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Why do chicks call you daddy when they getting smashed?

soulforge

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Have experienced this several times now.

During sex some girls calling me daddy. Ain't going to lie, it creeps me out a little.

I see it as a huge red flag. Either she has major daddy issues, or some childhood trauma.

Would you consider this a red flag?
 

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Dont overthink it. Enjoy the sex.
 

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Freud would probably say it's a submissive sexual thing. "Who's your Daddy?" <------- that right there is mainstream.

First time this happened to me I was with a Mexican chick. We'd be having sex, and once she started getting into it, she'd start calling me Pappy. While pumping away, I'd be saying to myself: "is she calling me what I think she's calling me?"

IME, girls love this type of talk. Women are a lot freakier than men. Once they know you won't be repulsed by what they like, they'll open up and let their freak flags fly.

These days, this kind of thing is way more acceptable than back in the day. Just look at the average porn video. It ain't just standard missionary sex. Oh no it's not..

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Have experienced this several times now.

During sex some girls calling me daddy. Ain't going to lie, it creeps me out a little.

I see it as a huge red flag. Either she has major daddy issues, or some childhood trauma.

Would you consider this a red flag?
Not necessarily. No one's keeping these broads in their place, it could be a subconscious manifestation of the desire for control and order.
 

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She can call me whatever she wants as long as she is my cvm slut.
 

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When you have a drunk girl calling you Daddy you are possibly on the verge of some great sex. Just bend her over and spank her while telling her shes a good girl. Trust me.
 

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When you have a drunk girl calling you Daddy you are possibly on the verge of some great sex. Just bend her over and spank her while telling her shes a good girl. Trust me.
Or a bad girl. Depends on the chick and where the moon's positioned.
 

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I get all that. however there is some deeper phycological reason for this?

Dad or daddy is someone who is her father... Why would she call a man who is pounding her azz her daddy?

I mean you guys ever smashed a girl and called her Mom in the process? Haha
 

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It's coming from a good place. She likely sees you as dominant, an authority, she feels you are taking care of her, she likes your power/control in the bedroom.

Don't forget all the other words that get used like "baby". Every couple uses that but it doesn't mean the other is an infant.
 

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The use of the term "daddy" by some women when referring to their partner during intimate moments can be attributed to a few different factors. It's important to note that individual preferences and experiences can vary, but some general explanations include:

Power dynamics: In some relationships, partners may choose to engage in consensual power play, where one partner assumes a dominant role and the other a submissive one. Using the term "daddy" can be a way to express this dynamic, where the dominant partner is seen as a protector and provider, while the submissive partner adopts a more dependent role.

Psychological associations: Some people may associate the term "daddy" with feelings of safety, security, and nurturing, which can be comforting and appealing during intimate moments. This doesn't necessarily imply a desire for an actual father figure, but rather the positive qualities often associated with one.

Cultural influences: Pop culture, media, porn and the internet can shape the way people perceive and engage in intimate relationships. The use of "daddy" in this context may be influenced by the prevalence of the term in music, movies, and online platforms.

Personal history: An individual's past experiences and relationships can shape their preferences in the bedroom. For some, using the term "daddy" may be a result of specific past experiences or relationships, which could be either positive or negative.

Taboo and fantasy: Exploring taboo subjects or engaging in role play can be exciting for some couples. Using the term "daddy" might be a way to explore these fantasies in a safe and consensual way.
 
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