Girl saying sex was bad as a **** test?

[Yungwes]

Hey everyone , first post here.

Been seeing a girl casually for around 2 months, we're both busy so meet up once a week , sometimes once every 2 weeks for sex, sometimes, though rare, back to back days, have banged about 10 times.

She's hot and 20 years old (a lot younger than me) and has been **** testing me and playing games from before we ever started hooking up.

So, the other night , we meet for sex, she's in a horrible mood before, we bang, near the end she starts moaning my name which she's never done before, obviously she's enjoying it.

When we finish she's in a way better mood, glowing, smiling, she's usually pretty closed and she starts opening up to me , being more vulnerable, looking me deep in the eyes while she's talking to me.

She could have left but hangs out for 2 hours after just talking and stuff.

Later on the same morning she starts texting me, gives a few compliments.

Then out of nowhere she says the sex was bad, not the worst she's ever had but bad.

Normally a man getting his ego hit like that might take it hard, but for some reason it didn't phase me even a tiny bit, I just got the feeling she was lying.

I didnt react negatively, just told her I didn't believe her and she didn't back off either that she was messing with me.

Then she says, you need to make it up next time.

What you guys think? Would she lie it was bad even if it wasn't just to **** test me?

She's young and hot with options so no point continuing with me if it really is bad, I don't do anything special for her, buy her anything, don't even take her out we just meet to ****.

 

[tightgrp]

You're way too invested and worrying about way too much here. Not worth GAF about. Women are irrational children. Would you get this wrapped up trying to analyze the actions of a 5 year old?

 

[Yungwes]

You're way too invested and worrying about way too much here. Not worth GAF about. Women are irrational children. Would you get this wrapped up trying to analyze the actions of a 5 year old?

Great reply bro, didn't answer the question and then ended with your own question.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Maybe she´s just saying things just to see your reaction, (so in a way, yes, its a test), who knows. Agree and amplify, joke it off, tease her, dont overthink it, keep banging her.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I think she was subtely telling you she was horny. By playing that the sex was bad, which she knew, that you kenw was obviously not true, that you'd would go "well, I think we better try again then" and start escalating right there...

 

[Dr.Suave]

"Well, I think we better try again then"

Yes! This would have been a better answer than saying you didnt believe her. Keep this line of thinking for next time.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I think she was subtely telling you she was horny. By playing that the sex was bad, which she knew, that you kenw was obviously not true, that you'd would go "well, I think we better try again then" and start escalating right there...

Genius. Reframing anything a woman does to your advantage is DJ calibre

 

[jaymbrs]

She’s telling you to eat her out next time.

 

[Yungwes]

Maybe she´s just saying things just to see your reaction, (so in a way, yes, its a test), who knows. Agree and amplify, joke it off, tease her, dont overthink it, keep banging her.

Thanks for the reply, great answer from you and also from donjuanjr,

Initially I didn't give it much of a thought and brushed it off.

Thinking about it after that's a kitchen sink insult imo, I think most non don Juan's would get pretty butthurt about it , start whining, probably trying to qualify themselves " other girls tell me I'm the best ever" , all of which would be the worst possible reactions hahaha.

I'm thinking if the sex was really that bad they wouldnt even tell you they would just ghost.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I'm thinking if the sex was really that bad they wouldnt even tell you they would just ghost.

Good point. The sex wasnt bad, she was just messing with you / testing you.

Do you have other plates or are you only banging her atm?

 

[The Duke]

Turn her down next time. It will raise your value and she will question her own.

 

[Yungwes]

Turn her down next time. It will raise your value and she will question her own.

Yeah for sure, she's easy to manipulate haha, ignoring her, not texting for days, ignoring texts etc. is magic with her , makes her want me more , also mentioning any other girls gets her crazy jealous.

 

[The Duke]

Yeah for sure, she's easy to manipulate haha, ignoring her, not texting for days, ignoring texts etc. is magic with her , makes her want me more , also mentioning any other girls gets her crazy jealous.

The girls that respond best to these kinds of things always have issues.

 

[BPH]

Then out of nowhere she says the sex was bad, not the worst she's ever had but bad.

Then she says, you need to make it up next time.

The fact that you wrote these two sentences and still made this post shows you take this way too seriously...there is no problem here.

 

[Yungwes]

The fact that you wrote these two sentences and still made this post shows you take this way too seriously...there is no problem here.

I'm not interested in whether I'm taking it seriously or not, more in the possible motivation of the female in question.

You should try to follow Dr. Suaves lead, he answered the question, and then also added not to take it too seriously, he added value and also made his own observation, whereas your post adds zero value.

 

[BPH]

I'm not interested in whether I'm taking it seriously or not, more in the possible motivation of the female in question.

You should try to follow Dr. Suaves lead, he answered the question, and then also added not to take it too seriously, he added value and also made his own observation, whereas your post adds zero value.

You wanna be coddled or you want an answer? You're overanalzying a playful sarcastic text where she is literally telling you she wants to f*** again and you're here on a pickup forum second-guessing your abilities in bed...

Your skin is much too thin for this kinda ****.

 

[Yungwes]

You wanna be coddled or you want an answer? You're overanalzying a playful sarcastic text where she is literally telling you she wants to f*** again and you're here on a pickup forum second-guessing your abilities in bed...

Your skin is much too thin for this kinda ****.

Haha, my skin is way too thin yet you're butthurt because you don't have any value to add to this discussion.

 

[BPH]

Haha, my skin is way too thin yet you're butthurt because you don't have any value to add to this discussion.

I'll see you in a few weeks when you take something else she says too seriously and f*** this up for yourself.

 

[Yungwes]

I'll see you in a few weeks when you take something else she says too seriously and f*** this up for yourself.

There you go again, sounds like you're projecting your past failures onto me. You must know from personal experience.

It's funny how many of these threads get derailed by bickering , try to stay on topic and answer the question being presented ,instead of making it about me or trying to ask your own passive aggressive loaded questions.

 

[EyeBRollin]

No shvt test. She is telling you the sex was bad.