Physically 7,8 and even 9's are quite common
A woman doesn't really need to do THAT much to get herself into this bracket
Be slim , have moderate curves , do makeup & hair well and dress provocatively ( show a little flesh )
Most men will be more than happy to put the above female archetype somewhere on the scale between 7-9
Conversely for a man to get into the same range he needs to be 6ft minimum , have captivating charisma / confidence , good looks , a head of hair ,good job, a nice car , some degree of muscle , local status and he needs to dress well
The bar is set A LOT higher for us
Most men cannot easily ascertain the above archetype so "game" was concocted by pickup artists too basically try and use emotional triggers and physchological manipulation to try and even out the playing field
For a while it worked .....really pretty women couldn't understand why men were doing things like "Negging" or acting aloof or running amused mastery they weren't used to it
Heck in the early 2010's i was cleaning up every single week
Then hyper connectivity came along and women started doing what they do best ......talking
Now virtually all of the old school routines have been exposed and as a result now come off as "cringe"
Now i am finding women don't want routines but they don't want flatline or generic conversation either because their attention spans are so poor
So have to go off down the comedic, spiritual or emotional routes which with a stranger in 2023 is VERY difficult
I am finding pickup is becoming much like copywriting you really have to find unique ways to capture the audiences attention and you have a very very short window to do it in
