Female mind -

[Bokanovsky]

Only thing I can think of is extremely high insecurity. You didn’t respond for several hours, so she assumed it was a good ‘ol pump ‘n dump. That probably happened to her before. More than once.

Either that or she is bipolar.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Maybe she unintentionally blocked you by mistake? I say call her up or talk to you in person so you know for sure

Have you ever unintentionally blocked someone by mistake?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Probably assumed you were ghosting her after sex because she had a bad experience before with someone or multiple people doing that to her and it triggered her.

Those type of nuclear reactions come from someone having a previous trauma triggered.

 

[Canadian_Man]

its common with girls who need a high level of attention and validation--if they dont get it right away they start thinknig u just hit it and quit it, like most other dudes. this is why hoes are chronically insecure.. their security comes artificially hwen they land one guy who sees them regularly and from attenton from simps, but they feel unloved cuz so many guys saddle and skadaddle.

its also common with girls who like you but dont like you enough. they expect u to treat them a certain way and u dont, so they block u out of anger.. lik e"omg he thnks hes the shti now cuz he f-ed me?" howdare he, hes not even fine , hes ugly, and his dic.ck is small!"

I was thinking something along these lines as well.

When you didn't reply right away, it triggered her.

Could be something like BPD?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I was thinking something along these lines as well.

When you didn't reply right away, it triggered her.

Could be something like BPD?

Complex PTSD likely at play if we're going into psych issues

 

[manfrombelow]

Funny thing

I met a girl from OLD, she was super friendly and natural. We slept together. She then says that it was the most amazing night ever bla hla

then she leaves my place, send a lot of messages till she got home. Writes to me in the morning that she is going to grab a coffee and that she is super happy

by the time I wake up and reply to her, around 2-3 pm I am already blocked on whatssup

what”s up with that?

me personally I am not that moved by her blocking me out of the sudden, but it still feels bad as it is totally unexpected as I enjoyed her company. Haven’t laughed like I laughed with her for a while

very unexpected thing

Hey at least you got sex.

At the end of the day, it's the action that counts. All the laughing and good convos don't mean sh!t if they decide to block you on Whatsapp but hey, again, at least you got sex.

 

[Bigpapa]

Hey at least you got sex.

At the end of the day, it's the action that counts. All the laughing and good convos don't mean sh!t if they decide to block you on Whatsapp but hey, again, at least you got sex.

well that”s the thing, as it did not happen only once

you kinda realize that talking, having fun, etc does not mean anything, and most likely not even that valued by women

 

[manfrombelow]

well that”s the thing, as it did not happen only once

you kinda realize that talking, having fun, etc does not mean anything, and most likely not even that valued by women

Yes.

At the end of the day, the only thing certain about people in general and women in particular is their uncertain nature. There were numerous times in the past where I came home from a seemingly good date only to find out I had been blocked the next morning. Their losses anyway.

 

[Gamisch]

Hey at least you got sex.

At the end of the day, it's the action that counts. All the laughing and good convos don't mean sh!t if they decide to block you on Whatsapp but hey, again, at least you got sex.

This.

This happened to me a few times, even before OLD was a thing. I picked up women at clubs, fecked them and next day they'd ghost me. It part of the game .

You basically dodged a bullet. This a serial dater, a HUGE 304. Most plausible explanations;
- she is extremely sensitive and impatient
-she has a bf
-she just wanna ride the CC and felt like you were to BF-ish

Either way there's nothing you can do besides analyzing IF you did something that pushed her away. Mind you,could be as "simple" as she didn't liked the style of your crib. Just a random example. Still a pretty unique casus tbh, but one that will happen when you use OLD.

Also agree that action action action is what matters. Her action say F YOU big time. Cool...F you too biatch.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Yes, you got laid AND dodged a bullet. Wins all around.

 

[pipeman84]

Funny thing

I met a girl from OLD, she was super friendly and natural. We slept together. She then says that it was the most amazing night ever bla hla

then she leaves my place, send a lot of messages till she got home. Writes to me in the morning that she is going to grab a coffee and that she is super happy

by the time I wake up and reply to her, around 2-3 pm I am already blocked on whatssup

Hey OP, how many times and for how long did you meet with her in person before the night you had sex?
I'm trying to figure out how come you didn't get any vibe that she's insane or a hoe, because her behavior is very far from normal.

 

[Bigpapa]

Hey OP, how many times and for how long did you meet with her in person before the night you had sex?
I'm trying to figure out how come you didn't get any vibe that she's insane or a hoe, because her behavior is very far from normal.

same night lay

we went out, had a couple of drinks then she became very horny and pulled her to my place

could also do with the fact that she was here for a medical conference and then she left back home

I just find extremely weird that after you are super excited ( even when she waked up the next day) to coldly block someone

but women are women, I am sure that it is a very bullsh1t reason

 

[pipeman84]

same night lay

we went out, had a couple of drinks then she became very horny and pulled her to my place

could also do with the fact that she was here for a medical conference and then she left back home

The answer appears to be clear: she's a hoe who had some fun while out of town.

 

[Bingo-Player]

She went for coffee , sobered up and internalised the fact she had just slept with a guy she met literally a few hours ago from a dating app

probably called a couple of friends who reaffirmed she had been used by a " fvckboy " or something to that effect

She felt like a Sloot and wanted rid of the cause

Remember women can rarely deal with guilt , shame or any kind of accountability

You are the problem in her irrational mind

 

[manfrombelow]

She went for coffee , sobered up and internalised the fact she had just slept with a guy she met literally a few hours ago from a dating app

probably called a couple of friends who reaffirmed she had been used by a " fvckboy " or something to that effect

She felt like a Sloot and wanted rid of the cause

Remember women can rarely deal with guilt , shame or any kind of accountability

You are the problem in her irrational mind

Most of the time, these broads would justify the fact they had decided to fvck you on their own freewill by telling themselves that they were your "victims" and that you were a fvckboy who "trapped" them into having sex with you without their consent.

Crazy, I know. But that's how they work.

OP should be glad he got blocked and not MeTooed aka false rape accusation!

 

[Foe]

You just broke the first rule of the manosphere, trying to understand the female mind. Who cares.

Second if you still need some explanation consider this, shes insanly insecure and took your lack of a immediate reply as a rejection then retaliated by over compensating and blocking you. This was equivalent to the male sh!ttest and she failed miserably, in other words you filtered out what was going to be a massive headache in the long run.

 

[manfrombelow]

This happened to me a few times, even before OLD was a thing. I picked up women at clubs, fecked them and next day they'd ghost me. It part of the game .

Exactly bro. It's just part of the game. However to inexperienced younger guys, the first few times usually are confusing as hell. Male's logic brains just cannot fathom and process the irrationality this kind of move got on them.

 

[BeExcellent]

You just broke the first rule of the manosphere, trying to understand the female mind. Who cares.

Second if you still need some explanation consider this, shes insanly insecure and took your lack of a immediate reply as a rejection then retaliated by over compensating and blocking you. This was equivalent to the male sh!ttest and she failed miserably, in other words you filtered out what was going to be a massive headache in the long run.

Advice from the old lady: I concur with others about insecurity and impatience. But there’s another angle to this it appears….The fact that she was in town to attend a medical conference? And you found her on OLD in your area? That’s shopping for strange d i c k while away from home base (and her HUSBAND in all likelihood). She can’t have you screwing up the home front, ya know?

She’s done this before, seems to me. She knows how to be charming & engaging and fun to be with. She got horny & went home with you & had sex with you. By design. And she enjoyed the thrill of what she was doing as much as the deed itself.

I’ve seen outrageous things happen while people were on business trips or a conference….nobody is there to catch her. Is her husband going to see her on OLD in a remote location? Highly unlikely.

She blocked you perhaps to vanish and run damage control.

 

[BadBoy89]

Way too slow of a response, esp after sleeping with her.

How does a chick get up so early and you get up at 3 pm?