How did women respond to you when you said "Hey pretty lady"

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I haven't and wouldn't say that ever to a woman I just met. Just about every man out there resorts to complimenting the looks of a woman because of a lack of creativity, I refuse to be yet another unoriginal and bland man.

I'd rather ask them straight up if they wanna fvck, it's still not original, but it's at least more uncommon than complimenting their looks.
 

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Women won't respond to that because it comes off as cat-calling.
It's equivalent of whistling at her.
Even if you're a good looking guy she'll ignore you because of that.
It doesn't come off as smooth or flirtatious.

You can compliment women but it has to be done with style & finesse.
It should not be the first sentence that comes out of your mouth.
 

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Can't say I ever lead with that. Can't imagine it working out too well.

Hey sexy or Hey gorgeous is how I usually start a text after I've smashed
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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1. At places where you are a semi-regular example: Poker rooms, casinos
2. Grocery store
Bruh, no empty compliments.

It's cool to use that as an opening for a request to exchange contact information.

But no free attention.
 

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I will try that to the next cashier, hb 4-6.5 (anyone who is not actually pretty but not ugly enough for it to be sarcasric). Any higher hb then it would likely be too cheesy.
 

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of the twice i used it where i go normally, i've received something back

I told Asian lady "oh hey pretty lady! in a fun flirty tone" She replied with "hey sexy" in return from a younger lady at poker place (one of those girls who gives u chips for money)

I told casino dealer "Oh, we got a pretty dealer" then she replied it with "Thank you! (with a smile) You'are good looking player"

I used it once on a Latina nurse that i normally run into twice a week "i didn't get same compliment like the first 2. Just a thanks
 

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of the twice i used it where i go normally, i've received something back

I told Asian lady "oh hey pretty lady! in a fun flirty tone" She replied with "hey sexy" in return from a younger lady at poker place (one of those girls who gives u chips for money)

I told casino dealer "Oh, we got a pretty dealer" then she replied it with "Thank you! (with a smile) You'are good looking player"

I used it once on a Latina nurse that i normally run into twice a week "i didn't get same compliment like the first 2. Just a thanks
Its okay to say that once in a great while . Just dont make a habit out of it.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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Hey beautiful is more commonly accepted in my world.

But honestly, there's really no need to say hi, hello, hey, or any of that unless you're trying to get her attention.

You can easily just walk up to a girl working in a department store and say some fly sht like "Damn.. Do they only hire beautiful women here?" and smile once she gets it
 

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1. At places where you are a semi-regular example: Poker rooms, casinos
2. Grocery store
sometimes it is valuable to look at these questions from a different angle. I’m not a huge fan of when a woman approaches by complimenting my looks. (e.g. ‘Hi. You have nice eyes,’) It puts a lot of pressure and emotion on right away. One minute I’m thinking about where to get gas. The next-it’s ‘Go time’. I find it more comfortable with a gradual approach. More time t ease in.
 

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I was chilling having drinks with some earl 20's chicks on a table a couple of weekends ago and some random dude comes up and tells one of them she was the most beautiful girl he's ever seen

She smiled and said " thank you " the conversation ended there and He left

They then all of them proceed to tell me how weird it was and they were worried he had been watching them

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Female attraction is like starting a fire , you have to kindle it slowly to begin with

If you go in all guns blazing with a blow torch and flame accelerant your gonna burn out real fast
 

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thats dif
I was chilling having drinks with some earl 20's chicks on a table a couple of weekends ago and some random dude comes up and tells one of them she was the most beautiful girl he's ever seen

She smiled and said " thank you " the conversation ended there and He left

They then all of them proceed to tell me how weird it was and they were worried he had been watching them

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Female attraction is like starting a fire , you have to kindle it slowly to begin with

If you go in all guns blazing with a blow torch and flame accelerant your gonna burn out real fast
thats different because she was with a group ... depends on the situation/context
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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