Survey for incels.

[NealIRC]

1. What are your hobbies that are meant to cope with "the struggle?"

2. How do you go about attempting to try to attract women?

3. College grad? What major?

4. Had meaningful employment? (above minimum wage).

5. Use a flip phone or smartphone? Age upgraded to smartphone?

6. Have driver's license or take public transportation?

7. Have any pets to cope with "the struggle?"

8. Ever been banned in Internet forums or chatrooms because you're an incel?

I'll copy/paste and reply.

 

[NealIRC]

1. What are your hobbies that are meant to cope with "the struggle?"
Everything I learn is meant to attract women in some way. For example, if I learn how to make a website, then it's to make a website to attract women. If I learn a new programming language, then it's to code programs that can attract women.

2. How do you go about attempting to try to attract women?
Walk around shirtless.

3. College grad? What major?
BS major chemistry, minor computer science.

4. Had meaningful employment? (above minimum wage).
Nope. Employment-cel too.

5. Use a flip phone or smartphone? Age upgraded to smartphone?
Still use a flip phone, as the only people I text/call are my parents.

6. Have driver's license or take public transportation?
Public transportation. Until I get a girl, I'll upgrade to a smartphone and vehicle.

7. Have any pets to cope with "the struggle?"
Kitten, not into dogs.

8. Ever been banned in Internet forums or chatrooms because you're an incel?
A lot of places but not from being an incel, but could happen so I try to avoid talking about it.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Not an incel myself. But a good friend of mine is. I can answer for him.
1) games. movies. scifi. books. gardening.
2) zilch
3) Drop out.
4) not really
5) flip
6) public Trans
7) sort of
8) nope.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

1. Oh, you know, the usual stuff: competitive underwater basket weaving, extreme ironing, and professional snail racing. It really helps take the edge off "the struggle."

2. When it comes to attracting women, I've got my methods down pat. I serenade them with my virtuosic kazoo skills, and if that doesn't work, I showcase my proficiency in Morse code blinking.

3. College grad? Oh, absolutely. I majored in Underwater Firefighting with a minor in Interpretive Sandwich Making. My parents are so proud.

4. Meaningful employment? Of course! I'm currently employed as a full-time freelance narwhal whisperer. You'd be surprised how much they're willing to pay for someone who speaks fluent "horned whale."

5. Flip phone or smartphone? Pfft, amateurs. I'm still rocking a pager and a rotary phone, because nothing says "21st-century tech" like ancient artifacts.

6. Driver's license? Public transportation? Please, I exclusively travel by pogo stick. It's eco-friendly and provides a great workout for my calves.

7. Pets? Absolutely! I have a whole zoo of emotional support rocks. They're low maintenance, hypoallergenic, and they always listen to my problems without judgment.

8. Banned from forums and chatrooms? Nah, they just couldn't handle my immense knowledge of the mating habits of the endangered Spotted Moonbat. Everyone knows that's the hottest topic on the internet these days.

 

[corrector]

1. What are your hobbies that are meant to cope with "the struggle?"

Biking in trails, movies, TV-shows, music videos, writing thoughts on journals/paper, using VR-headset.

2. How do you go about attempting to try to attract women?

Try to lose weight.

3. College grad? What major?

Gen-X, graduated in 2000, had issues then too but at a younger age so I ended up with a mediocre Psychology Arts degree that's just a step above a high school diploma at the end of the day.

4. Had meaningful employment? (above minimum wage).

No, I'll be starting my first waged job on Monday, and I'm very excited about it. A salaried job to me takes me back into the 90s when I was starting to explore the work-world as a teenager and young adult. I had in the past gravitated towards Real-Estate which is commission based but it was terrible. I ended up scamming credit cards and playing credit cards for higher limits until I went had to go on a bankruptcy-payment thing. Real-Estate was too much of an idle job with haphazard lottery-like pay. However, during the pandemic, I switched from Real-Estate to Life Insurance, as I was getting covid-money and wanted to try something else rather than "waiting on Real-Estate". As of late, insurance was not an idle job and money did come in enough to beat the social assistance (ie made enough money to have month skipped out of social assistance).

5. Use a flip phone or smartphone? Age upgraded to smartphone?

Smartphone. Ex-wife introduced me to smartphone in 2014. Switch to smartphone in 2014. I was incel once we divorced in 2014 as I have not been with anyone else in 9 year.

6. Have driver's license or take public transportation?

Have a driver's license, have title ownership of a car under an oppressive car loan. (The previous car was totalled before its loan was paid off)

7. Have any pets to cope with "the struggle?

No

8. Ever been banned in Internet forums or chatrooms because you're an incel?

Yes, recently a Christian site. When I was younger, I was banned many other sites because I'm an incel.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I’m not getting women as much as in years past so I definitely feel like I am. I certainly was an incel for the first 27 years of my life. So ima answer this


1. What are your hobbies that are meant to cope with "the struggle?"
Video games, AI art generation, watching shows, porn

2. How do you go about attempting to try to attract women?
Online dating

3. College grad? What major?
Nope

4. Had meaningful employment? (above minimum wage).
Currently making enough for upper lower class

5. Use a flip phone or smartphone? Age upgraded to smartphone?
Smartphone. As soon as one came out. 20 I believe

6. Have driver's license or take public transportation?
Drivers license and I bought my car brand new in 2009. It’s paid off

7. Have any pets to cope with "the struggle?"
None

8. Ever been banned in Internet forums or chatrooms because you're an incel?
Hard to say. If I’m incel because I speak my mind then most definitely

on the flip side, my brother who is NOT an incel and lives with me, is this:

1. What are your hobbies that are meant to cope with "the struggle?"
Unknown

2. How do you go about attempting to try to attract women?
Unknown. Social circle is my guess or his job as arcade cashier

3. College grad? What major?
College drop out. Film studies

4. Had meaningful employment? (above minimum wage).
Makes less than me

5. Use a flip phone or smartphone? Age upgraded to smartphone?
Smartphone. As soon as one came out

6. Have driver's license or take public transportation?
30 years old, no car, takes public transit

7. Have any pets to cope with "the struggle?"
None

8. Ever been banned in Internet forums or chatrooms because you're an incel?
Unknown

 

[corrector]

I’m not getting women as much as in years past so I definitely feel like I am. I certainly was an incel for the first 27 years of my life. So ima answer this

But you are still getting women so you are not incel.

 

[SargeMaximus]

But you are still getting women so you are not incel.

I suppose but I’m trending towards incel and that’s the point

 

[corrector]

I suppose but I’m trending towards incel and that’s the point

To qualify for an incel label, of any sort, you should be in a dry-spell for at least 6 months, I've been in one for 9 years.

 

[SargeMaximus]

To qualify for an incel label, of any sort, you should be in a dry-spell for at least 6 months, I've been in one for 9 years.

I’m not trying to diminish your situation or take the spotlight away from you bro. But I have been on a dry spell for nearly 6 months before I got laid this year

 

[corrector]

I’m not trying to diminish your situation or take the spotlight away from you bro. But I have been on a dry spell for nearly 6 months before I got laid this year

It sounds like you are a nearcel-incel.

 

[SargeMaximus]

It sounds like you are a nearcel-incel.

Yup. I imagine incel next year if this trend continues

 

[SW15]

I am not an incel. I get laid.

This is a seducer board, not an incel board. The focus of this forum is not incel lifestyle but a lifestyle in which a man has sex with women.

3. College grad? What major?

4. Had meaningful employment? (above minimum wage).

These two questions overlap a bit.

College degrees are overrated.

The relationship between a bachelor's or advanced level degree and getting laid is unclear.

There are plenty of broke men with high school diplomas or GEDs who are getting a lot of vagina. These guys are typically tattooed dirtbags who look like they've been in prison and many have served jail/prison time. These men have the bad boy appeal. They are either working blue collar/manual labor jobs or other menial jobs like working a warehouse or line cook in a restaurant and they get laid. They are often getting laid with lower quality women, like Walmart or dollar store cashiers, but it happens.

An uneducated guy needs to give off an IDGAF vibe, look dangerous, and have the bad boy appeal to get laid.

An uneducated dweebish guy working at GameStop with acne and a neckbeard is not going to get laid.

Plenty of college educated men aren't getting laid either. These men are often men with bachelor's or advanced degrees in STEM fields. STEM majors tend to lack social skills, making all forms of Game more difficult. There are also men with degrees in social sciences or business and non-STEM jobs not getting laid too.

There was a recent thread on here about college educated men, typically 30+ making between $75,000 - $125,000/year, have decent social skills and fitness, and struggling to attract women.

Women Don't Want a Semi-Successful Man

Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media...

www.sosuave.net

5. Use a flip phone or smartphone? Age upgraded to smartphone?

A flip phone repels vagina. This question hasn't been relevant since the early 2010s. iPhones were first introduced in 2007. By 2009-2010, White, college educated women in big cities were expecting the men that approached them or arranged dates with them from online dating to have smartphones. Non-White women and women in rural areas were a couple years behind the 2009-2010 timeline in terms of their expectation, but not that far behind.

 

[Robert28]

To qualify for an incel label, of any sort, you should be in a dry-spell for at least 6 months, I've been in one for 9 years.

I’ve been an Incel many times then in my life lol

 

[DonJuanjr]

I’ve been an Incel many times then in my life lol

It's OVER for HasBeenButDidn'tRealizeItCels

 

[NealIRC]

A flip phone isn't to get me laid. It's to get a girl to "say something" to me. But I have no experience exposing my flip phone around women to test them, so damn.