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What you could try in the future at these events and parties is basically slowing down somewhat on the cold approaching and first talking to other guys and let the girls see you chilling and socialising with guys and then go open the set. You want the girls to see and notice you first so let them see you enter a group of ppl talk and socialise then they will see you are a cool guy who socialises with evry1 and then they will be curious thats when u go for the approach.
No, no, no, no, no. Women seeing you talk with other women will raise your value. If they see you talking with other men before talking to women, you risk looking like a loser who doesn't know how to talk to women.
 

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First of all, huge kudos for this consistently updated journal.

It's not that you went overboard with the women. You went "underboard" with the men. You need to either neutralize obstacles or - even better - convert them into cheerleaders/wings. Combine this with the classic principle of "You go first" and what do you get? Show that you won't get in the way of the other men and they won't get in your way.

I would sometimes walk into mixed sets that I never met before, assume that guy A is interested in girl B, and start telling girl B how awesome guy A is as if I already knew him. From here, there are a variety of ways it could go:

1. Guy A and Girl B are already dating, they think the situation is funny, I become their new friend and they just add to my social proof and social momentum.
2. Guy A is not interested in Girl B for whatever reason. Maybe they've just been friends too long or he's interested in someone else or he has a girlfriend. Same result as above.
3. Guy A is actually interested in Girl B but they are not dating, meaning that she likely isn't as into him as he is into her. He will see that I am trying to help him and immediately appreciate the help. Most guys suck at game so he wants to keep me around and stay on my good side, especially because I am most likely visibly more confident than he is. It's ideal if I'm interested in a different girl in the group, but if I'm interested in Girl B, I can indirectly take over at some point.

You could just as easily approach a mixed set with any other opener while being friendly with and greeting the men as well as the women. Then, you can secretly ask the men if they are interested in any particular girls and just "wing" them by hyping them up in front of the women. Doing this will not negatively impact your own game and will only serve to make the men like you more, turning those potential obstacles into... not obstacles. It won't negatively impact your own game because the women won't actually become more interested in those other men if those other men have bad game to begin with. You fundamentally can't carry them.

Alternatively, sometimes I simply compliment the men and that's literally all I have to do to get the same effect. I usually go for compliments about fashion. Men rarely ever get complimented so it's pretty easy to get them on your side this way.
I see where you are coming from with this and might even employ it in more of a casual bar setting or even a nightclub one. However, when I first started game, I did a variant of this strategy where I would start my night by talking to men. I found that most men were just as, if not more, defensive than the women I approached. Maybe they thought a dude chatting with them was gay or they thought that I had an ulterior motive which to be truthful, I did, I wanted hot girls.

Overtime, I found that the approach that worked best for me was the transparency and honesty approach. I am out to talk to hot girls. I want hot girls. Why should I waste even a second of time on her guy friends? I guess throughout my game journey, I found that most guys just got in the way and I didn't even bother with them.

The event mentioned was packed with hot girls and I thought that for the rest of the year it won't come around again. My bet is going to be that I make the most of it and go from there.
 

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My slight 180.

So I have decided that it is time to invest in new pics for online dating and go down that route. No, I have not given up on cold approach but lately, a few things have made it a frustrating ordeal for me.

1. Loud music at bars and clubs plus the fact that I need to put my ear plugs in during some nights.

2. Having to speak loudly if I want to be heard and the fact that I hate dancing, it is not my vibe.

3. Dry nights where you see nothing but fat chicks and low quality out.

4. Toxic wingmen for a while now that just drain my energy and ruin my vibe.

5. The fact that even Miami has started to feel a bit sketchy these days compared to a year ago. A lot more crazy drugged out homeless people out and about compared to a year ago. Then add in socially unaware wingmen you are doing game with and you have a recipe for disaster.

6. Of all the methods, Online Dating gave me the best ROI.

I am not quitting cold approach.

2021 onwards was a chance for me to actually learn "game" and in 2022, I started day game. I had some fun with it and got laid from it as well. However, when I do the numbers in my head and the fact that I want to reach a triple digit lay count, they don't add up. The nightlife in Miami is mostly lackluster unless you get into the right cliques and even with daygame, you are out for hours trying to close.

Instead, I am going to reduce nigthgame and daygame down a bit. I am still going to do cold approach but I am seriously going to invest in online dating again.
 

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i did both. Day and night game and online back when online wasnt so popular

you are doing.great stay diversified
 

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6. Of all the methods, Online Dating gave me the best ROI.

I am not quitting cold approach.

2021 onwards was a chance for me to actually learn "game" and in 2022, I started day game. I had some fun with it and got laid from it as well. However, when I do the numbers in my head and the fact that I want to reach a triple digit lay count, they don't add up. The nightlife in Miami is mostly lackluster unless you get into the right cliques and even with daygame, you are out for hours trying to close.

Instead, I am going to reduce nigthgame and daygame down a bit. I am still going to do cold approach but I am seriously going to invest in online dating again.
I dunno about you but real life game usually gave me the chance to date hotter girls than online game. Sure, I got some hotties through Tinder and whatnot, but it was much easier and more frequent to get hotter girls with cold approaches. A lot of hotties who would respond well to me irl would swipe left on me on an app.
 

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I dunno about you but real life game usually gave me the chance to date hotter girls than online game. Sure, I got some hotties through Tinder and whatnot, but it was much easier and more frequent to get hotter girls with cold approaches. A lot of hotties who would respond well to me irl would swipe left on me on an app.
I have heard and read stories from many men expressing the same idea. Most men are going to have better outcomes with in-person approaching than swiping or DMing to start interactions.

i did both. Day and night game and online back when online wasnt so popular

you are doing.great stay diversified
For beginning to intermediate game guys, diversification isn't a good thing. For earlier stage guys, I think it is best to focus on one form of the 4 main types of game listed below.

1. Non-bar (commonly called day game)
2. Bar/nightlife (commonly called night game)
3. Tech-based (commonly called online)
4. Social circle

Once someone gets good at one of the 4 types of game, they can branch out into others. @Jesse Pinkman is experienced enough that he could do multiple forms of game, but less experienced men are better off focusing on one form of Game.

The Average Frustrated Chump is typically spreading himself too thin trying to do multiple forms of Game and not really doing any of them well.
 

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I have heard and read stories from many men expressing the same idea. Most men are going to have better outcomes with in-person approaching than swiping or DMing to start interactions.



For beginning to intermediate game guys, diversification isn't a good thing. For earlier stage guys, I think it is best to focus on one form of the 4 main types of game listed below.

1. Non-bar (commonly called day game)
2. Bar/nightlife (commonly called night game)
3. Tech-based (commonly called online)
4. Social circle

Once someone gets good at one of the 4 types of game, they can branch out into others. @Jesse Pinkman is experienced enough that he could do multiple forms of game, but less experienced men are better off focusing on one form of Game.

The Average Frustrated Chump is typically spreading himself too thin trying to do multiple forms of Game and not really doing any of them well.
You are right about that in particular when we take into account the need for different methods for each of them.

I was reading Roosh (i was in the game a long time ago of course before he started posting and writing). In his daygame point, he was sure to point out something that should be obvious to most but might not be to those new at game.

Essentially he said that you have to tone it down for day game.. The ****iness, the high energy openers etc. I think most people might intuitively realize this.. but a guy new to game that was previously introverted might not and he might come off as weird in daygame by using a nightgame persona.

I guess back in the day i was meeting women in clubs.. then added online because i wanted to supplement (and in particular i found it useful for meeting women from other countries, where instant messenging them helped with communication compared to in person). My daygame was and still can be revolved around working with a high concentration of women in healthcare.. and the random interactions i have elsewhere (gym, bookstore, coffeeshop, out walking and running etc)
 

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I was reading Roosh (i was in the game a long time ago of course before he started posting and writing). In his daygame point, he was sure to point out something that should be obvious to most but might not be to those new at game.

Essentially he said that you have to tone it down for day game.. The ****iness, the high energy openers etc. I think most people might intuitively realize this.. but a guy new to game that was previously introverted might not and he might come off as weird in daygame by using a nightgame persona.
I recall that Roosh article. Roosh was the first PUA content creator that taught me a good system for doing day game, as I found "Day Bang" incredibly useful when I first read it soon after its 2011 publication. Besides "Day Bang", Roosh had plenty of blog articles about doing day game.

Day game and night game are quite different stylistically. A guy taking a night game approach style to his mall, bookstore, or gym approaches will give off an uncalibrated vibe. A guy using a day game style of approaching within nightlife venues would likely not come off as socially uncalibrated but he'd be considered less exciting in a lot of nightlife type venues. If he's considered less exciting, he's unlikely to keep her attention and advance that interaction.

Night game should be more immediately sexual and more immediately flirty whereas day game would typically be a slower buildup to flirtiness. A day gamer does need to flirt somewhat and not give off beta male friend/emotional tampon vibes, but trying to pull a woman back immediately for sex isn't going to happen in a day game approach in most cases. There are outlier cases where a man can get same day sex from a daygame approach within 1-2 hours of starting the conversation. Most men won't experience that from day game. In a nightlife venue, it's possible to approach a woman at 10 PM and be inside her vagina by 12 AM.

One of the things that has changed about nightlife venues in the last 15-20 years is that they are more and more geared to same night sex. Even in the mid-2000s when I first turned 21, nightlife was better for finding sex than finding legitimate first dates and relationships. However, if you got a number in standard, late night nightlife back then, you had a better chance of her not flaking in the early to mid-2000s as compared to today.

If a man wants to use nightlife venues to arrange first dates, he's better off trying to do that at weekday "happy hour" time slots, such as between Monday-Thursday from 5-8 PM.

A lot of nightlife venues now on weekdays now are places where people are hosting their swipe app arranged first dates between 6-10 PM. However, there are enough people randomly out on weeknights prior to 10 PM that a man could do some real life approaches. This would be easier to do in bigger cities.
 

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I dunno about you but real life game usually gave me the chance to date hotter girls than online game. Sure, I got some hotties through Tinder and whatnot, but it was much easier and more frequent to get hotter girls with cold approaches. A lot of hotties who would respond well to me irl would swipe left on me on an app.
You are preaching to the choir, bro. @Jesse Pinkman is one of those guys here who has been talking up cold approach for years and saying swipe apps are trash (which I politely disagree with). Him giving the apps another opportunity could be interesting.
 

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I have not given up on cold approach but lately, a few things have made it a frustrating ordeal for me.

1. Loud music at bars and clubs plus the fact that I need to put my ear plugs in during some nights.

2. Having to speak loudly if I want to be heard and the fact that I hate dancing, it is not my vibe.

3. Dry nights where you see nothing but fat chicks and low quality out.

4. Toxic wingmen for a while now that just drain my energy and ruin my vibe.

5. The fact that even Miami has started to feel a bit sketchy these days compared to a year ago. A lot more crazy drugged out homeless people out and about compared to a year ago. Then add in socially unaware wingmen you are doing game with and you have a recipe for disaster.

6. Of all the methods, Online Dating gave me the best ROI.

I am not quitting cold approach.
Items 1, 2, and 4 are not at all applicable in day game. Item #3 does happen in day game. Sometimes, there are day game sessions where there aren't viable targets. This can happen for many reasons.

In day game, there's no need for a wingman. It's normal to encounter women solo at a grocery store, at the gym/fitness classes, and in some other daygame options.

A city becoming more sketchy can impact day game to some extent.
 

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I dunno about you but real life game usually gave me the chance to date hotter girls than online game. Sure, I got some hotties through Tinder and whatnot, but it was much easier and more frequent to get hotter girls with cold approaches. A lot of hotties who would respond well to me irl would swipe left on me on an app.
I get where you are coming from and I do agree, when done right, cold approach is nearly unstoppable and gives you an unfair advantage. However, it is not that efficient overall. You go out for a couple of hours to say daygame, you might get 5 numbers max if you are lucky. For nightgame, it is those long nights out that bother me. I do want to stick to cold approach but just do it less often these days.

Online dating wins on efficiency. You don't have to wonder if a girl is taken and the context is implied. However, I want to hit on all cylinders. It is just that I have had a rough go at cold approach in recent months and the toxic wings have really worn me down.
 

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I get where you are coming from and I do agree, when done right, cold approach is nearly unstoppable and gives you an unfair advantage. However, it is not that efficient overall. You go out for a couple of hours to say daygame, you might get 5 numbers max if you are lucky. For nightgame, it is those long nights out that bother me. I do want to stick to cold approach but just do it less often these days.

Online dating wins on efficiency. You don't have to wonder if a girl is taken and the context is implied. However, I want to hit on all cylinders. It is just that I have had a rough go at cold approach in recent months and the toxic wings have really worn me down.
Cola game Jesse. You're in Miami bro.
 

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I get where you are coming from and I do agree, when done right, cold approach is nearly unstoppable and gives you an unfair advantage. However, it is not that efficient overall. You go out for a couple of hours to say daygame, you might get 5 numbers max if you are lucky.
Getting 5 numbers in a 2-3 hour daygame session would be an amazing session! A more typical 2 hour daygame session is 0-1 dates arranged with a phone number exchange. I only ask for a woman's phone number after she's agreed to the date concept with me. I won't get a number unless I have a date. I don't want to sell a date over text messaging or a phone call (rare with Millennials/Gen Z).

I have never seen great efficiencies out of day game. There are things that can be done in day game to position oneself for greater success, but even with doing those things, day game still has a lot of inefficiency built into it.

Online dating wins on efficiency. You don't have to wonder if a girl is taken and the context is implied.
Swipe apps give the illusion of efficiency because you can swipe through thousands of women in the comfort of your own home. Swipe apps are also highly inefficient too, as match rates on swipe apps are usually a fraction of 1% of swipes for most men.

In day game, one of the things a man can do is to choose to do approaches in parts of a city where there are more unmarried people. If a man does this, it helps the cause. However, even in mostly unmarried areas, there are still plenty of women with boyfriends not seeking new penis. Most people are in some sort of relationship at any given time and are not seeking new penis.

In theory, a woman on a swipe app is seeking new penis. In practice, it isn't quite like that. A lot of women on swipe apps are time wasters taking the ego boosts and validation from having hundreds of messages. A lot of women in relationships will get in a bad fight with a boyfriend, quickly throw up a swipe app profile, see a queue of 300+ matches, then disappear. They get the validation that they are desired.

There's also the idea that night game has context implied too. A woman wouldn't go to nightlife venue if she wasn't seeking new penis. However, there are also women with boyfriends and time wasters at nightlife venues.

I'm not sure that context is ever implied.

I have had a rough go at cold approach in recent months and the toxic wings have really worn me down.
I can identify with the problem of wings. I've never had a good wing. There is a difference between a male friend and a good wing. I can remember one instance when one of my male friends was engaged to be married and he went out with me one night. He didn't do a good job winging with me. His attitudes weren't toxic but he wasn't compelling enough to keep female friends distracted while I tried to close my main target in the group.

I have rolled solo out to nightlife venues. Approaching women in group of 2-3 can happen solo. Groups of 2 are easier than groups of 3 but even groups of 2 can be difficult in nightlife without a wing. Nightlife is best practiced with a wing, but I think no wing is better than the wrong wing in nightlife.

I prefer non-bar approaching to nightlife venue approaching simply because women are often isolated from their friends in these setting. It's normal for both a man and a woman to be isolated and not with friends at a grocery store, bookstore, fitness class, and even some other non-bar settings. I don't like when I see in a woman in a group in a daygame setting because that takes away one of the key advantages of daygame.
 

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Jesse Pinkman life update.

It has been a minute or whatever it may have been fellas. I wanted to go back and reflect at the sh*tshow which has been May for me.

1. Go out nightgaming again after taking months off from it, and just consistent game in general. The actual outcome? I get hit with a very nasty bug that gives me the flu for a few days and then has me coughing uncontrollably for a couple of weeks. I know I first caught it at a bar in Wynnwood, so freaking uncomfortable. Could not even talk to girls without coughing, that is how bad it was. Had to be on Mucinex and cough drops and even that barely did anything.

2. Recover from said cough and then an old wing from the PUA group I was a part of hits me up. The dude in the past had b*tched about women in Miami and how they find men but he was getting back into the swing of things for game too. Result? This dude's toxic behaviors get even worse and get significantly more draining. Legit spent an entire weekend daygaming with the dude talking to me in-between sets about how unfair it is that some men can meet women easily in Miami. Complains the whole time about how these men are meeting women through work and his energy gets extra toxic and draining. The first day is bearable but the second day is bad enough to drain me to the point I go home, have a few drinks, and then the next day wake up sick. Am sick for a week.

3. Do nightgaming again inbetween 1 and 2 (alongside it really) and find out how utterly useless 99% of dudes from the PUA Group Chat I used to be a part of are. In fact, I find out how unreliable these morons are and the 20:80 rules makes 10x more sense to me. I completely get it now, I really really do. Man, PUA is screwed and I am going to talk about how worthless 90% of dudes who get into game are and how beyond help these morons are as well.

4. Go for pro pics in a nearby town, get stuck in 4 hour traffic because some idiot kid crashed his red sports car into a truck and it caused a fatal accident that shut down all 4 lanes of the highway. Could not move for an hour in the situation.

5. Get pro pics done but then realize I had put up my new pics on active Tinder and Bumble accounts. Well, ELO is still not recognizing them and since my profile is old, it is buried. Now I have to game the freaking algorithm by resetting the apps but they have made it 10x harder to do that now.

May was not my month!
 

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6/4/23 - A dark day.

I guess for men, we are not supposed to make ourselves vulnerable. We are supposed to always act strong and act like everything is okay. Especially when I speak to you all on here, I am supposed to act like crap is okay when really, it is not. So today, I tried to reset my ELO Score on Tinder after having new photos done and it did not work out. When I tried to bypass my old profile and create a new one, despite my research, nada. These folks at Tinder really stepped their game up to stop dudes from getting new profiles and so did Bumble, in a way.

Here I was getting new pics done and I cannot even put them up properly on Tinder and Bumble because the ELO Score cannot get reset easily. They just latch on to your phone number and devices so they can stop you from starting fresh. Well, couple that in with the fact that the past month when I tried to get back into cold approach, I realized just how worthless, useless, and toxic most of my wings were.

Well, I went out to a local bar for a drink. The bartenders gave me free margs and all as I watched the Heat and Nuggets game, I don't even care about basketball. On the way back, I just listened to music on my wireless headphones, not airpods as I lost them months ago. Out of nowhere, the wireless crap phones turn to max volume and I smile like a psycho and lose it. I spike them hard against the ground and do it over, and over, and over again.

I had a meltdown. I lost it. These pics were supposed to save me, professionally done and all but Tinder and Bumble made it darn near impossible to reset unless I get a new phone. Then couple that in with the fact that it is virtually impossible to find decent wings whenever you want to game and I cracked.

It was a dark day in my life, that is all. I cracked.

I confess, I am not perfect.
 

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free margs
Free margaritas? That's the dream of a lot of White Millennial female swipe app daters, who put how much they love tacos and margaritas on their swipe app profiles.

I tried to reset my ELO Score on Tinder after having new photos done and it did not work out. When I tried to bypass my old profile and create a new one, despite my research, nada. These folks at Tinder really stepped their game up to stop dudes from getting new profiles and so did Bumble, in a way.
This is a good reason to meet women in real life.

I guess for men, we are not supposed to make ourselves vulnerable. We are supposed to always act strong and act like everything is okay. save me, professionally done and all but Tinder and Bumble made it darn near impossible to reset unless I get a new phone. Then couple that in with the fact that it is virtually impossible to find decent wings whenever you want to game and I cracked.
This is powerful and understandable. Thank you for keeping it real. Hope you're able to get to a better emotional state.
 

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Jesse Pinkman life update.

It has been a minute or whatever it may have been fellas. I wanted to go back and reflect at the sh*tshow which has been May for me.

1. Go out nightgaming again after taking months off from it, and just consistent game in general. The actual outcome? I get hit with a very nasty bug that gives me the flu for a few days and then has me coughing uncontrollably for a couple of weeks. I know I first caught it at a bar in Wynnwood, so freaking uncomfortable. Could not even talk to girls without coughing, that is how bad it was. Had to be on Mucinex and cough drops and even that barely did anything.

2. Recover from said cough and then an old wing from the PUA group I was a part of hits me up. The dude in the past had b*tched about women in Miami and how they find men but he was getting back into the swing of things for game too. Result? This dude's toxic behaviors get even worse and get significantly more draining. Legit spent an entire weekend daygaming with the dude talking to me in-between sets about how unfair it is that some men can meet women easily in Miami. Complains the whole time about how these men are meeting women through work and his energy gets extra toxic and draining. The first day is bearable but the second day is bad enough to drain me to the point I go home, have a few drinks, and then the next day wake up sick. Am sick for a week.

3. Do nightgaming again inbetween 1 and 2 (alongside it really) and find out how utterly useless 99% of dudes from the PUA Group Chat I used to be a part of are. In fact, I find out how unreliable these morons are and the 20:80 rules makes 10x more sense to me. I completely get it now, I really really do. Man, PUA is screwed and I am going to talk about how worthless 90% of dudes who get into game are and how beyond help these morons are as well.

4. Go for pro pics in a nearby town, get stuck in 4 hour traffic because some idiot kid crashed his red sports car into a truck and it caused a fatal accident that shut down all 4 lanes of the highway. Could not move for an hour in the situation.

5. Get pro pics done but then realize I had put up my new pics on active Tinder and Bumble accounts. Well, ELO is still not recognizing them and since my profile is old, it is buried. Now I have to game the freaking algorithm by resetting the apps but they have made it 10x harder to do that now.

May was not my month!
Its ok man. We all have months. I had a bad cough too post vacation/marathon. Its almost to be expectef when we push work hard/play hard to the limits
 

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6/4/23 - A dark day.

I guess for men, we are not supposed to make ourselves vulnerable. We are supposed to always act strong and act like everything is okay. Especially when I speak to you all on here, I am supposed to act like crap is okay when really, it is not. So today, I tried to reset my ELO Score on Tinder after having new photos done and it did not work out. When I tried to bypass my old profile and create a new one, despite my research, nada. These folks at Tinder really stepped their game up to stop dudes from getting new profiles and so did Bumble, in a way.

Here I was getting new pics done and I cannot even put them up properly on Tinder and Bumble because the ELO Score cannot get reset easily. They just latch on to your phone number and devices so they can stop you from starting fresh. Well, couple that in with the fact that the past month when I tried to get back into cold approach, I realized just how worthless, useless, and toxic most of my wings were.

Well, I went out to a local bar for a drink. The bartenders gave me free margs and all as I watched the Heat and Nuggets game, I don't even care about basketball. On the way back, I just listened to music on my wireless headphones, not airpods as I lost them months ago. Out of nowhere, the wireless crap phones turn to max volume and I smile like a psycho and lose it. I spike them hard against the ground and do it over, and over, and over again.

I had a meltdown. I lost it. These pics were supposed to save me, professionally done and all but Tinder and Bumble made it darn near impossible to reset unless I get a new phone. Then couple that in with the fact that it is virtually impossible to find decent wings whenever you want to game and I cracked.

It was a dark day in my life, that is all. I cracked.

I confess, I am not perfect.
I can relate to the anger. My marriage issues have pushed me to anger many times.

i am not on the apps. I am not sure what social media is trying to do. You think they would want happy customers.

i would recommend taking lots of long walks in the mornings. It clears your mind and can put you in a more positive mindset. Maybe find something that is interesting to listen to on audiobook or podcast. It will get better, it always does. We all get into these funks. I was in one today and it almost certainly is from fatigue from drinking over the weekend
 

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6/9/23 - I hate sporting events, a lot.

So weird day this past Friday. The plan was that I would go for drinks at Happy Hour since there is a spot near me where I have good rapport with the bartenders. However, due to a mixture of not getting enough sleep the night before as well as the downright gloomy weather in Miami all week, I took a nap after work that lasted hours. I had to force myself to get out of bed and by the time I did, it was almost 8 PM. Ate something, showered, up and decided to get drinks at a local bar.

Go figure, the freaking Miami Heat are playing the Nuggets. Basketball games and sporting events involving Miami teams are such massive ****blocks for game. If I was to go the bar I usually go to for game, I would be dealing with women watching a dumb basketball game out with their cliques rather than just being able to do game. Ultimately, I decided not to go.

However, every fiber of my body became a Nuggets fan. The Nuggets were up 2-1 in the series (I believe first to win 4 games is the winner) and I just wanted them to win so this nonsense of the NBA Finals can freaking end. I also realized how much I hate NBA culture, as racist as it may make me sound. Everything about the NBA and the sport of basketball is flashiness and clout, it has no substance to it like soccer or American Football do. The fans are the trash of humanity and embodiment of the fact that you can pay for school but you can't buy class.

The absolute worst parts of hood bling bling culture. Cannot stand basketball and its fan as a sport, the trashiest and most passive-aggressive people I have come across. White basketball fans are the kinds of guys who watch Cuck porn and probably stand in the corner to watch their wives get railed.

Moving on, I stuck around at the bar till midnight since due to the long nap, I would not be sleeping well that night anyways. Saw the stupid game for the most part and then headed home. Did not go out to game at all and slept in till 2 PM today.

My life is going downhill :(
 

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6/9/23 - I hate sporting events, a lot.

So weird day this past Friday. The plan was that I would go for drinks at Happy Hour since there is a spot near me where I have good rapport with the bartenders. However, due to a mixture of not getting enough sleep the night before as well as the downright gloomy weather in Miami all week, I took a nap after work that lasted hours. I had to force myself to get out of bed and by the time I did, it was almost 8 PM. Ate something, showered, up and decided to get drinks at a local bar.

Go figure, the freaking Miami Heat are playing the Nuggets. Basketball games and sporting events involving Miami teams are such massive ****blocks for game. If I was to go the bar I usually go to for game, I would be dealing with women watching a dumb basketball game out with their cliques rather than just being able to do game. Ultimately, I decided not to go.

However, every fiber of my body became a Nuggets fan. The Nuggets were up 2-1 in the series (I believe first to win 4 games is the winner) and I just wanted them to win so this nonsense of the NBA Finals can freaking end. I also realized how much I hate NBA culture, as racist as it may make me sound. Everything about the NBA and the sport of basketball is flashiness and clout, it has no substance to it like soccer or American Football do. The fans are the trash of humanity and embodiment of the fact that you can pay for school but you can't buy class.

The absolute worst parts of hood bling bling culture. Cannot stand basketball and its fan as a sport, the trashiest and most passive-aggressive people I have come across. White basketball fans are the kinds of guys who watch Cuck porn and probably stand in the corner to watch their wives get railed.

Moving on, I stuck around at the bar till midnight since due to the long nap, I would not be sleeping well that night anyways. Saw the stupid game for the most part and then headed home. Did not go out to game at all and slept in till 2 PM today.

My life is going downhill :(
The NBA sucks now it's not like the 90s when Jordan played.
 
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