When using OLD do you beef up your photos, and bio?

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The question, is this ethical? I say YES! I'm not talking adding the 2-3 inches of height but I mean beefing up your job title and using photo editing to make your face look younger and such. Women lie all over their profiles.

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The question, is this ethical? I say YES! I'm not talking adding the 2-3 inches of height but I mean beefing up your job title and using photo editing to make your face look younger and such. Women lie all over their profiles.

Dating is fierce and not fair. Use every advantage you can.
Yeah photo editing does wonders
 

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If you're asking that question, you're better off doing approaches in the real world.
 

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I did not include my job or education on my bio. I did add an inch to my height & subtracted 5 years from my age. I used the ‘enhance’ button on my iPhone to make the selfies a little better. Never got called out. Oddly. None ever asked about my job or university. Often I’d play around with my bio and made it snarky. outrageous or ridiculous. Didn’t seem to make a difference. I found what song was my main song on Spotify made a difference. When I picked aggressive metal songs like Judas Priest Ram it Down, Jawbreaker.., I got better results.
 

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If you're asking that question, you're better off doing approaches in the real world.
We're talking about biggoal here, he's stuck in SE Florida which is old folks land.
 

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The quality of women on OLD is generally the lowest tier of women you can get so if your having to " beef up" your profile just to get even them its not saying much for you
They mostly fatties and old online
 

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They mostly fatties and old online
Yea and a lot of women who have failed to settle in their 20's and now think they are still entitled to the same standard of men despite being 10 years older and 30-40 lbs heavier

I met a 36 year old chick in a bar a couple of months back she was a 6 on a good day I immediately clarified I wasn't interested but she was alright to chat with.

During the conversation she was listing off things she wanted in a man and why she wouldn't settle for less

I was listening in both amazement and fascination, I even followed her on instagram so I can watch this social experiment unravel
 

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Nah, what's the point? You meet in person and they are going to either leave or basically have an uncomfortable date where it's obvious she has no interest and then basically tell you your pics don't look anything like you in person and she isn't interested.

All you are doing is wasting your own time and money with that.
 

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Yea and a lot of women who have failed to settle in their 20's and now think they are still entitled to the same standard of men despite being 10 years older and 30-40 lbs heavier

I met a 36 year old chick in a bar a couple of months back she was a 6 on a good day I immediately clarified I wasn't interested but she was alright to chat with.

During the conversation she was listing off things she wanted in a man and why she wouldn't settle for less

I was listening in both amazement and fascination, I even followed her on instagram so I can watch this social experiment unravel
Until she meets a guy she really likes and then all those go out the window.
 

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Until she meets a guy she really likes and then all those go out the window.
No that wasn't my point

my point was this woman was THIRTY SIX years of age and who's market value was deteriorating rapidly

Yet she was still reeling off requirements

I found it very amusing
 

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Yea and a lot of women who have failed to settle in their 20's and now think they are still entitled to the same standard of men despite being 10 years older and 30-40 lbs heavier

I met a 36 year old chick in a bar a couple of months back she was a 6 on a good day I immediately clarified I wasn't interested but she was alright to chat with.

During the conversation she was listing off things she wanted in a man and why she wouldn't settle for less

I was listening in both amazement and fascination, I even followed her on instagram so I can watch this social experiment unravel
She going to die alone with a bunch of cats.. These woman are beyond deluded.

Honestly nothing turns me off more than unfit fat chick and girls past the age of 28
 

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They mostly fatties and old online
That's true but going overboard a bit there. Even though OLD is trash now, I still see a lot of skinny girls on there, HOWEVER things like tats, bad teeth, piercings are the next factor.

I will say once again around mid 2020 is when it really tanked. Before Covid OLD had a lot better women and fairly easy to get numbers from cute girls too. Still a lot of fatties though but also quite a few cute ones too.

Now it's the opposite very few attractive women on there now. I think it's because more people are going out now from being stuck at home, but the paywalls and other BS these sites are putting up. Match website for example was great. Then post covid it's whales mostly.
 

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Yea and a lot of women who have failed to settle in their 20's and now think they are still entitled to the same standard of men despite being 10 years older and 30-40 lbs heavier

I met a 36 year old chick in a bar a couple of months back she was a 6 on a good day I immediately clarified I wasn't interested but she was alright to chat with.

During the conversation she was listing off things she wanted in a man and why she wouldn't settle for less

I was listening in both amazement and fascination, I even followed her on instagram so I can watch this social experiment unravel
Kinda describes a date I went on the summer before kung flu. The girl was okay, HB7. She was hot and date lasted over 3 hours. However batsh*t crazy. Compalined about her family, how her brother sexually abused her and so on and her pay being a teacher. She also said she used OLD for free dinner dates a lot. Funny a simp she went to apples bees with sent her flowers 3 days after our date lol. I looked her up on Facebook from time to time and she's single currently. Had a boyfriend for a few months, then single.

Afterwards she said I mentioned my dad died. Funny, because I only briefly mentioned it to her, yet she kept carrying on about being sexually abused, raped by her brother. I've meet some crazy women from using OLD.

Another date was HB9 from OLD. Looked her up recently and she's down to a 6 now. Must have gained 30lbs. She was fit and toned when I met her. The wall is hitting these OLD women FAST.
 

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Yea and a lot of women who have failed to settle in their 20's and now think they are still entitled to the same standard of men despite being 10 years older and 30-40 lbs heavier

I met a 36 year old chick in a bar a couple of months back she was a 6 on a good day I immediately clarified I wasn't interested but she was alright to chat with.

During the conversation she was listing off things she wanted in a man and why she wouldn't settle for less

I was listening in both amazement and fascination, I even followed her on instagram so I can watch this social experiment unravel
Little did you know, she only chats about 1 thing.
 

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Kinda describes a date I went on the summer before kung flu. The girl was okay, HB7. She was hot and date lasted over 3 hours. However batsh*t crazy. Compalined about her family, how her brother sexually abused her and so on and her pay being a teacher. She also said she used OLD for free dinner dates a lot. Funny a simp she went to apples bees with sent her flowers 3 days after our date lol. I looked her up on Facebook from time to time and she's single currently. Had a boyfriend for a few months, then single.

Afterwards she said I mentioned my dad died. Funny, because I only briefly mentioned it to her, yet she kept carrying on about being sexually abused, raped by her brother. I've meet some crazy women from using OLD.

Another date was HB9 from OLD. Looked her up recently and she's down to a 6 now. Must have gained 30lbs. She was fit and toned when I met her. The wall is hitting these OLD women FAST.
Ahh the Olden Tales of Big Goal. Good times.
 
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