How To Identify Chicks With Daddy Issue's?

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What tell tale signs do you look for?

These are some that I have identified.

01. The father passed away or parents divorced and her mother raised her.

02. Always seeking validation/attention usually online through social media

03. Has lots of male friends, more dude freinds than female friends

04. Suffers from some disorder, depression or bipolar

05. Has a high body count

06. Has tattoos and piercings

07. Is or was a party girl at some period of her life
 

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who cares? Does she make you happy? Is she going to be committed and submissive? Does she hit the notes in the relationship that you need for it to work the right way for you?

don’t discount the tremendous value of experience in a relationship with someone ever, either. What bothers you is ultimately a reflection of your own shortcomings.

Live, learn and most importantly enjoy.

That is all that really matters.
 

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08. She calls you "daddy" during sex
 

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‘Daddy issues’ aren’t in the DSM. So it’s more of a pop psychology thing. I’ve been with many younger women. But no consistent pattern, as in the OP. My experience is people like what they like. If you are older, but you (irrespective of age) give her the gina tingles, then. That’s what matters.
 

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You think? Could that have anything to do with watching a lot of porn?

Yeh and social media. They hear it on Social media, other chicks calling there man Daddy.. I have had a couple of chicks call me Daddy when I smash them.

When it happened the first time, it actually wierded me out a little, I felt uncomfortable, as I immediately thought this chick might have had some abusive past.

But... Who knows maybe it is some weird daddy fetish they have. I don't quite understand it.
 

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As a guy in my 40’s, walking around in Austin, Tx on the dirty 6th I’d more than once have a random group of college girls say “damn Daddy”, then ask for a light, point out my shoes, or something to chat me up.

Austin was like shooting fish in a barrel back then…
 

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As a guy in my 40’s, walking around in Austin, Tx on the dirty 6th I’d more than once have a random group of college girls say “damn Daddy”, then ask for a light, point out my shoes, or something to chat me up.

Austin was like shooting fish in a barrel back then…
Yeh I think it's just a common usage with chicks these days. Especially when they getting banged
 

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It's not difficult. If she doesn't have a good relationship with her father she has daddy issues. Shouldn't take more than a few minutes of discussion to flesh this out.

Either way, lots of women like to call you daddy when you do them. That's more of a fetish or kink than indicator of daddy issues
 

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What tell tale signs do you look for?

These are some that I have identified.

01. The father passed away or parents divorced and her mother raised her.

02. Always seeking validation/attention usually online through social media

03. Has lots of male friends, more dude freinds than female friends

04. Suffers from some disorder, depression or bipolar

05. Has a high body count

06. Has tattoos and piercings

07. Is or was a party girl at some period of her life
Just ask how her relation with her dad is.. and you will know... @soulforge ;)
 

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Just ask the right questions, it aint rocket science. It takes one good little convo to find out all you need to know.

The chick who got me fired from my last job, that I didnt care about the red flags for since she was just 1 of 3 girls I was piping.. within 1 convo she told me that she used to be bad and get arrested alot, that she wasnt cool with her mom, that her dad passed away and he was an alcoholic and she didnt like him, and tha tshe smokes weed.

Those things already told me she wouldnt even be plate worthy for me.. OFC, i had no idea that meant she was gonna be a jealous weirdo who gets me fired cuz I was seen leaving with another chick ... Thats retail tho .. people gossip like a mofo in retail.. especially a giant mall sized high end brand department store.
 

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Just ask the right questions, it aint rocket science. It takes one good little convo to find out all you need to know.

The chick who got me fired from my last job, that I didnt care about the red flags for since she was just 1 of 3 girls I was piping.. within 1 convo she told me that she used to be bad and get arrested alot, that she wasnt cool with her mom, that her dad passed away and he was an alcoholic and she didnt like him, and tha tshe smokes weed.

Those things already told me she wouldnt even be plate worthy for me.. OFC, i had no idea that meant she was gonna be a jealous weirdo who gets me fired cuz I was seen leaving with another chick ... Thats retail tho .. people gossip like a mofo in retail.. especially a giant mall sized high end brand department store.
Damn bro you lost your job over this 304... Chicks are dangerous as fuk.
 

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Damn bro you lost your job over this 304... Chicks are dangerous as fuk.
Nah wasnt like that at all. I got a job to fucc around because i had too much free time since i own 2 diff businesses that are pretty much streamline. I ended up talking to a buncha diff chicks, got one of them jealous and she got me fired. Not a big deal. I was having way too mcuh fun at that job anyways.. It was like a 4 story high end department store, felt like a mall practically. each floor was 170k sq feet so you can imagine it was jus a big ass place with tons of hot chicks working in diff departments.
 

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If you’re alluding to daddy issues being a sign of the girl being damaged in some way, don’t discount mommy issues either. Last two chicks that I got involved with that, I would say, had some sort of unhealthy relational habits (to say the least) actually had their mom cheat on their dad and “abandon” the family when they were younger.

Leads to similar patterns as “daddy issues” or “personality disorders” that are problematic for relationships.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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I've got a niece with major daddy issues. Her black daddy took off early. Never paid child support. Only wanted to see his daughter during the holidays. That relationship is extremely strained.

She hasn't had many strong male figures in her life. And definitely does t understand men at all. Despises most of them.

My niece dates a little skinny faggot yes man with next to no confidence. She tells him what to do.

They crave a masculine man but they are very combative. They don't know how to be submissive.

May even have a feminist mindset.
 
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