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never initiates contact? its always you who has to initiate from everything?
 

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Yeah, I had an ex that I would have to initiate everything, and it always felt like she didn't consider me a top priority. Sometimes she would tease me to get my hopes up, but it was always a constant thought.....There's a reason she's an ex now OP.
 

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In the dating stages, yes. If she keeps agreeing and complying, then I wouldn't worry about it.

If it's inside of a long term relationship, I think it will lead to unhappiness and a disconnect.
 

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In the dating stages, yes. If she keeps agreeing and complying, then I wouldn't worry about it.
This is typical in the early stages of a relationship.

If it's inside of a long term relationship, I think it will lead to unhappiness and a disconnect.
As relationships progress, it is best to see more from a woman in terms of initiating and coordinating date activity plans.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Sounds okay if you and her are somehow roommates.
 

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I can see it being a problem for a LTR. But if she´s just a plate who da fok cares if she never initiates? As long as she always puts out Its all good.
yes, im talking, from the beginning of asking her out and going to her house before we our first fvck and throughout our fvcking days , its always ME who makes the text/call. She is compliant.., but makes "no counter offer" when she can't. Sound familiar already?
 

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For a potential relationship it's a problem.

For a plate that I simply want to smash, nah I don't care. Will reach out every time, smash then send her home till the next time.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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Its just a Sign that you're a low interest / priority

Usually after we have had sex the girl always initiates conversation and then continues too right the way through our relationship

that is the way it should be
What about before sex, it was mostly you who had to initiate? or..
 

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What about before sex, it was mostly you who had to initiate? or..
Ehh that really depends on the girl

vast majority I have been with have been super submissive with me so yea it is usually me intitating

Although the last 2 girls ive slept with both initiated more than previous girls

My ex of last year was a naught little sLoot , she would literally Dress up in lingerie on like a Thursday night and start playing with herself in my bed

I'll never forget she brought a butt plug over one evening and said "we are gonna play with this tonight"
 

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Ehh that really depends on the girl

vast majority I have been with have been super submissive with me so yea it is usually me intitating

Although the last 2 girls ive slept with both initiated more than previous girls

My ex of last year was a naught little sLoot , she would literally Dress up in lingerie on like a Thursday night and start playing with herself in my bed

I'll never forget she brought a butt plug over one evening and said "we are gonna play with this tonight"
Can I get her number? Haha
 

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Ok I'm going to chime in.

I think guys tend to make most of the effort initiating sex... However if sex does not happen at all unless you are initiating 99% of them time. I would say that is low interest.
 

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Ok I'm going to chime in.

I think guys tend to make most of the effort initiating sex... However if sex does not happen at all unless you are initiating 99% of them time. I would say that is low interest.
if she’s not initiating with you, she is, has, or potentially will do it for someone else.
 

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Don't forget the leading part of this. A submissive woman won't always initiate, she'll follow your lead. Don't always assume its low interest. Thats why if she keeps agreeing to what you are offering, its not low interest even though you are the one to initiate everything. A low interest girl wouldn't keep agreeing to your offers.
 

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Don't forget the leading part of this. A submissive woman won't always initiate, she'll follow your lead. Don't always assume its low interest. Thats why if she keeps agreeing to what you are offering, its not low interest even though you are the one to initiate everything. A low interest girl wouldn't keep agreeing to your offers.
thats a very clear answer. Thanks
 

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Escorts are usually pretty good at initiating. :cool:

But as for non-pros, for any chick with whom I wanted to get intimate, I had to do all the work.
 

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They exist. Just watch how women react to celebrities and rich men. That should give you an idea of what a woman initiating looks like. Funny part is that women look amateur when they are trying to seduce men using tactics that men always get shamed for.
 

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Don't forget the leading part of this. A submissive woman won't always initiate, she'll follow your lead. Don't always assume its low interest. Thats why if she keeps agreeing to what you are offering, its not low interest even though you are the one to initiate everything. A low interest girl wouldn't keep agreeing to your offers.
This is true.. However if sex only happens 100% of the time only when you initiate then something is up.

Even a submissive girl gets horny and form time to time makes the first move to smash.
 
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