Dr.Suave
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Try triple booking datesI've had some cases where the first dates were cancelled on the day due to some bullsh1t exuse or "other engagements".
Try triple booking datesI've had some cases where the first dates were cancelled on the day due to some bullsh1t exuse or "other engagements".
I can’t even get them to go out once; that’s why I posted this threadTry triple booking dates
Call them and lead the conversation, it will weed out the ****ty conversationalists at the very least, and at the most it will get them emotionally invested before meeting.I've had some cases where the first dates were cancelled on the day due to some bullsh1t exuse or "other engagements". I think this is due to low interest level on their side. How do you balance the level of IL so that it's high but not having to chat too much to her before the first date? They of course afterwards still orbit me on IG.
Are you sure their inboxes are flooded? I DM'd a friend I dont follow with 800+ followers and she saw my DM easily, and said she doesnt get spamTry to get a phone number or snap over IG at some point because womens inboxes are absolutely FLOODED with garbage, and you can get lost in the noise.
Seen it with my own eyes. Check a woman's IG/snap inbox some time, it's a cluster f*ck of messages from randoms. If you make a good impression in person she'll be looking out for your message.Are you sure their inboxes are flooded? I DM'd a friend I dont follow with 800+ followers and she saw my DM easily, and said she doesnt get spam
Does it depend on how many followers she has or her attractiveness?
I want to DM this one lady with much less followers but if theres a chance it gets missed, would I be better off sending her a follow request?
I believe you, but it seems like not every woman's inbox is like this... hmm. I don't want my message to be lost with spam, but I also don't want to follow her yet.. we randomly met and talked for about three hours in real life but didn't exchange last names.Seen it with my own eyes. Check a woman's IG/snap inbox some time, it's a cluster f*ck of messages from randoms. If you make a good impression in person she'll be looking out for your message.
Tumbleweed?How do you raise IL to the level where they actually message you first? I get likes etc., have them watch my stories among the first ones, but they don't message first
Difficult for girls to write first unless you're a 10, you're a famous person and you have a profile with thousands of followers.Well, good to know that no actual practical advise comes from this place when one actually needs it