Cold approach

[anour]

DJ’s

I have seen this amazing girl, approached her (i was walking by, we locked eyes and then i approached from behind) called her once twice she ignored me. I just left her and went on with my day.

My question is to the guys who experienced in cold approaching, what would you do in such a situation? Would you continue speaking or leave it at that? I’ve read somewhere that girls sometimes ****-test cold approaching by making weird faces or flat out ignoring but if you continue speaking (to a certain extent) they’ll change the attitude.

I don’t wanna catch no case so i’d love some input.

 

[anour]

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[Dr.Suave]

Leave. Move on to other girls.


Iron Rule of Tomassi #7

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship continue speaking

 

[anour]

Leave. Move on to other girls.


Iron Rule of Tomassi #7

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship continue speaking

Absolutely this **** is iron claud, but in that specific context does it still apply?

 

[Dr.Suave]

Absolutely this **** is iron claud, but in that specific context does it still apply?

You could push through her resistance for a bit and on some cases maybe you eventually get the lay. But will it be worth the squeeze to try this with every girl that ignores you? Only you can answer that.

 

[IKO69]

First off, credit for doing it. Give yourself a pat on the back.

This particular woman was a lost cause and the right thing to do is nothing; you let her go. Holler at women that appear more receptive (you'll be able to tell when you make eye contact)

 

[anour]

You could push through her resistance for a bit and on some cases maybe you eventually get the lay. But will it be worth the squeeze to try this with every girl that ignores you? Only you can answer that.

100% no, no time wasting, it’s just that i feel sometimes girls do that **** on purpose. Next time i’ll try it to see how it works and i’ll let you know how it goes.

 

[anour]

B

First off, credit for doing it. Give yourself a pat on the back.

This particular woman was a lost cause and the right thing to do is nothing; you let her go. Holler at women that appear more receptive (you'll be able to tell when you make eye contact)

Big man, absolutely it’s just that some women act like that to **** test (testing your ability under pressure, atleast that’s what i read) i always let em go if they ignore, but next time i wanna try and stick a little longer even if it’s uncomfortable and see what comes out of it. Thank you for your response bro, much love

 

[anour]

Guys love some input

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Don't lock eyes. Have a prepared opener(s) to use that malleable for different chicks/circumstances. I don't do a lot of daygame so can't give specific examples, but you get the idea OP. Ask a question, comment on her presentation, go from there. Have a plan to get in and out if the insta-date isn't there.

 

[anour]

Don't lock eyes. Have a prepared opener(s) to use that malleable for different chicks/circumstances. I don't do a lot of daygame so can't give specific examples, but you get the idea OP. Ask a question, comment on her presentation, go from there. Have a plan to get in and out if the insta-date isn't there.

Sick so if i get you right, have a couple of lines handy and approach at sight?

 

[Gamisch]

Quite normal right? You lock eyes, turn around and she keeps going. She must've felt at least a little bit complimented... But as you already said, it was a dimepiece. Dimepieces go through this process...at least 3 times a day.

I think you might've waited just a bit too long. The window of opportunity in these scenarios is extremely short, like a few seconds. I'd say between 2 and 5 seconds. With 5 already being kinda late because you are walking opposite directions so 5 seconds means like 10, 12 meters of distance already.

Actually following her is ofcourse a slippery slope. Still I'd like to mention that some women will respond to this with a positive attitude. But it's kinda risky..

Its good to knock yourself on your head for missing opportunities. Makes you even sharper the next time

Sick so if i get you right, have a couple of lines handy and approach at sight?

If you see one and decide to go for it you better be somewhat prepared. I mean, you saw her from some distance already. This might've happened due almost being taken aback by the fact she does locks eyes with you. Women know that locking eyes = man will start talking. It's one of the clearest invites a woman can give a man.


That's why i said, depending on how she looks at you , chasing her and trying some more might be appropriate.

 

[RazorRambo24]

No point in giving attention to meaningless moments.

As someone whos mastered approach.. The first mistake of approach is approaching women who are not great targets for approach. In approach, you want the most ideal candidates to speak to.

Idk about other dudes, but for myself, I can literally go to a mall and spot out the girl whos single and looking/wanting to be approached by how her hair is/how she dressed, how she's walking/her bodylanguage. Thats the girl im going after. I'm not going for just any girl who might be busy, got sh.t on her mind, is not in a good mood, or has defense mechanisms up.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Leave. Move on to other girls.


Iron Rule of Tomassi #7

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship continue speaking

That is the answer OP.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

DJ’s

I have seen this amazing girl, approached her (i was walking by, we locked eyes and then i approached from behind) called her once twice she ignored me. I just left her and went on with my day.

My question is to the guys who experienced in cold approaching, what would you do in such a situation? Would you continue speaking or leave it at that? I’ve read somewhere that girls sometimes ****-test cold approaching by making weird faces or flat out ignoring but if you continue speaking (to a certain extent) they’ll change the attitude.

I don’t wanna catch no case so i’d love some input.

Man hell naw.

If you call out to get her attention and she ignores you and keep walking; not only is that low interest but it is disrespectful, in my opinion.

You did the right thing.

Kept it moving.

 

[fastlife]

Absolutely this **** is iron claud, but in that specific context does it still apply?

Nah lol. Ppl acting like y’all were dating or whatever. Or that you did an actual approach vs just lowkey catcalling (from the sound of it) lol. Or that girls don’t change moment to moment—I’ve fvcked girls I ran into later who for whatever reason weren’t about it when I met them originally, etc.

Only 2 things you need to open: Relaxed & Certain. Those 2 things and girls might not be attracted or available but you won’t get blown out.

But you also gotta commit to the open. And be calibrated. Ideally don’t approach from behind. But if you have to I usually tap on the shoulder.

One of my rules for life is that if I talk to someone they’re gonna acknowledge me—they don’t have to stick around, they don’t have to like me, etc. But they’re not gonna pretend like I don’t exist. That mentality goes a long way—ppl ignore the ppl who act like they’re ignorable, pay attention to the ppl who act like they’re important—I don’t think I’ve legit stonewalled off an open in like 5 yrs. But when I was a noob it’d happen and I’d just keep running my mouth until I’d get something back.