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How do short, PR guys get women? One I worked with.

I_have_BDE

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I recall about 4 years ago at my job I had this white Puerto Rican who work in another department. The guy was short like many of them like 5-4. He has black belts in a few martial arts and also competes in MMA competitions. Has a pony tail but doesn't have any of those tough guy stupid tats but he is a really smooth talker. He was from Miami though and of course speaks Spanish so I'm sure that helped.

He never had a problem attracting women, especially in Miami. How can someone short like that get them? Is it because he's a professional fighter or smooth talker and good at PUA?

Sometimes I think Latinos have an advantage with women versus white men which white men have to compensate with money and being physically fit more. At least from what I see IRL.
 

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What type of women was he going after? Guys that are successful know their success market and don’t bvtch and whine about their setbacks.
 

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To the above posts, latin guys can punch above their weight (or closer to their weight than most guys) if they date within the latino community. I see it all the time where I live.
 

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To the above posts, latin guys can punch above their weight (or closer to their weight than most guys) if they date within the latino community. I see it all the time where I live.
Then why do white men face more sh*t t test from females?
 

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Then why do white men face more sh*t t test from females?
What cornbread said and many latinas feel more comfortable dating a latino, especially if they aren't very whitewashed.
 

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I'm always amazed at the amount of out of shape Hispanic males with attractive women. Many do have money, plenty of confidence, run their own businesses. Factor in the women wanting kids and there is your answer.

Promise to provide, and she will bring the looks. That's the exchange.

Mexican culture is about 30years behind white Americans. Family still means something. Women still cook and clean for their men.
 

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Mexican culture is about 30years behind white Americans. Family still means something. Women still cook and clean for their men.
Which translates into more assortative dating/mating and less hypergamy.
 

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Availability heuristic Bias.. No it was just an exception what you experienced.

Short guys are more likely to attract damaged woman, woman with low-self esteem, generally woman with ulterior motives, especially if they have status. Its against womans nature to want a short guy, no offence but being short doesnt ooze sexiness either. A healthy woman would disqualify a guy who is shorter then her for attracting them.
And also women under 5 feet, which is common in the hispanic community. What is your experience observing the hispanic community?
 

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Never judge a girl by her cover especially if she has on makeup. You don’t know how crazy she is or what skeletons or previous kids that guy with her took on. All you see is a pretty girl with makeup.
 

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I posted about this a few weeks ago, I live in a Hispanic heavy area, Mexican specifically.

It's nothing to do with game and more related to the fact that women typically go for men that they are culturally familiar with. It's quite normal for men in this demographic group to be quite below average in height compared to the average white American, being 5'4" or even shorter is not unusual. It's also the norm for these men to not be very attractive or fit either, so none of this Chad nonsense applies. Here is the thing, the women in this demographic group have been surrounded by men like this for their entire lives and they see that as normal. A white man that is short and out of shape would struggle heavily in the game, while this is not the case for Hispanic men. Women especially like to for men that remind them of their fathers and other adult men that were in their lives growing up.
 

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I recall about 4 years ago at my job I had this white Puerto Rican who work in another department. The guy was short like many of them like 5-4. He has black belts in a few martial arts and also competes in MMA competitions. Has a pony tail but doesn't have any of those tough guy stupid tats but he is a really smooth talker. He was from Miami though and of course speaks Spanish so I'm sure that helped.

He never had a problem attracting women, especially in Miami. How can someone short like that get them? Is it because he's a professional fighter or smooth talker and good at PUA?

Sometimes I think Latinos have an advantage with women versus white men which white men have to compensate with money and being physically fit more. At least from what I see IRL.
is he handsome?
 

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DA'FUK?

Availability heuristic Bias.. No it was just an exception what you experienced.

Short guys are more likely to attract damaged woman, woman with low-self esteem, generally woman with ulterior motives, especially if they have status. Its against womans nature to want a short guy, no offence but being short doesnt ooze sexiness either. A healthy woman would disqualify a guy who is shorter then her for attracting them.
 

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Availability heuristic Bias.. No it was just an exception what you experienced.

Short guys are more likely to attract damaged woman, woman with low-self esteem, generally woman with ulterior motives, especially if they have status. Its against womans nature to want a short guy, no offence but being short doesnt ooze sexiness either. A healthy woman would disqualify a guy who is shorter then her for attracting them.
 
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