Anyone know of any girls who stay single because "the guy" they want, is slow to proceed with her?

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Yes, they are pushing. They even invite him to dinner all the time and on special ocassions, like if they were official. But he wont budge. In a way the guy deserves some props for not budging but the way they tream him (like if they were official), I dunno, I find the whole situation a bit bizarre.

The usual: "Its my business", "I know what Im doing", "Stay out of it".
Sadly, yes I know a girl like this. Would still go out every weekend but not talk to or entertain guys.. Seemed almost like she decided at one point that it was just me and her.. it was almost like she had such a level of trust and an open heart that she just figured that we had a thing- yet we wouldn't even hang very often or anything...but there was def some undeniable connection there --where i felt comfortable just knowing i had her and vice versa-- Her feelings toward me went on for years but I was always on the fence about her from a like seeing a future or dating standpoint.. because i was already having all the benefits of that without commitment. I think both of us were cool with not committing to each other.. In the end when I had an intuition that she started lookin at other options, I kinda cut her off..

Its weird you feel like people that are like that are yours.. like made for you . Not in the romantic sense or spiritual or anything but like almost in a slightly egotistical way.. like u expect them to just always be about u because everything they showed u thusfar resonated with that

She was def something special though.. I still got a special place for her in my heart.. but not in the way that I would date or see a future with her..

@Stanley In my experience, the girl was super normal. She didnt even care about relationships and sex that much. for her it was more like a genuine from the heart type connection.. str8 up an Angel on Earth. She got me through some real rough times
So basically, both these girls have one-itis?
 

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