What's the play? OLD

[BackInTheGame78]

I don't know what that means.

I'm not trying to make her think anything you jacka$$. I wrote "I am indifferent", because I was indifferent. And I remain indifferent. Ambivalent is probably far more accurate. Learn to read you sad, angry person.

I know I can get very thirsty. I oscillate in and out of it. It's fvcked. You don't think I know that?

Women bore the sh1t out of me unless I'm fvcking them. My desire to fvck them comes in waves. Sometimes it's not there. And when it is, I get fixated on it. I know none of that is healthy.

You can lash out all you want, but I'm not going to stop posting these situations. If you want me out of your gay little fiefdom then you're going to have to ban me.

Or you could actually give some useful advice, like others are doing. Instead of waiting after the fact to swing your 4 inch c0ck around.

I just did give you some useful advice. Stop being thirsty.

This one is probably done. Due to your thirstiness. Learn something useful from it instead of getting defensive about your misgivings.

Once you fvck something up to this degree with a new woman there isn't a "play", there is moving on to a new woman, learning from your mistakes so you don't repeat them and leaving this one alone.

You might not like the way I delivered the truth, but it is still the truth nonetheless.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I don't know what that means.

I'm not trying to make her think anything you jacka$$. I wrote "I am indifferent", because I was indifferent. And I remain indifferent. Ambivalent is probably far more accurate. Learn to read you sad, angry person.

I know I can get very thirsty. I oscillate in and out of it. It's fvcked. You don't think I know that?

Women bore the sh1t out of me unless I'm fvcking them. My desire to fvck them comes in waves. Sometimes it's not there. And when it is, I get fixated on it. I know none of that is healthy.

You can lash out all you want, but I'm not going to stop posting these situations. If you want me out of your gay little fiefdom then you're going to have to ban me.

Or you could actually give some useful advice, like others are doing. Instead of waiting after the fact to swing your 4 inch c0ck around.

Jerk off when you have stages of thirst. Multiple times if you have to. If you have a thirst issue, you gotta do what you have to in order to control it.

This is where the nofap crowd has it wrong. If thirst is affecting your game, reducing it is your top priority.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I just did give you some useful advice. Stop being thirsty.

This one is probably done. Due to your thirstiness. Learn something useful from it instead of getting defensive about your misgivings.

Once you fvck something up to this degree with a new woman there isn't a "play", there is moving on to a new woman, learning from your mistakes so you don't repeat them and leaving this one alone.

You might not like the way I delivered the truth, but it is still the truth nonetheless.

This doesn't help OP going forward with new women though.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

This doesn't help OP going forward with new women though.

The advice was already in this thread, OP didnt listen though. Instead he doubled down on trying to force the double/tripple-date.



*He gave her credit where none was due, that she would make his time better. (simp move)
*He more or less agreed to meet her on whatever circumstance she seems fit, and therefore failed to set the frame for a date. (not masculine)
*He gave her the impression that he was free all weekend and had nothing going on for himself, therefore his time is not valuable. (thirst for her pvssy is more important then other activities)

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This doesn't help OP going forward with new women though.

How doesn't it? His mindset is what needs to be fixed not anything that happened with a particular woman because the same mindset that caused this situation to go down the toilet will cause the same issues with other women until he decides to work on fixing it.

 

[Bingo-Player]

OP you are not alone this is a issue many many men face

You come across a girl you like ....... most men after about 27 have very few options readily available in the way of dating/ sex so a girl can quickly become the pinnacle of your entire universe

this desperate aura kind of radiates off you and its why so many gurus preach about " sticking to your own journey" to try and mask the stench of desperation

It doesn't help There is a lot of conflicting information out there about how to actually deal with women

I mean mainstream society would have you believe that being a good guy , being polite and treating them with respect will take you far

Your opening messages followed this plot line and this girl to be fair played along for a bit .....but by your own admission it just ran out of steam theres no tension .....she knows it , you know it the entire universe knows it

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Few women will openly admit to what they really want because they are ashamed of it and are constantly told by society to be ashamed of it

But i will open pandoras box for you

Women want the guy that will take unapologetic risks, they want to see & feel him put his balls on the line they want to feel your raw masculinity

Her fantasy is for you to have both the physical and psychological power to make her bend to your will that is what makes her little Pu55y start getting excited .....she doesn't want you to be polite and nice they are almost like negative emotions for women

She doesn't want to be in control she has no idea what to do.....it isn't feminine to lead

Control yourself , control the universe and then control her

( and yes i know it's a lot to take in )

 

[FinallyAlpha]

Jerk off when you have stages of thirst. Multiple times if you have to. If you have a thirst issue, you gotta do what you have to in order to control it.

This is important, and something that I have struggled with.

I was no fap for >1 week when I went on that last bout of dating / trying to date / fvck. I acted thirsty and I blundered some situations with women.

It has been 11 days since you wrote your reply, and since then my life has been... boring. I work. I workout. I fap. Repeat. I have no motivation and drive to meet women. That seems like a chore.

It's not good.

But in the past when I have avoided fapping (as a way to build motivation to pursue women), I have ended up doing the dumbest sh1t imaginable.

So it looks like, for me at least, that the way to go is no fap, and confront thirst and lack of game head on. Which is difficult.