I’m recently going through the same thing right now with someone I used to see nothing serious. She texted me and then would disappear and so forth and truth be told I am seeing other women anyways. She would see my Instagram stories, and then message me and then disappear again, and so forth.
The best way to approach is to go no contact. She invited me to a soccer game and told me that she will let me know when it is finally organized and then disappeared after I asked her to Let me know when we’re going.
I’ve got no contact and I’ve deleted my Instagram and if she ever reaches out then I will just go no contact with her until she asked me if I’m ignoring her. I will still go no contact. If she never reaches out that’s fine too.
what you have to realize is that generally women do things and they’re oblivious to the fact that they are making a certain person feel something.
when it gets to that point, you just have to walk away and respect yourself and stay no contact. I always felt that telling a woman when she disappears or flakes that they should not do that has a desperate tone to it, so I don’t even bother.
Plus, if you even have to think, why do you never texted you or why they’re acting a certain way that it itself should be a sign that you need to move on and find another person. Because that person is probably lost that sort of interest and it’s also a great sign, because then you can move on without any fights for any argument, or any hard feelings.
