42, divorced mother of two, overweight with a mohawk hair cut. Changes her name from Desiree to Beautiful Existence, kids names are Edge and Epic. She then burns $7k on a vacation to marry herself…
Does this not scream “emotional damage!” Insert the sound bite here.
1st- Don’t name your kids when you are high. Kids are ruthless and will torment each other without remorse. Those kids will be teased by other kids until they get out of school. Growing up is hard enough without your parents painting a target on your back. They will be outcasts the rest of their lives with these silly names. She then changes her name to something ridiculous as if that will change anything.
2nd- She tries to date another guy post divorce and fails. Decides “traditional“ partnership is not for her. Sees other losers marrying themselves on social media and goes to Paris to marry herself. Sure, because burning $7k on a vacation to see the Eiffel Tower will somehow erase all your baggage. She’s going to need that $7k to raise those two kids.
3rd- Her look screams emotional damage. Why cut your hair so drastically? She looks like what I would naturally consider a lesbian. Work with two. One colors her hair a different color every other day and the other has a buzz cut around her head with a “man bun” on the top. Both these women are screaming for attention and try to be the center of attention on the regular. They organized an “identification day” at work last month. I’m sorry, but I know my identity and pronouns because I’m a normal man. No confusion here. I don’t give two sh!ts about your sex life outside of work, get back to work. I find all of this behavior extremely narcissistic. This lady is heading down the same path with this desperate cry for attention. Honestly, what kind of guy is going to want her when she looks like this? She has basically painted a sign on her forehead saying “damaged goods”.
She has a history of making irrational decisions. Maybe she should have spent the money on therapy instead. Fine she partied during her younger years but once you become a parent, you have to grow up and be a little more responsible. I feel bad for those kids because their mom is a nut job and they won’t have her as a stable figure in their lives.
What happens now when she returns home and the 15 seconds of “social media” fame wears off? Kids still need to get raised and life moves on. Her ex-husband probably paid for the vacation through child support payments and now will have to deal with her crazy until the kids are 18.
Articles like this confuse mental health issues with celebrations of achievement. She married “herself”, does that make her a female incel now? “Stunning and brave“ as Joker would say. If a man did this he’d be the laughing stock of the internet, but women are praised for doing irrational sh!t. You go girl! I’m sorry but I’m too old to see how this mess could be considered a celebration. Another example of running your life purely on emotion with no logic, reason or accountability.