I found a further indicator to check on a womans CV, it's travelling.

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Nothing but problems in my experience come from girls that "love to travel".

If you see her taking pictures on fancy boats near the french riviera, it's very unlikely that she owns the boat, more likely the guy banging her for that weekend does which makes it a further body on her total count plus entitlement and high maintenance standard.

Then you have the action girl type travel where they go with their friends on third world countries where again their increase their body counts and raise their minimum threeshold for their need of attention espercially if they are white girls.

In my opinion travelling also shows a lack of achievement and stability in her hometown which explain the frequent craving of going to new places.

Modest, well adjusted girls travel once or twice a year.

Plus there is the maintenance/money factor with those girls which in my late 30s begins to become a factor when deciding if she is worth the effort or not.

Excessive travelling is on a bigger scale what excessive partying is on the smaller, there are the same factors in play.

Nothing good comes from that, only a higher bodycount, a higher threeshold for attention as much as higher base maintenance costs.
 

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You see that a lot with those hot women on instagram. They always post pictures (on the regular) from places like Dubai, Bali, Bora Bora etc. Supposedly a lot are nothing more than high end escorts posing as "models". Was watching a documentary about it not too long ago.
 

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You see that a lot with those hot women on instagram. They always post pictures (on the regular) from places like Dubai, Bali, Bora Bora etc. Supposedly a lot are nothing more than high end escorts posing as "models". Was watching a documentary about it not too long ago.
In that case they are either pro escorts or simply amateur one getting nailed from the rich guy paying for her flat and food.

We have to thank them for such display cause we now have clear signals that they are for the streets.
 

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In that case they are either pro escorts or simply amateur one getting nailed from the rich guy paying for her flat and food.

We have to thank them for such display cause we now have clear signals that they are for the streets.
If anything it should serve as inspiration to the fellas. You got these attractive women who will lay down with (in a lot of cases) really ugly creeps. In some cases they degrade themselves terribly in the act. You think oh I might not ever have as much money as a Saudi Price but jesus christ there's definitely light at the end of the tunnel.
 

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In that case they are either pro escorts or simply amateur one getting nailed from the rich guy paying for her flat and food.

We have to thank them for such display cause we now have clear signals that they are for the streets.
What about the women that on their old profile post traveling pics simply on vacation constantly? Not on yachts but just pics traveling and seeing landmarks and that?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Nothing but problems in my experience come from girls that "love to travel".

If you see her taking pictures on fancy boats near the french riviera, it's very unlikely that she owns the boat, more likely the guy banging her for that weekend does which makes it a further body on her total count plus entitlement and high maintenance standard.

Then you have the action girl type travel where they go with their friends on third world countries where again their increase their body counts and raise their minimum threeshold for their need of attention espercially if they are white girls.

In my opinion travelling also shows a lack of achievement and stability in her hometown which explain the frequent craving of going to new places.

Modest, well adjusted girls travel once or twice a year.

Plus there is the maintenance/money factor with those girls which in my late 30s begins to become a factor when deciding if she is worth the effort or not.

Excessive travelling is on a bigger scale what excessive partying is on the smaller, there are the same factors in play.

Nothing good comes from that, only a higher bodycount, a higher threeshold for attention as much as higher base maintenance costs.
Agree completely.

Women who travel a lot are either high income earning careerists or getting paid to travel.

A lot of the careerist women who travel a lot are doing business travel. Women with demanding careers requiring a lot of business travel are usually bad girlfriend options. They might be passable plates in a rotation for a short period but that's it. In recent years, the internet and teleconferencing has reduced business travel, which is good.
 

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If anything it should serve as inspiration to the fellas. You got these attractive women who will lay down with (in a lot of cases) really ugly creeps. In some cases they degrade themselves terribly in the act. You think oh I might not ever have as much money as a Saudi Price but jesus christ there's definitely light at the end of the tunnel.
This. Y’all need to do some positive reframing
 

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I think some of you simply want a woman who sits in the house all day with no internet and no phone and never goes outside. Makes competition disappear.
That would be a nightmare scenario for a man that needs his time and peace at home.

Dont confuse the desire to avoid complication and maintenance costs with "insecurity" cause that's what feminist do when they dont like something a man says.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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That would be a nightmare scenario for a man that needs his time and peace at home.

Dont confuse the desire to avoid complication and maintenance costs with "insecurity" cause that's what feminist do when they dont like something a man says.
then what’s the perfect girl then? Y’all are just delusional as hopeless romantic women chasing after some Tupac/Mr. Darcy hybrid spiced with a Hungarian Smoked Paprika.
 

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So we gonna continue regurgitating red pill basics and going round in circles like there's a single original or unknown thought in this thread?

Guess what else is a red flag, high body count and daddy issues. Profound, I know.
 

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That would be a nightmare scenario for a man that needs his time and peace at home.

Dont confuse the desire to avoid complication and maintenance costs with "insecurity" cause that's what feminist do when they dont like something a man says.
More like that's what an insecure man says.
 

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Agree completely.

Women who travel a lot are either high income earning careerists or getting paid to travel.

A lot of the careerist women who travel a lot are doing business travel. Women with demanding careers requiring a lot of business travel are usually bad girlfriend options. They might be passable plates in a rotation for a short period but that's it. In recent years, the internet and teleconferencing has reduced business travel, which is good.
Or have an ex husband who's a doctor or something and they're getting 100k a year child support.

I have a lady on my street like this. Doesn't travel but has a house, 2 kids and doesn't work. About my age.
 

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then what’s the perfect girl then? Y’all are just delusional as hopeless romantic women chasing after some Tupac/Mr. Darcy hybrid spiced with a Hungarian Smoked Paprika.
There is no such thing as "perfect" girl cause we're all different in terms of taste and desires.

The perfect girl for someone with cuckold fantasies is riley reid, the perfect girl for a meathead is a fitness trainer in his gym, the perfect girl for a lab rat is an other lab rat.

The biggest macro difference that comes in my mind is that an extrovert dream is an introverts dream and the other way around.

No idea what you're talking about with that tupac thing but if you cant express a point without ad hominems it's a waste of time.

More like that's what an insecure man says.
Bro Im almost 40 and you're almost 50...we saw this play countless times in this board and others, dont know about you but I would rather talk about more productive things than "smart bickering".

You can deal with girls like the ones we talk about in this thread if you like them, others simply dont and that has nothing to do with feelings or insecurity (whatever it means in 2023).
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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There is no such thing as "perfect" girl cause we're all different in terms of taste and desires.

The perfect girl for someone with cuckold fantasies is riley reid, the perfect girl for a meathead is a fitness trainer in his gym, the perfect girl for a lab rat is an other lab rat.
What’s the closest thing to a perfect girl for you to date then? Please elaborate.
 

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There is no such thing as "perfect" girl cause we're all different in terms of taste and desires.

The perfect girl for someone with cuckold fantasies is riley reid, the perfect girl for a meathead is a fitness trainer in his gym, the perfect girl for a lab rat is an other lab rat.

The biggest macro difference that comes in my mind is that an extrovert dream is an introverts dream and the other way around.

No idea what you're talking about with that tupac thing but if you cant express a point without ad hominems it's a waste of time.


Bro Im almost 40 and you're almost 50...we saw this play countless times in this board and others, dont know about you but I would rather talk about more productive things than "smart bickering".

You can deal with girls like the ones we talk about in this thread if you like them, others simply dont and that has nothing to do with feelings or insecurity (whatever it means in 2023).
I deal with everyone on an individual basis, not as some group of people that have little basis in reality for the stereotypes you try and give them
 

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What’s the closest thing to a perfect girl for you to date then? Please elaborate.
I dont thing anyone here can list what the perfect girl (even for him) would be especially since we may change taste with age.
Club rats were my favourite ones in my 20s cause I was myself one while now it wouldnt be the case.

It's much easier to point what she should not be, in my case an attention seeking or emotion driven behaviours.

Never met a girl like that who happen to be compatible with me.


I deal with everyone on an individual basis, not as some group of people that have little basis in reality for the stereotypes you try and give them
Of course everyone is different, what I'm trying to say is that it's easy to find patterns among groups of people that share common habits.

Regarding stereotypes they dont exists out of thin air unless you believe drug addicts arent prone to steal, high mileage women arent prone to be unhappy in monogamy or girls coming from wasted families arent prone to seek outside validation.

There are clearly exceptions, they are not clones but as a general rule, the pattern exists.
 

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I dont thing anyone here can list what the perfect girl (even for him) would be especially since we may change taste with age.
Club rats were my favourite ones in my 20s cause I was myself one while now it wouldnt be the case.

It's much easier to point what she should not be, in my case an attention seeking or emotion driven behaviours.

Never met a girl like that who happen to be compatible with me.
If you can’t even name one thing off the top of your head then what business do you have criticizing a hobby that’s not even sexual in the first place?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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