How to internalize the "red pill" or the "game"? Possibly my last post on this forum..

[pranshu]

From the few Redpill books that I have read, I have understood what it is and how important it is. But what don't know completely is how to internalize it, how to make it my default setting, and how to drastically change all my blue pill like personality traits that were instilled in me( by society and MYSELF) for almost 10-15 years?
I am neither the typical doormat type of a nice guy nor the smoker, druggie, running from the cops type bad boy on his Harley Davidson..I am somewhere in the middle, where I presume most of the newly redpill aware men tend to be. But I want to shift to the jerk end of the spectrum if not at the extreme end of jerk.
Some obvious ways to do that which came to my mind were:
1. fake it till you make it
2. Trial and error.
3. Reading more redpill books and listening to redpill podcasts/ audiobooks again and again..( though I suspect this option would bear fruits..don't want to be a booksmart only)
4. Increasing my masculinity as much as possible..
option 4 seems the best option possible as high testosterone will automatically cause positive side effects such as developing and embracing of dark triads.
So for the next 2-3 years, should my focus should be completely on increasing my masculinity as much as possible and ignoring women( in the sexual aspect only), this forum, and other game stuff for these next 2-3 years?

I want to make a well-informed decision as choosing this path will take up 2-3 years of my social life (which is already bleak tbh)
Any experiences, criticisms or thoughts are welcome.
Are there any more ways to internalize redpill which I missed?

Also what I mean by increasing my masculinity is:
1. increasing my natural testosterone by exercise, diet and other stuff( iodine painting, penis ring, penis pump, etc)
2. Building the best physique my genetics can offer me.
3. Increasing my height as much as possible ( max. 6 feet 4.....currently I am 5 feet 9)
4. Learning Krav Maga and MMA
5. Building a successful career as an actuary, chartered accountant and lawyer.

Achieving all these goals would take almost 6 hours daily (excluding studies), and as a result I would not be able to approach women and practice game for the next 2-3 years.

PS-So many men even after taking the red pill, just spend their lives in a limbo and I don't want to be one of them.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Prescribing to red pill is for nerds..if you consider yourself a real man dont fall into those weird circles. Redpill communities are full of incels and nerds who are not likely candidates to ever be truly successful with women.

Focus more on developing habits that will develop qualities in you that will bring confidence and skill throughout all areas of your life..seems like you are doing some of that already.

Too many guys who arent getting pu55y focus too much on women and sex. Priorities all f.ed up. Dont be them.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

From the few Redpill books that I have read, I have understood what it is and how important it is. But what don't know completely is how to internalize it, how to make it my default setting, and how to drastically change all my blue pill like personality traits that were instilled in me( by society and MYSELF) for almost 10-15 years?

You internalize it by saying to yourself..

"Today is the day when I will begin my cold-approaching efforts. I will approach at least two women per day. I will also hit the gym and build muscle mass, so that I will become eye candy to every woman that I approach, which increases my chance of the women selecting me as a potential sex partner."

It starts with you.

I am neither the typical doormat type of a nice guy nor the smoker, druggie, running from the cops type bad boy on his Harley Davidson..I am somewhere in the middle, where I presume most of the newly redpill aware men tend to be. But I want to shift to the jerk end of the spectrum if not at the extreme end of jerk.

By jerk do you mean the type of man who treats women like sh!t?

Some obvious ways to do that which came to my mind were:
1. fake it till you make it

No need to be phony.

2. Trial and error.
3. Reading more redpill books and listening to redpill podcasts/ audiobooks again and again..( though I suspect this option would bear fruits..don't want to be a booksmart only)

As Alan Roger Currie once stated (and gave credit to David X for his wisdom on this subject), no man should follow more than two dating coaches.

Why? Because it is inevitable that the more you follow, the more you will notice that one dating coach will contradict the other.

So find one or two dating coaches that fit how you view the dating world, and stick with them.

Do not overload yourself with reading multiple books from different dating coaches.

4. Increasing my masculinity as much as possible..
option 4 seems the best option possible as high testosterone will automatically cause positive side effects such as developing and embracing of dark triads.
So for the next 2-3 years, should my focus should be completely on increasing my masculinity as much as possible and ignoring women( in the sexual aspect only), this forum, and other game stuff for these next 2-3 years?

Nah, bruh.

It doesn't take 2-3 years.

Check this out, I've been hitting the gym steadily for just over one month, and I've ALREADY noticed my increased muscle definition and mass and every time I hit it, I am pushing up more weight than previous days.

I like what I see when I look in the mirror, and it is giving me the confidence to approach ANY woman to my liking.

It starts now.

I want to make a well-informed decision as choosing this path will take up 2-3 years of my social life (which is already bleak tbh)

A social life is not mandatory or even preferred. I am a lone wolf.

Never had a social circle in my adult life, and I've faired just fine.

Any experiences, criticisms or thoughts are welcome.
Are there any more ways to internalize redpill which I missed?

Follow these 4 rules..

1. Constantly improve yourself (body, finances, career, etc).

2. Never be afraid to approach a woman (all things equal).

3. Never be afraid to lose a woman.

4. Never be afraid to be direct, honest, bold, and unapologetic to a woman about your desires.

Bro, if you follow those 4 simple rules and let them guide your dating life, you've conquered 90% of every man's insecurities and are on some boss-level sh!t.

Also what I mean by increasing my masculinity is:
1. increasing my natural testosterone by exercise, diet and other stuff( iodine painting, penis ring, penis pump, etc)
2. Building the best physique my genetics can offer me.
3. Increasing my height as much as possible ( max. 6 feet 4.....currently I am 5 feet 9)
4. Learning Krav Maga and MMA
5. Building a successful career as an actuary, chartered accountant and lawyer.

Leveling up on all of those things certainly cannot hurt.

Achieving all these goals would take almost 6 hours daily (excluding studies), and as a result I would not be able to approach women and practice game for the next 2-3 years.

PS-So many men even after taking the red pill, just spend their lives in a limbo and I don't want to be one of them.

Again, it doesn't take no damn 2-3 years.

Hit the gym hard, and get out there and make it happen....NOW.

 

[pranshu]

You internalize it by saying to yourself..

"Today is the day when I will begin my cold-approaching efforts. I will approach at least two women per day. I will also hit the gym and build muscle mass, so that I will become eye candy to every woman that I approach, which increases my chance of the women selecting me as a potential sex partner."

It starts with you.



By jerk do you mean the type of man who treats women like sh!t?



No need to be phony.



As Alan Roger Currie once stated (and gave credit to David X for his wisdom on this subject), no man should follow more than two dating coaches.

Why? Because it is inevitable that the more you follow, the more you will notice that one dating coach will contradict the other.

So find one or two dating coaches that fit how you view the dating world, and stick with them.

Do not overload yourself with reading multiple books from different dating coaches.



Nah, bruh.

It doesn't take 2-3 years.

Check this out, I've been hitting the gym steadily for just over one month, and I've ALREADY noticed my increased muscle definition and mass and every time I hit it, I am pushing up more weight than previous days.

I like what I see when I look in the mirror, and it is giving me the confidence to approach ANY woman to my liking.

It starts now.



A social life is not mandatory or even preferred. I am a lone wolf.

Never had a social circle in my adult life, and I've faired just fine.



Follow these 4 rules..

1. Constantly improve yourself (body, finances, career, etc).

2. Never be afraid to approach a woman (all things equal).

3. Never be afraid to lose a woman.

4. Never be afraid to be direct, honest, bold, and unapologetic to a woman about your desires.

Bro, if you follow those 4 simple rules and let them guide your dating life, you've conquered 90% of every man's insecurities and are on some boss-level sh!t.



Leveling up on all of those things certainly cannot hurt.



Again, it doesn't take no damn 2-3 years.

Hit the gym hard, and get out there and make it happen....NOW.

I don't have any approach anxiety whatsoever..I do approaches regularly and I realized that some are interested, some are not and some are lukwarm.. right now the proportion of women interested in me is fairly low..2% approx.

by jerk I mean halfway between center and extreme a$$hole end of spectrum..( 3rd quartile i suppose)

I am not following any dating coaches..just reading books pinned in the DJ forum post. I do see your point though.

Yes I have gained 10kg pure muscle mass in 6 months..I meant 2-3 years including all those goals such as height gain, krav maga skills( it takes time I heard), and best physique possible for me, and ofcourse education.

I don't like myself in the mirror as of now coz I developed acne reccently IDK how??..(taking treatment for that)

I can also be considered a lone wolf..I can talk, mingle or be with people if needed but I hate wasting time on such social settings.

don't know if you read it but recently I rejected 2 opportunities to lose my virginity coz they weren't hot enough..so not afraid to lose women for sure : )

That's what I think but dedicating myself to these goals would leave me no spare time to game women or even try to do so..still I would use the chance if a hot chick happens to be in my proximity by chance.

Not really sure how to effectively increase height yet..too many scammers out there that's for sure. Will have to look into it.

I really appreciate the response

 

[pranshu]

Prescribing to red pill is for nerds..if you consider yourself a real man dont fall into those weird circles. Redpill communities are full of incels and nerds who are not likely candidates to ever be truly successful with women.

Focus more on developing habits that will develop qualities in you that will bring confidence and skill throughout all areas of your life..seems like you are doing some of that already.

Too many guys who arent getting pu55y focus too much on women and sex. Priorities all f.ed up. Dont be them.

That's what I was saying I guess..

 

[EyeBRollin]

Internalizing red pill involves three steps:

1) Read (or listen) to the DJ Bible and Doc Love’s The System at least 20 times over

2) Participate in this forum

3) Apply, apply, apply. Go out and date. Get rejected and mess up a lot. Learn from each experience.

After about 2-3 years of these steps, nothing women do will surprise you anymore.

 

[member162951]

I don't like myself in the mirror as of now coz I developed acne reccently IDK how??

Tretinoin Cream (Retin-A) .05% strength (prescription), will clear that right up.

 

[pranshu]

Tretinoin Cream (Retin-A) .05% strength (prescription), will clear that right up.

the doctor just prescribed me isotretinoin 10 mg for 8 months..looks like I had a more serious problem of acne than I thought..will have to see if and how my success ratio from cold approaches improves during and after this course of treatment.

 

[inquisitor]

From the few Redpill books that I have read, I have understood what it is and how important it is. But what don't know completely is how to internalize it, how to make it my default setting, and how to drastically change all my blue pill like personality traits that were instilled in me( by society and MYSELF) for almost 10-15 years?
I am neither the typical doormat type of a nice guy nor the smoker, druggie, running from the cops type bad boy on his Harley Davidson..I am somewhere in the middle, where I presume most of the newly redpill aware men tend to be. But I want to shift to the jerk end of the spectrum if not at the extreme end of jerk.
Some obvious ways to do that which came to my mind were:
1. fake it till you make it
2. Trial and error.
3. Reading more redpill books and listening to redpill podcasts/ audiobooks again and again..( though I suspect this option would bear fruits..don't want to be a booksmart only)
4. Increasing my masculinity as much as possible..
option 4 seems the best option possible as high testosterone will automatically cause positive side effects such as developing and embracing of dark triads.
So for the next 2-3 years, should my focus should be completely on increasing my masculinity as much as possible and ignoring women( in the sexual aspect only), this forum, and other game stuff for these next 2-3 years?

I want to make a well-informed decision as choosing this path will take up 2-3 years of my social life (which is already bleak tbh)
Any experiences, criticisms or thoughts are welcome.
Are there any more ways to internalize redpill which I missed?

Also what I mean by increasing my masculinity is:
1. increasing my natural testosterone by exercise, diet and other stuff( iodine painting, penis ring, penis pump, etc)
2. Building the best physique my genetics can offer me.
3. Increasing my height as much as possible ( max. 6 feet 4.....currently I am 5 feet 9)
4. Learning Krav Maga and MMA
5. Building a successful career as an actuary, chartered accountant and lawyer.

Achieving all these goals would take almost 6 hours daily (excluding studies), and as a result I would not be able to approach women and practice game for the next 2-3 years.

PS-So many men even after taking the red pill, just spend their lives in a limbo and I don't want to be one of them.

You're making it weird, man. Don't live in absolutes.

You are obviously hurrying the process. Yeah, you're saying 2-3 years, but even your engagement with the ideas is as brief as a spark. What happens with your expectations with your future interactions with girls after your improvements will not be as clear cut as you think it's going to be, so best take it nice and easy. Internalization is not enough - you'd need to examine yourself deeper than just taking this framework strictly. You'd need to discover yourself, what makes you ho you are, and not in the shallow way so that you get it "efficiently", no.

You are not learning how to be more of a jerk and less of a nice guy; you are learning how to be a man.

I commend that you are willing to improve physically and mentally, and confronting your shadow. I respect all that.

But look at what you're deliberately avoiding - your social skills. You have to face that which you are weakest of in order to grow the most. You said it yourself, it's pretty bleak, so why not do something about that first? Not double-down on weakening it more, no, but learning more and practicing on it. Be more genuinely interested in interacting with people and with girls than you are now. The way you change better be holistic, so no aspect of your life is left out.

Best of luck in your journey, still.

 

[Learning Curve]

Why you use "Red Pill" or what ever signs of information to determine your personality long term?

Yes, you can be a jerk with women when you have to be. No reason to be a jerk if a women is easy going. You have to adapt your personality to your environment. You don't need a default set of pre-made rules to follow for the rest of your life.

Create your own personality and as many said above more importantly be a man.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Why you use "Red Pill" or what ever signs of information to determine your personality long term?

This is what I don’t get? You can take the very few positives from the Red Pill and not be Red Pill. Why the hell would any guy want to be part of a dysfunctional psuedo intellectual man cult that wears the scarlet S? Go up to any female or male friend and start spewing red pill shvt will more than likely end up on a negative outcome.