The power that comes along with having boundaries and dumping women when needed

tksniper

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Been messing with an ex, and to make a long story short; she pulled the "something is missing "card on me.

Luckily I been seeing other women, and although i kinda messed up with these other women by being emotionally unavailable, it did showed me a great contrast between how a woman that's absolutely falls for you acts,vs a woman that's highlighting your flaws.

Told her that its better to stop contacting me. She went nuts, telling me she was "just angry " . I told her that she actually was being honest for once and it's actually fine.

Its funny how good it feels to pull the plug instead of waiting waiting and waiting with the common excuse that's "she is a plate" and eventually she will "just be rotated".

No ,she has a "special place" but at the end of all this she is just another woman, one of many that came and many that will come. She reduced her self to "somebody that I used to know". Crazy how good it feels to take charge ,have laws and actually live by these laws.
A man must be impeccable with his word. His word creates his reality. Your word writes your principles and boundaries. Your word can create heaven on earth or hell. A man who is impeccable with his word never allows anyone to violate his boundaries, for his boundaries are written by his word.

The moment you allow others to violate your boundaries, your word loses its power and you end up living in other peoples realities, created by their words. And thus you are no longer an impeccable man, but a sheep.
 

The Duke

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A man must be impeccable with his word. His word creates his reality. Your word writes your principles and boundaries. Your word can create heaven on earth or hell. A man who is impeccable with his word never allows anyone to violate his boundaries, for his boundaries are written by his word.

The moment you allow others to violate your boundaries, your word loses its power and you end up living in other peoples realities, created by their words. And thus you are no longer an impeccable man, but a sheep.
strong boundaries are a must, but zero tolerance policy? Where do you find such perfect women?
 

Dr.Suave

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Been messing with an ex, and to make a long story short; she pulled the "something is missing "card on me.
Implying she lost attraction for you? I thought she was hinting that she wanted exclusivity/commitment
 

CyrusTheGreat

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Isn't she the ex who wanted to move in with you a few months back by any chance?!

Good think you didn't let her in ;)
 
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