Why Many Single Women Without Children Are So Happy

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The women who are happiest are the women who are single and have no children.

  • Single women without children are often happier and healthier than men and married women with children, research suggests.
  • Women tend to have stronger social networks outside of their romantic relationships.
  • Single women may be more selective than single men when choosing a partner, as they may enjoy the freedom provided by their lifestyle.
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Probably because in some sense they can keep perpetuating the phase where they get tons of attention from men without the responsibility of marriage and children.

Supposedly the more people they date the more difficult it is for them to pair bond with one man also.
 

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Probably because in some sense they can keep perpetuating the phase where they get tons of attention from men without the responsibility of marriage and children.
This is true. Childless women get a lot of attention from men.

From 18-29, during their peak desirability years, they get attention from everyone using every method.

Around age 30-35, childless women will notice that their in-person approach volume diminishes. This is related to both her declining looks compared to her early 20s self and likely an increase in responsibilities at work, which cuts into the amount of time she can spend out in the real world. However, most childless women in their 30s will adjust by using swipe apps and becoming more active on Instagram. The typical childless woman in her 30s will have so many tech-based options that they'll barely notice that they aren't being approached in-person much anymore.

Women ages 40-55 still get pursued a lot from the tech-based methods if childless.

Single women without children are often happier and healthier than men and married women with children, research suggests.
It depends on the age. If we're talking about 25-54 year old women (typical child bearing and child raising years for married women), then this could be true. A childless 35 year old woman has a lifestyle with freedom, whereas as a married 35 year woman likely has 2 children under 6-7 years old. The childless 35 year old woman has more time to go to the gym and be physically fit.

Women tend to have stronger social networks outside of their romantic relationships.
This is true.

Around the age of 30, most social circles become couples dominant. Social circles tend to treat unattached women more favorably than unattached men.

Also, married women don't tend to ignore their friendships with unmarried/unattached women in the same way that married men ignore their friendships with unmarried/unattached men.
 

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Single women are miserable. Look at how many are alcoholic, on anti depressants, and slooting it up riding the CC.
The life of a woman experiencing involuntary solitude is better than the life of a man experiencing involuntary celibacy (incel).

The woman experiencing involuntary solitude (insol) cannot get a long term commitment from a man, either in the form of a long term non-marital relationship or a marriage. The insol female is able to have sex nearly as frequently as she wants, unless she is severely overweight. She also has multiple female friends who provide her some emotional support, though she lacks true emotional intimacy with a man. The incel male lacks sex, an emotional connection with a woman, and is likely a social outcast from most conventional social circles. It's still better to be an insol female than an incel male, or even an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) male who experiences long sexual droughts when not in an LTR.

However, a fair number of insol females have mental health conditions, leading to use of psychiatric drugs and/or alcohol. Women seem to experience anxiety and depressive disorders at a higher rate than men, even with men lacking sex more than women.
 

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Around age 30-35, childless women will notice that their in-person approach volume diminishes. This is related to both her declining looks compared to her early 20s self and likely an increase in responsibilities at work, which cuts into the amount of time she can spend out in the real world. However, most childless women in their 30s will adjust by using swipe apps and becoming more active on Instagram. The typical childless woman in her 30s will have so many tech-based options that they'll barely notice that they aren't being approached in-person much anymore.

Women ages 40-55 still get pursued a lot from the tech-based methods if childless.
It’s funny, I can get hot girls in late 20s, and decent looking ones in early 40s. I cannot get any girl in her 30s.

When they are in their 30s, if they don’t know the guy from previous, the need and want James Bond. Nothing else will do.
 

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The life of a woman experiencing involuntary solitude is better than the life of a man experiencing involuntary celibacy (incel).

Blah, blah, blah.

However, a fair number of insol females have mental health conditions, leading to use of psychiatric drugs and/or alcohol. Women seem to experience anxiety and depressive disorders at a higher rate than men, even with men lacking sex more than women.
Your post contradicts itself since I dont consider having to take drugs, alcohol or mental illness a better quality of life.
 

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The women who are happiest are the women who are single and have no children.

  • Single women without children are often happier and healthier than men and married women with children, research suggests.
  • Women tend to have stronger social networks outside of their romantic relationships.
  • Single women may be more selective than single men when choosing a partner, as they may enjoy the freedom provided by their lifestyle.
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You should know better than trust some random pop-psychology study. Yes, old single women without kids are the happiest people alive. Their happiness can be measured by the number of cats they own.
 
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