Convo that goes nowhere

[SargeMaximus]

So despite what some say, I can hold a decent convo when I want to and yesterday I matched with a girl online and decided to try “the social thing”. Well we talked all day, always her re-engaging and never me. So she kept coming back. Problem is: nothing happened. I was bored out of my skull, not turned on at all, and severely going through the motions. Seems no hope for me when it comes to the social stuff. I just hate it

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Why would you talk to an unknown person all day? Who said this means "being social"?

It implies you got nothing going on and make that unknown woman a focus and give her validation long before its due.

The woman will make you the girlfriend she unloads her emotional trash on, while later she goes on a date to get laid by a guy that talks less and doesnt care about her shyt.

This is how you get friendzoned from the start.

You need to lead that initial online conversation to a date. Be social on the date for an hour or two max., then eject, maybe set up a 2nd date or start escalating directly if there are clear signs she is dtf.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Hang on , it takes two people to make a conversation boring and unfortunatley you are one of them OP

If your sexually interested in her why are you not escalating the conversation towards sex ?

You can talk about how your day was with your friends

 

[Solomon]

Most women OLD put in little or no effort. The reason being is cause they are talking to other men and aren't interested.
I'm not with the "PUA" gimmicks so if a woman isn't trying to meet asap (within 7 days) I move on
I don't waste my time these days with lukewarm women, in my 20s sure cause I was younger and horny
But as I get older I need a woman who is gonna reciprocate my interstest

 

[SargeMaximus]

Why would you talk to an unknown person all day? Who said this means "being social"?

It implies you got nothing going on and make that unknown woman a focus and give her validation long before its due.

The woman will make you the girlfriend she unloads her emotional trash on, while later she goes on a date to get laid by a guy that talks less and doesnt care about her shyt.

This is how you get friendzoned from the start.

You need to lead that initial online conversation to a date. Be social on the date for an hour or two max., then eject, maybe set up a 2nd date or start escalating directly if there are clear signs she is dtf.

Duh I know that. I only did this to further prove to me the advice I’m getting on here is trash. Everyone is telling me I need to have conversations with women. Every so often I test that theory

 

[pranshu]

Duh I know that. I only did this to further prove to me the advice I’m getting on here is trash. Everyone is telling me I need to have conversations with women. Every so often I test that theory

ya but a conversation with a clear goal in mind..not simply shooting in the dark and hoping it helps..even a rookie newbie like me understands this.

 

[SargeMaximus]

ya but a conversation with a clear goal in mind..not simply shooting in the dark and hoping it helps..even a rookie newbie like me understands this.

y’all feeling the need to make jabs and insults at me is very telling

 

[pranshu]

y’all feeling the need to make jabs and insults at me is very telling

nah bro..it was genuinely an advice..by telling that "even a rookie like me understands this", I meant it's out in the open in any red pill book that don't talk unnecessarily with a chick..don't be her girlfriend..

 

[SargeMaximus]

nah bro..it was genuinely an advice..by telling that "even a rookie like me understands this", I meant it's out in the open in any red pill book that don't talk unnecessarily with a chick..don't be her girlfriend..

Ok well that’s where I’m not understanding because I normally don’t do the convo thing, but then I come on here and people say I gotta talk and have a convo so which is it?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Post the convo Sarge

 

[RazorRambo24]

Ay man, In some sense, it's almost humorous reading these posts from you at this point.. But, at least you are still trying. Kudos to you. That's probably more than a bunch of dudes on here are doing.

Progress is blind. Keep going. But definitely address whatever the root cause of you "going through the motions" and feeling uneasy at social interactions or escalating is.

Life's too short to not be boning chicks and going on fun dates n sht

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Ay man, In some sense, it's almost humorous reading these posts from you at this point.. But, at least you are still trying. Kudos to you. That's probably more than a bunch of dudes on here are doing.

Progress is blind. Keep going. But definitely address whatever the root cause of you "going through the motions" and feeling uneasy at social interactions or escalating is.

Life's too short to not be boning chicks and going on fun dates n sht

He knows what the issue is, he just doesn't like to do the work (learning advanced communication game), He's getting better but half of his posts are just stirring the pot.