It's easy to find the apparent answer in basically all PUA books, or even posts from this forum from like 2007-2015 or so. (Most people won't give you them answers on here nowadays, and rightly so!)
The answers you will get from reading the books and looking at old posts etc, is that you need to create attraction in her. That will of course make her want to flirt with you. (girls don't tend to flirt with a guy who approaches them who they are not attracted too lol)
How to creat attraction? Depends on which guru you listen too.
So it could be 'negs' and DHV stories if 'mystery' is your guru
It could be 'cold reads' and assumptions/teasing if you follow the London Day Gamers
It could be being extremely 'direct' in your intentions if you like the Mode1 style PUA's
It could be by being self amused and free from outcome etc if you believe the RSD guys
It would be NLP sentences (embedded commands etc) if you like Ross Jefferies
I could go on
However, as
@CornbreadFed says, it's just fantasy.
You can't negotiate attraction. Having 'game' means closing a higher percentage of the girls who are attracted to you, than the dude who always drops the ball when girls are attracted to him. You can't 'make' them attracted. You could come across as the most confident, masculine guy she's met in ages who is funny and charming and interesting etc etc, but if you're not her type, it's dead in the water. Infield footage ironically proves this (look carefully at how each interaction starts/her reaction/and how the infield ends. You can tell within seconds whether he has a shot or not. His game and techniques are irrelenvant to her if you're not her type)
Yeah, sometimes I tend to think a lot, just started on Game you see, I’m now 23 years old, have been in two relationships combined 4 years, so I actually don’t know a lot on how the Game works, never flirted a lot, never had the chance to do it, because I was always with a girlfriend!
I have always been the ultra mega perfect Nice Guy, since the last breakup which woke me up and I started getting to know this forum and all that involves the Game and manosphere etc. It’s just like red pill blue pill, it was really nasty and disgusting getting to know some of the lies I thought were true (like being a nice guy is what actually girls wanted, caring too much, etc., or even getting to know how women think, and how they percieve us).
So yeah, just starting now, that is why I’m always creating new posts ln the forum, I have a lot of questions, and I’m starting to build confidence in myself, I don’t have any issue with myself I think I’m an average handsome guy, and I have a well defined gym body, so no problems there, but still not that big of confidence in approaching women, and I tend to think a lot on how I need to do the approach, that’s is why I asked.
I know I just have to approach women and practice, that’s how you learn, but sometimes I find myself without knowing when is the best time (in the library? In the supermarket?) because when I’m in these places I think I shouldn’t approach them, because it’s weird, not the same as in a bar or in a party.
And right know I don’t have much time in my hands so I cannot go to bars or discos etc…
I do have an event in 2 weeks time, and there’s these girls which they are really hot and I want to approach them, don’t know how still.
Actually in the end, right now, what I want is not to have a relationship, I just want to apply the plate theory, having women spinning around me, and when I want I use one I **** one and so on, because I also have some goals in my life right now which I want to achieve. ( I hope you understand what I mean by that)
So yeah…
Don’t know why I explained all of this to you, just felt like it, I don’t know if you have something to say back jajaj thaxs
