harm no foul hence you should be spnning plates

Spinning is winning

 

[RazorRambo24]

How did you do that? What did you text her?

I mean I have more than just one example of it but you dont really do anyhting. IF she says something came up you jsut be like cool no worries maybe next time. and then you set the next date and ask her if shes free on a certain date. Its not too hard and nothing to think too much about. For me I used to be busy all the time so it didnt really matter too much.. If she didnt flake on me the first time, i was usually the one to cancel on girls the first time

 

[Divorced w 3]

DJ’s,

What are some preemptive flake signs that a girl is gonna stand you up for the date?

I’ve gotten a few numbers and i’ve texted almost all the same line “i wanna see you on …. At …. Time, come wearing those red nails”

is there a problem with this type of texting, or is it merely a lost cause from the get go?

Your line is perfect. The thing where you put the date and time down is exactly what you should do. If the quip at the end works for you, cool. You don’t text her again until after the first date. Don’t confirm, let her come to you. Any girl worth any sort of attention will confirm with you.