I thought this was a well done video even though the content creator is someone who I don't think is an original thinker but someone who simply re-packages from creators like Rollo and Rich Cooper. The above video would essentially be an expanded version of the YouTube short in the first post. I have re-posted the short below.
I agree with this post 100%. Women have been sending a larger percentage of men to the rejection pile.
There are plenty of 60-75 year old Boomer males who were ordinary men and had reasonably stable dating lives. These are men who were able to have long term marriages (40+ years in certain cases) with children or get divorced and re-married a 2nd or even 3rd time. Either way, these 60-75 year old Boomer males weren't lacking partners. These 60-75 year old Boomer men were not invisible in the sexual marketplace when they were actively seeking partners. They kept someone around despite being ordinary. These relationships might not be higher quality relationships, but at least they are completely invisible.
The Millennial/early Gen Z sons (typically 25-40 years old right now) of these 60-75 year old Boomer males are often invisible men who are incel/borderline incel despite being ordinary looking and having at least adequate social skills. There are plenty of Boomer males out there that would have been incels/borderline incels had they been born during the Millennial generation or early Gen Z.
The typical reaction to younger men (Gen Z and Millennials) not having sex is to say that these men are basement dwelling losers who are socially awkward. These are obese, acne ridden neckbeards. While there are some men who are acne ridden neckbeards living in a parent's basement and fapping to streaming porn websites, that's not even close to the typical male.
When nearly 2/3rds of younger men (late Millennials and early Gen Z) are single and struggling, it's a broader problem than obese neckbeards in a parent's basement. Even the first half of the Millennial generation (1981-1988 births) who are now 35-42 are often having significant issues dating in this marketplace. Older Millennials often struggled with the dating market. Right now, and during the next 5 years, you're going to see more Millennials turning 40 while being childless. That's a sign of more young women sending more men to the rejection pile. More and more men are getting rejected and more women are choosing lifestyles where they "Never Settle!" and lean into their careers or have kids with men in unstable situations leading to single motherhood.
There have also been cultural influences in the West that ruined the family unit and the current sexual marketplace is a symptom of that.
Look at her face at :29 and :43 in that video. She's astonished. You have a legitimate point here.
However, you didn't deliver this point well. Calling her "a dumb, stupid hoe" doesn't make you look good, even if your point is valid. Yes, your point is valid.
She used the typical out of touch, feminist tripe that men are socially awkward. Yes, there are socially awkward men but the market has changed so much that even ordinary men who aren't socially awkward are experiences challenges in this market. A lot of the men experiencing these problems are dumbfounded by what's going on.
Yes, there are broke, tattooed deadbeat men who get laid. It happens. The broke, tattooed deadbeat guy who might get laid isn't indicative of men at large.
The women who the broke, tattooed deadbeat guys are fuccking are often cashiers at Walmart, Dollar General, McDonald's, and Burger King. These aren't great women either. Careerist women aren't typically fuccking the broke, deadbeat guy working at a scrap yard, cooking meals at Denny's, or working construction.
The more typical guy is some invisible white collar or blue collar/McJob type guy. Since I exist more in white collar spaces, I have seen many more invisible white collar type guys than invisible blue collar/McJob guys. Both men exist. There are men working some office job while swiping away on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge, getting matches on less than 1% of swipes, and getting few actual dates from the apps. The few dates they have are often "one date, no sex, no second date". That's a common experience on the swipe apps. It's a harsh, very negative cycle.
Part of the solution is engaging in behaviors that will adapt to women's changing tastes.
There's not a full solution to this but there are partial solutions that men can enact at an individual level that can help. Men who do these things will experience varied results.
Part of the solution is Game study and behaving in a way that women find attractive.
Men must prioritize physical fitness. That's a part of a healthy lifestyle.
Men must avoid pornography, masturbation, and OnlyFans simping at a minimum.
I would recommend most men avoid the swipe apps, but a small percentage of men can succeed on swipe apps. Most men will have a better experience in dating by using social circle means or in-person approaching means in order to arrange their dates. They'll be prepared for this through Game study and an exercise centered lifestyle.
Minimizing use of the main leisure social media platforms (Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter) is a good idea. White collar men will often need to use LinkedIn. LinkedIn has become more a toxic soup in the last 5 years. Many toxic, feminist, careerist women post on LinkedIn while displaying their 'She/Her' pronouns. 'She/Her' pronouns are virtue signaling for the typical woman on LinkedIn.
In describing my solution thus far, I have emphasized looks above all. The looks factor is the most important factor today in attracting-seducing women. However, men can succeed without optimized looks. It will take a lot of money to do so in most cases. Some men have enough money to impress women. Using money to impress women is a more difficult spot in Game so I recommend men emphasize looks and personality over money and status.
