Approach Journal: The Summer of NickSaiz65

[nicksaiz65]

Hey guys, I’ve wanted to do this for a while, and I’m finally getting around to it. This is an approach journal for the summer months, from now until September 1. Will be going hard on Cold Approach these months to generate more options and improve my approach Game. I will include all of the messy details here, including the rejections and nights I don’t pull. And of course, I’ll share the successes as well.

Any dates or closes, will have a summary and be linked in their own thread.

 

[nicksaiz65]

3/3/22: Vibing in the Car
Nightgame
Approaches Done: 10

This was somewhat of an interesting night. I met up with my wing to do some approaches in both the bars/clubs and the street. After pregaming on a few shots, we hit the venues.

We do a few approaches in the first venue, but nothing really hooks.

After that, my wing and I open a two set on the street. Each of our girls is quite receptive. My girl even comments on how good I smell lol. They tell us how sh*tty the last bar they went to was(they were only taking cash.)

So, my wing and I suggest that we all go to a different bar. So, they agree and we go to a different club, each of us holding hands the whole time.

We go to the second venue, and take some shots. The girls dance on us. We ask what they’re doing after this, and they say they have to go to the Music Center. We say that we’ll go there with them.

After a little token resistance, they agree and hop in the car with us. This is great, because I’ve been slammed by that safety objection in the past trying to get girls into the car.

We drive to the music center with them, and vibe out to music. My wing and I are both making out with our girls while in the car. In hindsight, I don’t think we really had a solid plan for pulling the girls. We mention that we’re having an afterparty, but their friend ends up calling them asking where they’re at. (He’s at the Music Center.)

We end up getting their numbers, and then dropping them at the music center. Then we game more.

I think we could’ve had more of a solid plan to pull. Said something like “Hey, we stay 3 minutes away. Let’s take some shots then go back.” Then banged them and brought them back. I could lead more on that too.

Good interaction all the same though.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I’ll be taking some trips for Game very soon. Now that my life isn’t kicking my ass as hard, I’m going through the JMULV Occam’s Razor stuff. JMULV’s stuff is really effective. I think it’s important to not end up in analysis paralysis from the theory, but you definitely don’t want to go in without a plan either.

I also can’t even remember the last time I’ve done Daygame. That’s an oversight. I’ll do that soon so I’m prepared for my Game trips.

 

[Stanley]

I’ll be taking some trips for Game very soon. Now that my life isn’t kicking my ass as hard, I’m going through the JMULV Occam’s Razor stuff. JMULV’s stuff is really effective. I think it’s important to not end up in analysis paralysis from the theory, but you definitely don’t want to go in without a plan either.

I also can’t even remember the last time I’ve done Daygame. That’s an oversight. I’ll do that soon so I’m prepared for my Game trips.

God dang that man is charging 500-700 bucks for his program. I hope it works for you genuinely cause that's a lot of money!

 

[characternote]

God dang that man is charging 500-700 bucks for his program. I hope it works for you genuinely cause that's a lot of money!

Especially when his 'method' is:
open - 'hey can I meet you real quick'.
She repies
transition; You tell her she's really hot and tell her you're a DJ or something to dhv. Ask how tall she is and tell her you're 6'5'' (dhv)
transition 2; Ask he if she likes grey goose vodka. She'll likely say 'yes'. Tell her it's your friends birthday and invite her back to your place for the birthday party where her and her friends can drink grey goose for free.
The end



That's his game (night game). I've watched all of his awful products haha $$$$$

 

[nicksaiz65]

God dang that man is charging 500-700 bucks for his program. I hope it works for you genuinely cause that's a lot of money!

I acquired the full thing through “methods” if you catch my drift

 

[nicksaiz65]

Especially when his 'method' is:
open - 'hey can I meet you real quick'.
She repies
transition; You tell her she's really hot and tell her you're a DJ or something to dhv. Ask how tall she is and tell her you're 6'5'' (dhv)
transition 2; Ask he if she likes grey goose vodka. She'll likely say 'yes'. Tell her it's your friends birthday and invite her back to your place for the birthday party where her and her friends can drink grey goose for free.
The end



That's his game (night game). I've watched all of his awful products haha $$$$$

I could see that, and some of his roast videos on YouTube aren’t needed. (Although some are absolutely deserved, like Sasha Daygame and Johnny Berba.)

But I have seen people get great results with his stuff, and I like how his method is simple without being overly gimmicky or gamey like I’ve seen with some other methods.

 

[nicksaiz65]

3/4/22
Nightgame
Approaches Done: 20

Not much to mention here. Just ended up getting blown out all night, despite doing more approaches than the last night. Couldn’t really get a set to hook.

I’ll have to reflect on if this is just random chance, or if there’s something I could be doing better to avoid getting blown out all night like this(such as practicing hooking.)

I’ll be going out both tonight and tomorrow with my wing, so I can field test this.

 

[nicksaiz65]

3/4/22
Nightgame
Approaches Done: 20

Not much to mention here. Just ended up getting blown out all night, despite doing more approaches than the last night. Couldn’t really get a set to hook.

I’ll have to reflect on if this is just random chance, or if there’s something I could be doing better to avoid getting blown out all night like this(such as practicing hooking.)

I’ll be going out both tonight and tomorrow with my wing, so I can field test this.

I just realized I set this date in 2022 lol

 

[Stanley]

I just realized I set this date in 2022 lol

Whole thread invalid, mods delete everything

 

[nicksaiz65]

5/3/23

Been a minute… wanted to give you all some updates.

Wanted to share a really funny rejection that happened to me and my wing. We approached a two set on the street, and before we could even get it rolling, the girl’s friend yells “Shut the fvck up!” Grabs her friends’ hand and pulls her away.

Needless to say, I was rolling.

Also, I’m highly considering getting a second job in the future(probably part time retail) to support my game efforts and make it easier to save money. Even making 70K a year, I can feel going out this much in my wallet lol. I’m a little too swipe happy with my credit card and I’d like to fix that so I don’t fall down that rabbit hole.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Also, here’s a recent win that happened while I was traveling. Took ya boi 92 approaches to get this one:

LR: Short Russian Girl

Just realized I never wrote a LR for a successful interaction that I had while traveling. Wanted to give you guys an update on that! I approached a short Russian girl from Daygame, it was a fairly quick interaction. I opened direct, and then got her contact info. She wasn’t available for an...

www.sosuave.net

 

[characternote]

Wanted to share a really funny rejection that happened to me and my wing. We approached a two set on the street, and before we could even get it rolling, the girl’s friend yells “Shut the fvck up!” Grabs her friends’ hand and pulls her away.

lol, I saw an infield quite a lot like that from that Vadim guy from honest signals.

He's by himself and approaches a 2 set, and straight away one of them shouts 'Go away. You're ugly!' and just brushes him off lol

He took it quite well in fairness. You can't make these girls like you i'm afraid. Game isn't black magic lol. Embrace the numbers game

 

[SW15]

Also, here’s a recent win that happened while I was traveling. Took ya boi 92 approaches to get this one:

LR: Short Russian Girl

Just realized I never wrote a LR for a successful interaction that I had while traveling. Wanted to give you guys an update on that! I approached a short Russian girl from Daygame, it was a fairly quick interaction. I opened direct, and then got her contact info. She wasn’t available for an...

www.sosuave.net

92 approaches to get laid isn't too bad. Plenty of men go well over 100 approaches per notch obtained.

 

[nicksaiz65]

lol, I saw an infield quite a lot like that from that Vadim guy from honest signals.

He's by himself and approaches a 2 set, and straight away one of them shouts 'Go away. You're ugly!' and just brushes him off lol

He took it quite well in fairness. You can't make these girls like you i'm afraid. Game isn't black magic lol. Embrace the numbers game

I’ve heard good things about Vadim. Iirc Austen Summers was his student too?

 

[characternote]

I’ve heard good things about Vadim. Iirc Austen Summers was his student too?

yeah. Vadim is really good. He's one of a very few PUA's who doesn't make me cringe and is actually smooth/confident/charasmatic etc.

BUT that doesn't cut any ice when he opens a girl who isn't into him (and they decide in about 2 seconds lol). He gets rejected a lot. Game simply isn't magic. You can't convince/manipulate/persuade a girl into wanting to bang you. It's a numbers game!

And yeah, Austin was his student

 

[nicksaiz65]

92 approaches to get laid isn't too bad. Plenty of men go well over 100 approaches per notch obtained.

Embrace the numbers game!

 

[nicksaiz65]

yeah. Vadim is really good. He's one of a very few PUA's who doesn't make me cringe and is actually smooth/confident/charasmatic etc.

BUT that doesn't cut any ice when he opens a girl who isn't into him (and they decide in about 2 seconds lol). He gets rejected a lot. Game simply isn't magic. You can't convince/manipulate/persuade a girl into wanting to bang you. It's a numbers game!

And yeah, Austin was his student

I’m totally fine with that. Blow me or blow me out as they say?

I need to watch more of his infields. He seems very slept on

 

[SW15]

I’m totally fine with that. Blow me or blow me out as they say?

@DEEZEDBRAH has said this multiple times.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Boy, do I have some stories for you guys.

Typing these up, there are a couple of pulls I want to discuss.

But before that, I do want to discuss a very interesting theory type topic that came up in my life. My goal is to keep this journal to 90% action taking, but I do think that this topic is worth discussing.