The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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Borknagar

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October 7 2001. Less than a month after 9/11 i signed up here. I was fat as ****, long hair, and cooked teeth and only been with one girl from 19-24 nothing. Then got a girlfriend who acted like she didn't want it, broke up 4 months later, random dates/sex but rare but increased when I lost weight in 2008 to a few a year then ran into a women I used to know when I was 30 who was now attracted to me, dated for a month, gives me bull**** reasons, met a friend who was all into pickup so went balls to the wall the next 2.5 years with that, **** tons of women and crazy **** until I met the one who became my wife. Dated 5 years married 5 years separated then divorced over the last year and a half. Lol some of you were literally infants maybe not even burn yet when I signed up. Sadly I didn't actually use the material or got involved until 2010, several women and pickups for 3 years then met my wife so I've been inactive more than active the last 22 years. Divorced now so here I am.

I guess all this is what happens when you haven't had a non-work conversation in a few days. Lol
 
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Ricky

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I may have had an earlier account than this one.. but somewhere close to you. 2002.

Sorry to hear about your divorce. Been with the same woman since 2006.. married since 2009 and got damn damn close to divorce starting late 2020. I'm back...

Do you have many friends now. You can definitely go out and game solo. I do it. It's been catch and release for me because i've been reconciling with my wife.
 

SW15

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I wasn't on the forum in 2001 but I was interested in seduction then, as I am now. 2001 was when I first started reading some stuff about attraction and seduction.

You can definitely go out and game solo. I do it.
Non-bar approaching is perfect for this.

i've been reconciling with my wife.
Iron Rule of Tomassi #7

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
 

Modern Man Advice

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Welcome back. This is proof, you should never stop focusing on your growth. Never lose your individuality and yourself in the process. Keep learning and never let a woman get comfortable.
 

eli77

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I've been on here since 2000 didn't officially sign up so to speak till 2001
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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