Do you have any dealbreaker fetishes?

[GoodMan32]

Deal breaker fetish: I have this thing where, if I am horny, I need to be able to explicitly communicate this with a lady friend.

Real life example...I'm on the phone with a homegirl.

Me: I need my d!ck sucked.

Her: Ok...

In all honesty, her response wasn't "ok, I will be right over to suck it".

It was more of a "Ok, and?".

The point is, she wasn't offended and gave a non-offended, lackadaisical acknowledgement of what I said I needed.

That in itself, is a huge turn on for me.

Or, if I have a busty coworker and she is wearing a shirt with cleavage displaying.

And I see her (and no one is around) and when I walk pass her and I give her a quick grope and say "damn, them titties looking nice"...and she playfully swipes my hand away and say "Boy!!"

She isn't mad. She ain't offended. She ain't reporting me to HR.

That kind of sh!t is a fetish.

But that's just me.

If a chick is a fuddy duddy when it comes to sh!t like that, then we can't be friends.

Unfortunately, there are very few female coworkers whose chests you can comment on (without getting ratted out to HR). I've been lucky enough to work with 2.

 

[GoodMan32]

Yes and no. It depends. I think if your hard boundery is a fetish type of thing you might be closing yourself off to some potentially good relationships.

I have a few but if I could pick one. I like a girl thats a sexy talker that has a great imagination. Other then physical things the imagination can really take things to a next level

I mentioned on a previous post what my dealbreaker is: I like to watch a woman pee.

That's such a turn on/fascination to me, I (at my current stage) couldn't bring myself to be with a woman who won't engage in the fetish. Especially when you take into account the fact there are plenty of women who will engage. So why waste my time with a woman who won't?

I've had girlfriends in the past who wouldn't engage in my fetish. If I could go back, I would have broken up over it.

 

[NealIRC]

I like to watch a woman pee.

Regarding my confidence fetish, I find it confident if a woman pees in a public place (including abandoned factories).

 

[GoodMan32]

Regarding my confidence fetish, I find it confident if a woman pees in a public place (including abandoned factories).

I like it when a woman pees in public too. Not so much for the confidence factor, more the taboo factor. From a young age, guys learn it's socially acceptable for us to pee in public (within reason). It's a lot more taboo for a woman to pee in public.

Any time society makes a certain type of behavior taboo, that behavior becomes more likely to get fetishized.

 

[NealIRC]

I like it when a woman pees in public too. Not so much for the confidence factor, more the taboo factor. From a young age, guys learn it's socially acceptable for us to pee in public (within reason). It's a lot more taboo for a woman to pee in public.

Uh no, other way around. I think society is "more prejudiced" when a man pees in public compared to when women pee in public.

My confidence fetish also extends to barefoot women and women in flip flops without socks, even though I don't have a foot fetish.

Like an office environment where majorty women don't have their feet exposed, then women with that are showing more confidence and less caring what others think.

 

[GoodMan32]

Uh no, other way around. I think society is "more prejudiced" when a man pees in public compared to when women pee in public.

My confidence fetish also extends to barefoot women and women in flip flops without socks, even though I don't have a foot fetish.

Like an office environment where majorty women don't have their feet exposed, then women with that are showing more confidence and less caring what others think.

As for the prejudice of a man peeing in public vs a woman peeing in public, maybe it depends on where you live. Everywhere I've lived, it's been more socially acceptable for guys to pee in public. In fact, some places even have laws where public urination is totally fine as long as no one sees your genitals, yet it's against the law if anyone sees your booty.

It's pretty easy for a guy to pee in public without anyone seeing his genitals; we just have to find a place with enough coverage to hide ourselves. And there's no reason for a guy to expose his booty when peeing. Yet it's next to impossible for a woman to pee in public without exposing her booty (unless she uses one of those stand-to-pee devices).

All of this being said, I totally believe the laws/societal judgment might be different in other states/nations.

 

[NealIRC]

As for the prejudice of a man peeing in public vs a woman peeing in public, maybe it depends on where you live. Everywhere I've lived, it's been more socially acceptable for guys to pee in public. In fact, some places even have laws where public urination is totally fine as long as no one sees your genitals, yet it's against the law if anyone sees your booty.

It's pretty easy for a guy to pee in public without anyone seeing his genitals; we just have to find a place with enough coverage to hide ourselves. And there's no reason for a guy to expose his booty when peeing. Yet it's next to impossible for a woman to pee in public without exposing her booty (unless she uses one of those stand-to-pee devices).

All of this being said, I totally believe the laws/societal judgment might be different in other states/nations.

I wouldn't be talking about laws since it wouldn't be stupid to make it for 1 gender and not the other.

But more, who's more likely to make a 911 call? Imo, people are more likely to make a 911 call if a man was urinating in an alley than woman.

 

[GoodMan32]

I wouldn't be talking about laws since it wouldn't be stupid to make it for 1 gender and not the other.

But more, who's more likely to make a 911 call? Imo, people are more likely to make a 911 call if a man was urinating in an alley than woman.

You're right, men are more likely to be viewed as sex predators. Not just in the public urination context; in other contexts too.

Unfortunately, I've never seen a woman pee in public (Other than one time when I was outside with my female cousin. She didn't feel like heading back inside when nature called). Yet I've seen guys pee in public many times. I wish female public urination were more common. Maybe it's just bad luck on my part; female public urination might be more common than my experience would suggest.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Your unrevised post said something about this Italian chick sending you flowers and pastries/cakes at the end of it. It wouldn't let me reply to the original post, maybe it was deleted.

hahaha you caught that! Yeah it pretty much felt like getting bread-crumbed in a weird way. I mean I definitely enjoyed the pastries/cakes but it was odd. I think she just understood that I wouldn't mess with her and decided to respect it by not talking to me, but still sending me little gifts to let me know she was still thinking about me. If I wasn't so rigid/stubborn I woulda jus called her or told her like we coulda been friends or something.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Yeah but then again, these muhfukaz on here don't value breasts like I (we do).

Stringpuller liked my post, that's 3 of us right there.

 

[NealIRC]

You're right, men are more likely to be viewed as sex predators. Not just in the public urination context; in other contexts too.

Unfortunately, I've never seen a woman pee in public (Other than one time when I was outside with my female cousin. She didn't feel like heading back inside when nature called). Yet I've seen guys pee in public many times. I wish female public urination were more common. Maybe it's just bad luck on my part; female public urination might be more common than my experience would suggest.

Also, when a man and a woman have sex with each other for the 1st time to each other, and only 1 were to be drunk and 1 sober.

Does society prefer women to be drunk and the man to be sober, or the man to be drunk and women to be sober?

 

[member160292]

You're right, men are more likely to be viewed as sex predators. Not just in the public urination context; in other contexts too.

Unfortunately, I've never seen a woman pee in public (Other than one time when I was outside with my female cousin. She didn't feel like heading back inside when nature called). Yet I've seen guys pee in public many times. I wish female public urination were more common. Maybe it's just bad luck on my part; female public urination might be more common than my experience would suggest.

I remember in college I was taking a piss in a field and a hot blonde squatted down a foot away from me and pulled off her panties to piss. Thank you, Mr Smirnoff

 

[NealIRC]

I remember in college I was taking a piss in a field and a hot blonde squatted down a foot away from me and pulled off her panties to piss. Thank you, Mr Smirnoff

She did that because she had the hots for you?

 

[member160292]

She did that because she had the hots for you?

Nope, she was way outta my league, definite teaser though

 

[GoodMan32]

Also, when a man and a woman have sex with each other for the 1st time to each other, and only 1 were to be drunk and 1 sober.

Does society prefer women to be drunk and the man to be sober, or the man to be drunk and women to be sober?

Society totally prefers the man to be the drunk one.

Even if both parties are drunk, society blames the man.

 

[GoodMan32]

I remember in college I was taking a piss in a field and a hot blonde squatted down a foot away from me and pulled off her panties to piss. Thank you, Mr Smirnoff

I never went to a single party in high school or college. Had I been a partier, I probably would have seen female classmates pee.

 

[GoodMan32]

She did that because she had the hots for you?

Nope, she was way outta my league, definite teaser though

I would venture to guess most guys aren't turned on by a woman peeing. Therefore, it might not even occur to a broad that a guy would get turned on by watching her pee. I think when a broad pees out in the open like that, she simply views it as a bodily function she has to take care of.

 

[member160292]

I would venture to guess most guys aren't turned on by a woman peeing. Therefore, it might not even occur to a broad that a guy would get turned on by watching her pee. I think when a broad pees out in the open like that, she simply views it as a bodily function she has to take care of.

Interesting for sure, it was the first time I saw the V in real life

 

[Bokanovsky]

I like it when a woman pees in public too. Not so much for the confidence factor, more the taboo factor.

What about a woman farting loudly in public? Talk about confidence and breaking taboos!

 

[Mjolnir21]

Most guys have at least one fetish (many guys even have multiple fetishes).

I myself have multiple fetishes. Only one fetish is a dealbreaker though.

So, does anyone else have any dealbreaker fetishes (as in, you would lose interest if she's unwilling to engage in the fetish)?

I might share my fetish eventually. I want to give other guys a chance to chime in first.

Submissiveness. I love submissive women, as in they submit to me. And obviously I naturally step up to the plate and give the daddy energy. But if she tries to dominate me in bed I will fight back and if she does not submit, it will get soft.

Of course, a bit of back and forth is welcome, you know gotta earnit.
I think mine is a bit extreme so much so, I don't like sex when she is on top.