Hey everyone,
I've been facing a dilemma and could really use some guidance. Back in December 2021 (although I've known her since October 2021), I developed feelings for this amazing girl. It's worth mentioning that during that time, I was going through a tough period due to my parents' separation, and she was there for me, offering her support. Since March 2022, she's been aware of my feelings for her.
However, despite our connection and the bond we share, she's always maintained that I'm not ready for a relationship. Around two months ago, she made it clear that she only wants to be friends. Consequently, we haven't had any contact since then.
Now, I find myself at a crossroads. Should I reach out to her again, especially considering the positive changes (glow up) I've experienced in the meantime? Or should I focus on moving on? The truth is, I genuinely care about her, and it's been a year and a half since these feelings started.
I would greatly appreciate any insights, suggestions, or personal experiences any of you might have. How can I approach this situation? Should I attempt to reconnect or focus on healing and moving forward? If the latter, what are some strategies to help me get over her?
Thank you all for your support. I look forward to your valuable advice and input.
Best regards,
Voric
I've been facing a dilemma and could really use some guidance. Back in December 2021 (although I've known her since October 2021), I developed feelings for this amazing girl. It's worth mentioning that during that time, I was going through a tough period due to my parents' separation, and she was there for me, offering her support. Since March 2022, she's been aware of my feelings for her.
However, despite our connection and the bond we share, she's always maintained that I'm not ready for a relationship. Around two months ago, she made it clear that she only wants to be friends. Consequently, we haven't had any contact since then.
Now, I find myself at a crossroads. Should I reach out to her again, especially considering the positive changes (glow up) I've experienced in the meantime? Or should I focus on moving on? The truth is, I genuinely care about her, and it's been a year and a half since these feelings started.
I would greatly appreciate any insights, suggestions, or personal experiences any of you might have. How can I approach this situation? Should I attempt to reconnect or focus on healing and moving forward? If the latter, what are some strategies to help me get over her?
Thank you all for your support. I look forward to your valuable advice and input.
Best regards,
Voric