BackInTheGame78
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Bumble and Hinge were great for me, totally free also.
I get no action off bumble. Been banned from hingeBumble and Hinge were great for me, totally free also.
How did you get banned?I get no action off bumble. Been banned from hinge
No ideaHow did you get banned?
You pizz off a liberal feminist? Lots of them on there in my area.No idea
Bahahaha!You can tell this poster is a mid-tier normie.
Great comments. I like your style Dude!I've been on them for about a decade. They used to be great; started going to **** sometime around 2015-2016 and they are only getting worse over time. And I'm not even bitter about it; I've had lays with 10 new women from them in the past year and get 100s of matches but it's still a fiasco most of the time.
These apps are not designed to get you off them. They're profit-driven and use the same tactics as social media platforms. They're just another tool to feed into delusion and entitlement, especially for narcissistic women. They all chase the top 10% of guys and continually get AW'd, or think the men are never good enough and ignore all men at or above their own SMV. Likewise since they get flowered with attention (from simps) they think they're a 9 when they're really a 5.
Fatties! Sheesh… rough man. lolBut most normal weight guys don't go for that. I mean sane, normal. IMO the rate is dropping because on the dating apps I'm seeing less hot women and more tatted, trannies, and fat women. A lot less decent looking women.
So you have the same amount of men competing for even less and less attractive women. Of course your reply rate will go down when there are more. That's simple math there. However, the one thing I notice is women are A LOT more hesitant to give out their numbers right off the bat. That could be the media scaring them too with all the stories you hear about women getting raped from online dating and stalked. It goes for men too. You hear about men going to meet a chick only to get robbed and beaten.
Tinder I don't use much but somehow I still get skinny women "liking me" even though being so inactive. How do you feel when you get fatties liking your profile if you're fit? Do you find that insulting?
Oh and to add, is anyone noticing women with STDs, mainly herpies on the swipe apps? I'm seeing this on Tinder. They state they have herpies.Fatties! Sheesh… rough man. lol
No self respect hereOh and to add, is anyone noticing women with STDs, mainly herpies on the swipe apps? I'm seeing this on Tinder. They state they have herpies.
Are there guys who will match and try to smash these still and risk it?
Likely.You pizz off a liberal feminist? Lots of them on there in my area.
Until you get the itch and get randy thoughts going. C’mon man! It’s a fun game and you know it!Novelty of them has worn off and people are realising the investment required time / financial (for men) isn't really worth the payoff
Ontop of that there are only so many avenues a conversation can take on a swipe app and conversations tend to burn out .....QUICKLY
Most women treat them with contempt and tend to reply hours if not days after as they are such a low priority to them , obviously the male needs to match this reponse time or he will come across as needy and desperate
This means a very basic conversation could take 1-2 weeks to run through and this is before anyone has mentioned a date
Then comes the actual meet ( if you can get it without a flake ) , because women are expert at catfishing that 7 you thought you were talking too is probably more likely to be a 5 or a 6 in reality , men also like to height fish etc the I am " 5'11 " line is womens number one complaint on these apps
So straight off the bat everyones disappointed with what they've ordered.
Then you have the problem of personality / vibe matching .....because meeting in person is hell of a lot different to talking through a screen both parties are conscious of trying to match themselves to their online personas (which are usually heavily glossed)
to top that off people on the apps are usually socially awkward anyway that is why they are on them
What you end up with is a very awkward interaction neither party is that bothered about and usually can't wait to leave
there are cases where you'll have an awkward male introvert and female introvert who will meet and kind of "force it too work" regardless of all the issues above
I suspect this will be especially common with sub cultures like , goths , rockers , gamers whatever their suitable dating pool both IRL and online is so small they realise they have to make it work
For people with a more broad spectrum of options , interests or tastes its a horrendous way to meet a potential mate
I deleted the lot of them 2 months ago and I can't see me rushing back anytime soon
Ofcourse you cannot trust an app company with no expertise in community and civilization building to intermediate in something as important as social and interpersonal relationships because these things are the pillars of a functioning society and ti can only be done by those with the correct expertise.
No thats going too far. What I mean there are objectively good and bad behaviours that lead to positive experiences and attraction for both parties. Whatever business/community/group is mediating between parties (in this case apps, or matchmakers etc) need to understand these concepts. Its really just knowledge of Game that those mediating need to have.Arranged relationships then?
+1.They're running a business, they are not your friend and they only care about maximizing profits. They figured out how to exploit the general weakness of men a long time ago, but still a lot of men are fooled by it. It's way easier to meet women the old fashioned way, but for some reason a lot of men think OLD is somehow better. It's just not and even if you waste money on it you'll have to put in the effort anyways to take them to bed, that's just a bad deal.
It doesn't work, ignore it and do what works.
What is the general weakness of men and what are men fooled by?They figured out how to exploit the general weakness of men a long time ago, but still a lot of men are fooled by it.
This whole quote explains why swipe apps don't work in most cases and why there are a lot of "one date, no sex, no second date" type interactions from them when people actually meet from the apps.Most women treat them with contempt and tend to reply hours if not days after as they are such a low priority to them , obviously the male needs to match this reponse time or he will come across as needy and desperate
This means a very basic conversation could take 1-2 weeks to run through and this is before anyone has mentioned a date
Then comes the actual meet ( if you can get it without a flake ) , because women are expert at catfishing that 7 you thought you were talking too is probably more likely to be a 5 or a 6 in reality , men also like to height fish etc the I am " 5'11 " line is womens number one complaint on these apps
So straight off the bat everyones disappointed with what they've ordered.
Then you have the problem of personality / vibe matching .....because meeting in person is hell of a lot different to talking through a screen both parties are conscious of trying to match themselves to their online personas (which are usually heavily glossed)
to top that off people on the apps are usually socially awkward anyway that is why they are on them
What you end up with is a very awkward interaction neither party is that bothered about and usually can't wait to leave
We're weak to women and fooled by these companies very clearly (to me at least) exploiting that fact. The fact that there is a massive market for porn and prostitution targeted at men really proves that point, it works because a large number of men are weak to women to the point they will part with their hard earned money.What is the general weakness of men and what are men fooled by?
I posted a simple way to solve that. When you get their number you do a reverse lookup and get their name. Then look them up on facebook and see if it's current pics or if they're heavier. Also if it doesn't comeback then you know it's a burner number and a scammer.Novelty of them has worn off and people are realising the investment required time / financial (for men) isn't really worth the payoff
Ontop of that there are only so many avenues a conversation can take on a swipe app and conversations tend to burn out .....QUICKLY
Most women treat them with contempt and tend to reply hours if not days after as they are such a low priority to them , obviously the male needs to match this reponse time or he will come across as needy and desperate
This means a very basic conversation could take 1-2 weeks to run through and this is before anyone has mentioned a date
Then comes the actual meet ( if you can get it without a flake ) , because women are expert at catfishing that 7 you thought you were talking too is probably more likely to be a 5 or a 6 in reality , men also like to height fish etc the I am " 5'11 " line is womens number one complaint on these apps
So straight off the bat everyones disappointed with what they've ordered.
Then you have the problem of personality / vibe matching .....because meeting in person is hell of a lot different to talking through a screen both parties are conscious of trying to match themselves to their online personas (which are usually heavily glossed)
to top that off people on the apps are usually socially awkward anyway that is why they are on them
What you end up with is a very awkward interaction neither party is that bothered about and usually can't wait to leave
there are cases where you'll have an awkward male introvert and female introvert who will meet and kind of "force it too work" regardless of all the issues above
I suspect this will be especially common with sub cultures like , goths , rockers , gamers whatever their suitable dating pool both IRL and online is so small they realise they have to make it work
For people with a more broad spectrum of options , interests or tastes its a horrendous way to meet a potential mate
I deleted the lot of them 2 months ago and I can't see me rushing back anytime soon