The Duke
Master Don Juan
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I totally agree, but eventually it wears me down and I disengage. But why does a woman get a free pass or more consideration than a man? Why is the man expected to deal with it? Just to keep pu$$y around?My gf is always saying she’s leaving me,,,it does piss me off, but I’ve learnt to just laugh it off. You have to be the rock. Seems to me...this bird easily rattles your cage, and you get all emotional about it..like one of earlier posters pointed out. I’m also guilty of this, although I’m beginning to learn to adapt and handle my ladys outbursts. I used to have the mentality of nobody disrepects me and as soon as she does i'm out. Women do get emotional and she speaks about how she is FEELING. She dose'nt mean all the things she says, so very importantly, don't take everything she says personally. She just speaks of how she is feeling at that time, I love you, i hate you, i'm leaving you, i adore you, i hate your guts. My girl has told me that i'm a geek, she has said lots of horrible things to me, i have took a lot of them personally and asked her to explain her words. Lately though i'm realising she is just in a bad mood and trying to hurt me. Bottom line is she loves me and adores me and treats me like a king.
At the moment I’m willing to put up with this kind of behaviour. Because there is a lot of positives about my girl. She has her rants,,,i go about my business,,,she ends up apologising. Try not to get to emotionally involved. It’s easy to to get annoyed and shout and berate her , then storm off. NEVER react in the moment and don’t take things personally. She is looking for an emotinal response from you and yes,,she is testing you. If you want to enjoy these young birds You have to have the power to HANDLE her. Just say “look you’re all emotional right now, I’ll talk to you later. Go to gym, ride out storm. Reap rewards and her good points.
The best deal with the least problems is when she doesn't live under my roof. You can prevent a lot of the negatives.