xavier_2000
Senior Don Juan
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“My mind is telling me no…. But my body is telling me yes”
Stop focusing on how unfair women are.
I was thinking back to how I used to be in regards to women
Thinking that they care about morality and values of honesty we as males value.
But we grossly misunderstand that they are emotional. Not logical
Values and morality is masculine. It is rooted in logic and masculine language that her dad taught her.
Always taught to not be an hoe, lock him down. He doesn’t respect you if it’s easy.
She wants to live in these masculine virtues… but her body and emotions says otherwise.
Think. We as men could care less if a ***** is bat crazy if she’s hot.
Rationality and logic is out the door in terms of our sexuality.
It’s the exact same thing with women.
Shes a raging hoe waiting to be unleashed to the man who makes her feel good.
Her moral compass is how she feels.
Accept it.
She’s not your property, you cannot control whether she cheats on you behind your back, etc.
Our frustration comes from our lack of control in this.
If she’s your only one in a relationship you already lost cause she dictates the rules of sex, etc.
And idk. If I commit to one girl and she cheats? Damn. I’m hurt.
If your like me and have had grown in a feminine only environment, it’s hard to accept a girl doing nasty things behind your back.
But the more I just don’t care and encourage it, ironically the more loyal they are.
a girl I was with for awhile to go see other guys and that I don’t care.
She told me she went on a date with this one guy and she became even more attentive lol.
Cause I thoroughly don’t care. I love pleasing her.
I don’t need to own her lmao.
You don’t truly love her. If you really love her you would be unattached.
Which brings me to my rule of not committing to one girl.
if your a monogamous typa guy like me, 3 girls minimum.
Don’t commit and attach yourself to 1 girl lol. She ends up controlling u.
“But Xavier, when u attach to 3 girls, don’t they control you?”
When that happens you switch the dynamic from trying to get sex or whatever to her trying to get your attention.
Any guy who gets tons of girls like celebrities have girls clawing for them why?
Because their attention is valuable and becomes “validation” to them.
Validation for women provides reassurance for their ego.
Female ego is fragile as hell. I will write another thread on this.
But main point is they understand there is a hot girl competing for you and on her best behaviour and that your very presence is something that girls value.
Again girls think in terms of group think.
if your tryna get sex from her it doesn’t work. Cause the dynamic switches where she becomes the “supplier”
Always be the supplier. Never be the buyer.
You have what she needs.
Stop complaining and hating on girls for being girls.
it and use that info to win.
Accept the worst case scenario and that anxiety and that resentment vanishes.
Being a natural isn’t always about being more.
Sometimes it’s done by ruthlessly cutting out all negative assumptions and resentment you have towards women.
Women are not loyal to you. They are loyal to their emotions.
When you accept it. The illusion of the “One catch” falls. And you realize the truth and wisdom behind kings having multiple wives and concubines throughout history.
Monogamy is invented by controlling hoes.
if a girl loves you she will share you and have threesomes. Best believe this.
“oh no she’s a good girl, she won’t do such a thing”
No. She is a girl.
When you truly internalize this it’s gonna be difficult and bitter. Then you’ll be free and truly not give a F.
You become free and not even caring.
You become the sexiest man alive to her because from that abundance of positive emotions you have… you just transfer it to her.
Her moral compass is how she feels.
understand this and never lose a ho
Stop focusing on how unfair women are.
I was thinking back to how I used to be in regards to women
Thinking that they care about morality and values of honesty we as males value.
But we grossly misunderstand that they are emotional. Not logical
Values and morality is masculine. It is rooted in logic and masculine language that her dad taught her.
Always taught to not be an hoe, lock him down. He doesn’t respect you if it’s easy.
She wants to live in these masculine virtues… but her body and emotions says otherwise.
Think. We as men could care less if a ***** is bat crazy if she’s hot.
Rationality and logic is out the door in terms of our sexuality.
It’s the exact same thing with women.
Shes a raging hoe waiting to be unleashed to the man who makes her feel good.
Her moral compass is how she feels.
Accept it.
She’s not your property, you cannot control whether she cheats on you behind your back, etc.
Our frustration comes from our lack of control in this.
If she’s your only one in a relationship you already lost cause she dictates the rules of sex, etc.
And idk. If I commit to one girl and she cheats? Damn. I’m hurt.
If your like me and have had grown in a feminine only environment, it’s hard to accept a girl doing nasty things behind your back.
But the more I just don’t care and encourage it, ironically the more loyal they are.
a girl I was with for awhile to go see other guys and that I don’t care.
She told me she went on a date with this one guy and she became even more attentive lol.
Cause I thoroughly don’t care. I love pleasing her.
I don’t need to own her lmao.
You don’t truly love her. If you really love her you would be unattached.
Which brings me to my rule of not committing to one girl.
if your a monogamous typa guy like me, 3 girls minimum.
Don’t commit and attach yourself to 1 girl lol. She ends up controlling u.
“But Xavier, when u attach to 3 girls, don’t they control you?”
When that happens you switch the dynamic from trying to get sex or whatever to her trying to get your attention.
Any guy who gets tons of girls like celebrities have girls clawing for them why?
Because their attention is valuable and becomes “validation” to them.
Validation for women provides reassurance for their ego.
Female ego is fragile as hell. I will write another thread on this.
But main point is they understand there is a hot girl competing for you and on her best behaviour and that your very presence is something that girls value.
Again girls think in terms of group think.
if your tryna get sex from her it doesn’t work. Cause the dynamic switches where she becomes the “supplier”
Always be the supplier. Never be the buyer.
You have what she needs.
Stop complaining and hating on girls for being girls.
it and use that info to win.
Accept the worst case scenario and that anxiety and that resentment vanishes.
Being a natural isn’t always about being more.
Sometimes it’s done by ruthlessly cutting out all negative assumptions and resentment you have towards women.
Women are not loyal to you. They are loyal to their emotions.
When you accept it. The illusion of the “One catch” falls. And you realize the truth and wisdom behind kings having multiple wives and concubines throughout history.
Monogamy is invented by controlling hoes.
if a girl loves you she will share you and have threesomes. Best believe this.
“oh no she’s a good girl, she won’t do such a thing”
No. She is a girl.
When you truly internalize this it’s gonna be difficult and bitter. Then you’ll be free and truly not give a F.
You become free and not even caring.
You become the sexiest man alive to her because from that abundance of positive emotions you have… you just transfer it to her.
Her moral compass is how she feels.
understand this and never lose a ho
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