Hot man summer (equivalent of "hot girl summer" ) is around the corner..

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How are y'all doing my ss bros.

Lets learn from the opposite sex. The summer is around the corner, so its yet another opportunity to reap some female connections. Make sure you don't miss put on all the action.

Summer is like a big party . Women will dress like slvts, longing for adventure. You MUST be ready this year!

- start hitting the gym RIGHT NOW.

- have a critical look at your wardrobe. Even if you are satisfied get some fresh new items.

- look at some men style sites/channels. See if there are some dope trends you actually feel.

-get some sunglasses that compliment the better features of your face.

Chime in and inspire the community. images (1).jpeg images.jpeg e98a87f0c8050b5ba690d09e5c2ab3e8.jpg
 
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Style is an extremely overlooked factor by men and one of the things a man can control. Usually guys that complain about lack of women dress really boring and neglect their hair.
 

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So that’s why i have to wait for so long for you youngsters to finish fiddling with your hair in an establishment restroom when all i want to do is wash my hands?

it’s not like you’re getting any better looking…

(it’s amazing how “metro” the stuff above looks) there was a time when men didn’t all look try to look like George Micheal…

Style is an extremely overlooked factor by men and one of the things a man can control. Usually guys that complain about lack of women dress really boring and neglect their hair.
 

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So that’s why i have to wait for so long for you youngsters to finish fiddling with your hair in an establishment restroom when all i want to do is wash my hands?

it’s not like you’re getting any better looking…

(it’s amazing how “metro” the stuff above looks) there was a time when men didn’t all look try to look like George Micheal…
A decent haircut(not the minimalist cheap ones your parents made you get) and clothes that fit you/make you look better go a long way. Idk why guys think they can look like slobs and expect to pull women lol. Also, guys have been dressing metro since the ancient times, idk why people act like this is a new thing.
 

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A decent haircut(not the minimalist cheap ones your parents made you get) and clothes that fit you/make you look better go a long way. Idk why guys think they can look like slobs and expect to pull women lol. Also, guys have been dressing metro since the ancient times, idk why people act like this is a new thing.
Regular Joes underestimate the power of tailored clothing. I started getting some of my shirts and jeans tailored and I look like a million bucks.
 

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How do I get the hairline/hair density and calves of the last guy?

I already have the fancy clothes btw.
 

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Oh I pay a great deal off attention to clothing and grooming but I don’t look like a gay 80s singer.

A decent haircut(not the minimalist cheap ones your parents made you get) and clothes that fit you/make you look better go a long way. Idk why guys think they can look like slobs and expect to pull women lol. Also, guys have been dressing metro since the ancient times, idk why people act like this is a new thing.
 
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Style is an extremely overlooked factor by men and one of the things a man can control. Usually guys that complain about lack of women dress really boring and neglect their hair.
100%

I've always had a good sense of style. And I notice when other guys don't, and I'm sure women notice it as well. Just another tool in the arsenal.
 

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Usually guys that complain about lack of women dress really boring and neglect their hair.
How should guys dress not to be boring?

What should they do with their hair?
 

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So that’s why i have to wait for so long for you youngsters to finish fiddling with your hair in an establishment restroom when all i want to do is wash my hands?

it’s not like you’re getting any better looking…

(it’s amazing how “metro” the stuff above looks) there was a time when men didn’t all look try to look like George Micheal…
I agree, but that "metro look " happens rather quickly when a man tries to stand out. The other pictures are even more metro/ghey akward looking .Its more of an inspirational thread, a reminder for us to be ready to "go through the trenches " well prepared .

I just googled " men fashion summer " and picked some pictures . And i gotta admit, i also hope some of you guys would contribute idea's .Even though its not how i look, i would definitely consider something like the last picture..

perhaps you or someone else can show something you like? Fashion is important, and this way we can educate ourselves on how to dress properly.

Admittedly, Fasion is not my strongest side so help me out!
 

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Lol, I searched Google like you said and found this.

Image may contain Human Person Clothing Apparel Arshdeep Dosanjh Fashion Skin and Giacomo Ferrara


What the fvck is this? Dudes dressed like chics. This was from Vogue “Redefining men’s fashion”. Problem with fashion is that most of the designers are flamboyant and gay AF. No normal guy would be caught dead wearing crap like this. Many of the women wouldn’t either for that matter.

Everyone presents themselves differently in whatever way makes them feel comfortable. Definitely helps to find a good barber to cut your hair. Our town as an old timey style barbershop where guys young and old can get a fresh hair and/or beard trim. They even give out free beer, bourbon or wine for the person getting the cut or the mom, girlfriend or wife that is waiting. Regardless of your hairline, everyone coming out of that place looks fresh and new.

A woman once told me that you need to find clothes that make you feel sexy. Get the right size and feel for your body type. Some clothes have different cuts and fit everyone differently. Seems basic but you gotta find whatever makes you feel comfortable in your own skin. The dudes in the photos @Gamisch posted are just different types of looks. Pic your own vibe and rock it.

My mom always used to push personal hygiene. Shower daily, wear some deodorant, trim your nails and maybe some light cologne if that’s your thing and brush your damn teeth. The basics, just don’t present yourself like a bum. I work with a hippy type dude and he reeks of BO by the time lunchtime rolls around. Pants are always too big and sloppy and shirts that are wrinkly AF. But hey, he lives near the beach and that’s a look for some. Not my vibe but to each his own.

I was meeting a woman I know and the first two things out of her mouth were, “I like your shoes…you smell really good”. I was just standing there waiting with fresh Vans high tops and wearing deodorant. Basic sh!t. She was enthusiastic and ready to follow my lead the moment she stepped out of her car.

It’s good to refresh your clothes and clean up once in a while. Builds confidence and it shows in the way you present yourself. Chics are really into shoes and often judge you for that, it’s weird but something they do. The same chic above wears these shoes that show off her toes and a heel that makes her a$$ bump out. I call them her “sexy shoes”. She always smiles when notice and say, “oh, you wore your sexy shoes today.” Chics put in an effort and like it when you notice, they will often reciprocate when you do the same.
 

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Lol, I searched Google like you said and found this.

Image may contain Human Person Clothing Apparel Arshdeep Dosanjh Fashion Skin and Giacomo Ferrara


What the fvck is this? Dudes dressed like chics. This was from Vogue “Redefining men’s fashion”. Problem with fashion is that most of the designers are flamboyant and gay AF. No normal guy would be caught dead wearing crap like this. Many of the women wouldn’t either for that matter.

Everyone presents themselves differently in whatever way makes them feel comfortable. Definitely helps to find a good barber to cut your hair. Our town as an old timey style barbershop where guys young and old can get a fresh hair and/or beard trim. They even give out free beer, bourbon or wine for the person getting the cut or the mom, girlfriend or wife that is waiting. Regardless of your hairline, everyone coming out of that place looks fresh and new.

A woman once told me that you need to find clothes that make you feel sexy. Get the right size and feel for your body type. Some clothes have different cuts and fit everyone differently. Seems basic but you gotta find whatever makes you feel comfortable in your own skin. The dudes in the photos @Gamisch posted are just different types of looks. Pic your own vibe and rock it.

My mom always used to push personal hygiene. Shower daily, wear some deodorant, trim your nails and maybe some light cologne if that’s your thing and brush your damn teeth. The basics, just don’t present yourself like a bum. I work with a hippy type dude and he reeks of BO by the time lunchtime rolls around. Pants are always too big and sloppy and shirts that are wrinkly AF. But hey, he lives near the beach and that’s a look for some. Not my vibe but to each his own.

I was meeting a woman I know and the first two things out of her mouth were, “I like your shoes…you smell really good”. I was just standing there waiting with fresh Vans high tops and wearing deodorant. Basic sh!t. She was enthusiastic and ready to follow my lead the moment she stepped out of her car.

It’s good to refresh your clothes and clean up once in a while. Builds confidence and it shows in the way you present yourself. Chics are really into shoes and often judge you for that, it’s weird but something they do. The same chic above wears these shoes that show off her toes and a heel that makes her a$$ bump out. I call them her “sexy shoes”. She always smiles when notice and say, “oh, you wore your sexy shoes today.” Chics put in an effort and like it when you notice, they will often reciprocate when you do the same.
I like your post, but lets cut this...degrading of men looking to level up fashion wise. By that i mean , why dont you post a picture of something inspiring and set an example. I dont say my pictures are that great,but this ghey shyte is just polluting the thread.

My fashion sense doesn't go further than the Caribbean tank top and some shorts. We know now that men and fashion are a slippery slope. As you can tell by some responses, men dont feel comfortable talking about fashion. Yet Chad and Tyrone will dress in such a way that Stacey knows within 3 seconds she "could do him".

Its crazy this topic isnt a priority for men, because its a vital part of seduction. Cmon gentlemen. Post some pictures that inspire your fellow DJ.

Edit: i just searched for "Vans men fasion" and this came up. images van (2).jpeg
 
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Ideally the thread will cover different styles for different men: bald,long hair , white ,black, thick thin, long short ect, so everyone can take some inspiration from this and INCREASE their chance to pull some dime pieces.
 

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I’m not a fashion styler so idk where to even start. Ideally you want a haircut that requires maintenance at the very least. No more if the minimalist once a month haircut and let it grow out. Your clothes are going to depend on you, your area, and the girls you target.
 

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I'm guilty of wearing all three of those looks to some degree.

The first one, I wouldn't wear that shirt but I do wear that chino/trouser w/sockless shoe combo (with a plain shirt, sometimes a blazer w/ pocket square ((if im feeling extra))

Second one, I have some ripped jeans, they are too ripped imo, but I am a sucker for a short sleeve floral shirt, a have a few of them, Hawaiian shirts

The last one is pretty standard, you need plenty of chino shorts and casual shirts, I wouldn't wear them with white converse though, timberland boat shoes, birkenstocks or some kind of air max 95/97's

I actually plan to wear shorts, birkenstocks and tshirt/shirt all summer long.

I started serious gym/diet in October so well ahead of the curve there.
 
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